This Little Parent Stayed Home Podcasts

Monday 20th of May 2013
Behind every successful parent entrepreneur are MORE parent entrepreneurs supporting, encouraging, and nurturing them. There has never been a better time for moms and dads to claim their place in society and earn their way to freedom. You better believe that YOUR CHOICE to be self-employed is making a significant difference for your children and the future that awaits them. Today there is a greater ability to connect with one another than in any past generation. Thanks to our unlimited virtual information sources... (social media platforms and the ability to carry it all around with you in a hand-held mobile device) gone are the days of the lonely house parent who's grown-up intelligence turns to mush from lack of stimulation. We have resources! HURRAH!!! =) =) There is a science behind all of this and when closely examined, it equals progress. It should come as no surprise that we are all --every one of us-- motivated by the exact same thing: The love we have for our children. We may be activated through different passions, career aspirations and lifestyle visions, but the driving force is still the same. Therefore...we MUST share the same philosophy. You MUST believe that there is a force that binds us all together. Not one of us will dispute that our families are worth the sacrifices that we make every day. YOU possess a powerful spirit. It was born on the same day your child was born... it's a determination that keeps us bound together as parents and visionaries. It's the same spirit that helped us to create and nurture our children, it's the reason we are BETTER TOGETHER, and why we should never allow things like LONLINESS, LACK OF INFORMATION or FEAR of the unknown become the unfortunate guiding force. Deep down that EMPOWERED SPIRIT is always there... and we can USE it to our advantage--- to step out of our comfort zone, apply for a business loan, or call up an intimidating client to close the deal. DO NOT deny this spirit!! You don't want your children to settle for mediocrity, so why accept that for yourself? Let go of those limiting beliefs and you will achieve a better perspective in all you do. If you are truly ready to be in a better reality, you must be willing to see things differently than in the past. Negative illusions might be holding you back from knowing that it is a grand thing just to be alive. More than that, it could be preventing you from broadcasting a powerful message to the world that only you were meant to deliver. If you are truly ready to become a pioneer, then you must be willing to invest more into your creative core. Make the world a little brighter.... more colorful... more magnificent. You owe it to the world to put your ideas into action! It's moms and dads LIKE YOU who started out with nothing more than a vision...and they FLAT OUT REFUSED to deny the world of their greatness and insane determination to be cutting edge. It's YOUR creations that will inspire millions more. There is tremendous value in living in the moment - in treasuring every trial and tribulation and having pride in your "war wounds". We learn through struggle. We become stronger each time we fall down. We gain valuable insight by DOING - much more than listening to others tell us HOW TO DO IT. Use your creative force to thrive on these endeavors. Today I will be introducing you to Michelle Van Otten, a transformation "Breakthru coach" who will be sharing with us how to use our uniqueness as parents and entrepreneurs to create MAGNETISM and the "it factor" in yourself and in your brand... no matter what you are "selling" to the world! =) =)
Monday 13th of May 2013
Today I will be interviewing this dedicated father and work-at-home business guru --who I have had the wonderful pleasure of getting to know this year. Rafael has already been providing heaps of VALUABLE BUSINESS EDUCATION and mentoring parents JUST LIKE YOU on how to earn thousands of dollars --EVERY WEEK--- around your kids' schedule. If you want to know how he is doing it... you'll want to tune in for the EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW tonight at 8pm EST on TOGINET LIVE RADIO. Rafael has got some pretty amazing giveaways for you as well. You don't have to wait for the show tonight to sign up for his Email Mastery Program and receive a FREE COPY of Internet Marketing for Newbies!! With social media, it has never been easier to uncover opportunities, engage in conversations, discover new information from trusted sources, and forge new relationships. Rafael Perez of Building Better Profits.com, business blogger, work at home Dad, and consultant to offline businesses unveils the same secret trainings he uses to generate traffic, capture leads, and convert sales. Some reasons why the trainings are so comprehensive is because it walks you through how to: build your own social media lead generation strategy based on a 3 simple step methodology, create & syndicate content for all parts of your business that drive traffic, and overcome roadblocks that derail you from targeted marketing campaigns and focus. These are the golden nuggets as to why brick and mortar as well as Home Businesses who market Online are successful while remaining relevant within their ever changing markets.
Monday 6th of May 2013
Unlock the Power of Your Mind. I LOVE PUZZLES. Crossword, Sudoku, Riddles-- even jigsaws. I wasn't always this geeky. As a child, I don't remember enjoying USING MY BRAIN this much. Not in the least. But as an adult...I not only see the benefits of keeping my mind alert... I FEEL IT. It's like exercise for my brain. I love figuring things out, narrowing down possible solutions through processes of elimination, pattern recognition, mathematics and science...searching for different colors, shapes, insights, nuggets of information ...to be pieced together collectively in a way that will bring new insights into focus --- unlocking higher levels of consciousness, paving the way for different opportunities and awakening new schools of thought. Sometimes putting our LIVES together can feel like a multi-faceted, big puzzle filled with unexpected twists and turns... but ultimately leading us to a higher purpose or a desirable end result... (WE HOPE!) Your BRAIN is the most valuable resource that you have-- and NO ONE can take it away from you. The Left-brain thinks logically and follows sequence while the right brain is creative, intuitive and emotional. When you are able to use both sides of the brain, you will find that your mind power is harnessed to its best potential and improves in critical thinking skills and problem solving ability. NOW we are being told that our brain has the ability to heal diseases, improve our quality of life, help us to fall in love, and bring us unlimited funds. The concept of abundance appeals to everyone for obvious reasons. We have been told that advances in the field of quantum physics over the last fifty years are beginning to provide scientific validation for principles like "law of attraction" and other creative concepts. It is no longer possible to blow off the reality of vibrational influences on our physical reality. It is believed that by implementing certain principles into your business, you will be able to spend less time on marketing efforts and MORE TIME on weighing your choices. Those who are applying these "beliefs" report feeling less stressed, more clear on their intentions, and their goals seem to materialize with less effort. Achieving Great Success Starts With a Bit of Reprogramming. It's not that I didn't believe in The Law of Attraction -- it's that as much as I WANTED to wrap my brain around this trendy topic (brought into pop culture through the movie, "The Secret") I couldn't help my skepticism. I had questions -- lots of them-- and without answers... it felt... like... an unsolved puzzle. And because I LOVE puzzles, I went on a hunt to unveil the big mystery. Last week we talked about "MAGIC" and how sometimes it is important to just --- SUSPEND DISBELIEF--- How to have faith in things we cannot see, but FEEL in our core. We talked about WHY believing in the unimaginable will lead us into creating new miracles. THIS WEEK, we are going to talk about HOW to put it into action. There is a learning process behind adjusting our stubborn and limiting beliefs into a mindset that produces INTENDED RESULTS. Whether you incorporate energy work, energy psychology, positive thinking, spirituality or simply a sense of conducting conscious business, you are essentially taking resources within yourself and applying them to your work. This process not only benefits you and your business but the world around you. Today's guest, Allison Sutter will be joining us to discuss holistic health, personal development and how to create lifelong abundance and prosperity. Her philosophies are based on the teachings of Bob Proctor, Celebrity Speaker known for his appearance on The Secret, Author of the best seller YOU WERE BORN RICH, and one of the most transformational leaders of our generation.
Monday 29th of April 2013
We could all use a little MAGIC in our lives. I have not even left New York - where I was HONORED to be on the stage at Mom Gets A Business Conference-- (I am writing this as I wait to board the airplane at JFK) -- and I simply cannot contain my enthusiasm for what I just experienced! When I first began this journey as a self-employed stay-at-home Mom, I was not only looking for a way to provide for my children that did not take me away from them every day, but also a way to nurture my desire to make an important mark on the world. I had QUITE an uphill battle ahead of me. I was determined to create wealth ON MY TERMS, prove to the naysayers that IT COULD BE DONE...and I didn't care that I didn't HAVE A CLUE where to start. But I had more than "a clue". I had a VISION that fueled so much passion in me... nothing would allow me to back down. Ignorance was most likely bliss... because if I REALLY KNEW what was ahead of me, I might not have ventured forward. I HAD TO BELIEVE IN MIRACLES-- and I learned to close my eyes and ears to the negative chatter. Now, when I am asked about HOW I got to where I am... I can't help but think of the remarkable women that I have chosen to surround myself with in my journey. These women taught me that MAGIC was possible. The Magic is already within YOU. Okay, if you think this sounds fluffy-- you are not far off. BUT... don't write off this message JUST YET. When I say "magic," I am talking about ALL that has been accomplished by those who had visions, followed their instincts, and broke new ground DESPITE being told it couldn't be done. I am talking about those who trusted their heart even when their head told them it wasn't logical, those whose ideas were rejected - whose confidence and self worth was marred - and those who found a way to create MEASURABLE SUCCESS against the odds. We must NEVER stop learning from those who have created magic before us. Every day new paths are paved FOR US ... so that we may be able to create our own. MAGIC defies the laws of science. We are all up against SOMETHING...that is what makes life INTERESTING. Trickery or not, the BELIEF in MAGIC is what fuels our spirit and feeds our energy to keep going. Join me on today's show when I introduce you to a Mom who needed to heal and created magic and miracles. Through her experience... she discovered her "super power" in healing others. Janet D. Thomas is the author of Lemons, Lemonade & Life - Practical Steps for Getting the Sweetness Back When Life Goes Sour. It's always a favorite topic of mine. Instead of seeing the struggles in our lives as a hinderance --- we can just wave our magic wands and turn those struggles into STRENGTH.
Monday 22nd of April 2013
Are you willing to do ANYTHING to build wealth and stability? Prove it. Back in college, I remember my professor of Acting 101 asked the small crowd of freshmen what they were willing to do to become "famous." The question wasn't meant to be rhetorical, but rather-- provocative. HOW BADLY DO YOU WANT IT? Because in the most competitive industry in the world...chances are... your competition wants it MORE. We were told that if you are not willing to do just ANYTHING, crazy or not... QUIT NOW and find another college major, another dream, a more "simple" paycheck, and an easier way of life. The good life wasn't meant for YOU. It was reserved for the people who were willing to do what most were UNWILLING to do. That was the lesson --- and it stayed with me. Kara Anderson was willing to CLEAN TOILETS to provide for her family. She sent an email to family and friends and offered to clean bathrooms for free... the only catch was if they loved her, they had to HIRE HER and then brag to their friends ABOUT her. From that thrifty beginning, she now cleans over 100 homes a week, employing 14 other moms and helping them provide for their families. A wife, mom, business owner and a breast cancer survivor, Kara is not a woman who lets hardship determine her fate. After losing her job in 2008 she found a way to take her passion for being a neat freak and CLEANED HER WAY to profit. Now providing ABUNDANTLY for her family with a six figure income, her business MAIDS ON THE RUN has become a nationwide franchise. What are YOU willing to do? This is a hypothetical question that... IF you are willing to ENGAGE IN... will, without a doubt, yield answers. Yes, you may EVEN have to work for free in the beginning, just so that others will take a chance on you and allow you to prove yourself. In lieu of payment, ASK FOR THE REFERRALS. It's a brilliant way to launch your service-providing career on the fast track-- without capital or even experience! Inspirational stores are all around you!! If you are looking for more... all you have to do is read the PERSONAL JOURNEYS of the parents who have listed their small businesses on OurMilkMoney.com. I AM INSPIRED EVERYDAY by these SPOTLIGHT STORIES of success-- especially the ones told by the moms and dads who overcame adversity in their lives--like Kara. Join us live on the radio today to hear my interview with Kara Anderson of Maids on the Run!
Monday 15th of April 2013
There are days where I am so overwhelmed with fierce joy, I wonder if I am living someone else’s life. You see, we cannot connect the dots going forward, but looking back… EVERYTHING BECOMES so clear. Imagine that we have always been traveling to be RIGHT HERE--- in this glorious moment in time. No matter how hard we work to create a road map--- it's always a shock when we ACTUALLY ARRIVE. Take a look around you...do you see how far you've come? I just had the great honor of speaking to a lovely group of (mostly) women entrepreneurs at the Shabby Lane Shop Small Business Conference in Nashville, TN …so very far away from home... and yet, so close. There were attendees who --I learned later-- booked their tickets to see me speak, because they were long-time members of OurMilkMoney.com, or listeners of the This Little Parent Stayed Home radio show. Ironically, it was I who was honored to be in their presence. I had many surreal take-aways... the first being when a woman told me that she attributes much of her success to the organization that I founded nearly 6 years ago. I remember my vision for OMM like it was yesterday, and I had only hoped that it would make a difference in people’s lives-- but I could never have predicted this recent... profound... moment when I realized that all those years ago, my decision to execute my vision ACTUALLY made a difference in someone else’s life. This told me several things: **It is important that we ACT on our visions and our dreams. Not only for US-- but for others. When we find success, we give others permission to do the same. The effects of our learning experiences will continue to expand and grow ALL OF US as a progressive human race. When YOU find success--- ultimately WE ARE ALL better for it. **When someone has made a difference in YOUR LIFE--- TELL THEM!!! There is nothing more invigorating and empowering than realizing your significance. The cognizance that YOU HAVE MATTERED can create enough powerful energy to light up a city-- or ignite a successful small business. If you are willing to tell someone else what they have meant to you… IT WILL come back to you. Trust and know that. **Numbers are not JUST NUMBERS--- they are PEOPLE… individuals with life blood and loving souls. I admit it, I am addicted to watching my radio show numbers go up every month. That is because in my "one-way communication" with you... this has become THE ONE way that that I am able to measure my reach... and the effects of the insight that I work to bring you each week. ...And so IT'S NO WONDER we get obsessed with watching our numbers... (YouTube views, Blog readers, newsletter subscribers, Facebook "likes", Twitter followers, etc, etc...) BUT it is EASY TO FORGET what these numbers represent: PEOPLE. These are not JUST downloads, subscribers, "likes" on a Facebook page, or a comment on a blog... each "number" is an opportunity to gain new insight into something that we didn't know before. Getting on the stage to speak publicly reminded me of how important it is for us to stay connected with each other...on a personal level. With more than 30,000 radio show downloads each month, I have fallen into the same trap as so many of you... forgetting what each number represents. It can almost make your mind EXPLODE with the opacity that EACH NUMBER is an ACTUAL PERSON--- filled with hopes and dreams... fears and challenges... and the choice --and desire--to make a difference in this lifetime. Each one of us is filled with experiences and memories that have created and molded us into our true selves. Each person we meet is an opportunity to learn something new-- and you never know when you could be meeting your next best friend. IT HIT ME LIKE A TON OF BRICKS--- how distant we can be from one another when we are all so fragile... it is so very... HUMAN. And yet, we DON'T have to live that way. We are ALL capable of living full and rich lives...especially when we CHOOSE to connect with one another. Next week, I will be speaking in New York at the Mom Gets a Business Conference- and I have discount tickets if you would like to take part in this terrific event aimed to inspire and create wealth for moms who are business savvy and are looking toward entrepreneurship as a means to personal self-fulfillment. I would love to see you there, and... if you are already attending... make sure to grab you FREE physical hug from ME- It's my signature giveaway =) !! Today, I have a really fun and brilliant guest joining us on the show- Mazarine Treyz. I’ve enjoyed getting to know her savviness in social media and fundraising, among other things. I admire how she carries her sense of humor and spirit of life everywhere she goes, and in everything she does. She is known as the WILD WOMAN - because she has created MANY valuable resource guides for wildly passionate women-- (my kind of gal!) Mazarine and I will be talking about how to GET OUT, GET BUSY and GET RICH--- because it really is true what they say about happiness and fulfillment being the true source of wealth. If you had actual access to my bank statements, you might be surprised to learn that I may not have many more dollars than you--- but one thing I can say for certain: I am wealthier than most. WHY? Because I am REALLY living. Really LOVING… really relishing in each and every moment that I am on this planet. I feel ALIVE!! Do you?
Monday 1st of April 2013
Launch a profitable business...BY MONDAY. Whether you’ve got a great idea for a business-- OR-- you are ready to take your job and SHOVE IT-- OR -- You already have a business that.. is... sucking... the.. life... out... of... you... A fresh and strategic business plan-of-action might be what was missing all along. If you are anything like me... you jumped into self-employment with 100% pure passion and VERY little knowledge of venture capitalism. GOOD NEWS FOR ALL OF US --- even if you did do things a little backwards--- ANYONE can learn this stuff... and come away with a PROFITABLE PLAN in a mere weekend. If serving others SERVES YOU, then basic business information WILL EMPOWER YOU. Moms and Dads... you are part of a BIGGER purpose and you SHARE your ambitions with one another. Parents who are PASSIONATE about providing for their children--- who also work to have a core understanding of business --can POSITIVELY IMPACT the world in a profound way. There is no reason to shy away from your BIG DREAMS because the level of competition -- or lack of knowledge -- frightens you. Resources are readily available to TURN ANYONE into a profitable business owner- with the right amount of tenacity and drive. Powerful business planning... made easy! Today, expert Ellen Rohr will be joining us on the live show to tell us EXACTLY just how to clarify our vision for an ideal business... with an exact agenda... from Friday evening to Sunday evening.
Monday 18th of March 2013
Choose your mentors strategically. If you are a SELF-STARTING, ACTION-ORIENTED small business owner, who is committed to taking your business to the next level--- you won't want to miss today's interview with Michelle Pippin. Last week we talked about my tribe of BBFs (Business Best Friends) with Leah Jantzen and Patty Lennon... who---ironically---had to take over the show last week as I drove my family "off the grid" to an out-of-state family funeral. ((Thank goodness for mom tribes and business besties... right???)) My tribe IS my support system... the gals who GET ME and accept me. In addition to my "tribe" I have 2 mentors---and these women serve a different purpose in my self-made career. They might "get me" but their job is NOT to pat me on the back and give me an abundance of "atta girls" when I need to be pushed passed my comfort zone. My mentors are there to help me to STRIVE FURTHER out of my reach... They DO NOT allow me to make excuses... or at the very least not TREAT excuses as ROAD BLOCKS--- and if it weren't for my mentors--- I would be swimming in circles year after year. "Business success is more strategy than secret" ~B. Michelle Pippin Many gurus would have you believe that business success is mysterious, mystical even… that there are “secrets” they can reveal that will have money pouring in....OVERNIGHT and --really?-- on "autopilot" (always makes me laugh!!) The truth is that there ARE tested and proven strategies for getting more clients NOW for your business or practice, and Michelle Pippin is the best there is when it comes to learning these "tricks" of the trade. What I have learned from Michelle is this---> the MAGIC isn’t in the “information”, it is in the application. If you want results, you are going to have to get creative in your EXECUTION of your strategy--- and this CAN BE done without compromising what makes you great as a passionate business owner. If your business could use a little "nip/ tuck" you'll want to tune in today--- and just a little tip--- you'll want to have a notebook ready to take notes. YOU WILL LEARN AN ABUNDANCE from Michelle Pippin--- because everyone always does!! ...and it won't take much for you to understand WHY she is one --of only two-- of my personal chosen business strategist mentors.
Monday 11th of March 2013
It is very common for mothers to feel...ISOLATED--Alone--Scared... and even DESPERATE for personal fulfillment. Many smart, savvy and educated women built tremendously successful careers in the corporate business world before venturing into motherhood....and then find that they are CRAVING the opportunity to create something NEW and LUCRATIVE from inside the home. New successes...new stresses...fresh solutions. I am going to be honest---very honest. I look around at my beautiful home, in the hills just north of Los Angeles, my happy and healthy marriage, my cheerful and well-cared for children... my large client list... (and subsequently)... my growing bank account... I HAVE ARRIVED! =) --- BUT--- from where I sit, the road can be just as rocky, if not MORE ROCKY because new successes can bring new challenges. I would be nowhere without my tribe. On today's live broadcast, I will be re-welcoming 2 women who I consider MY PEOPLE. Two of the most authentic and altruistic women in my professional life today.... Patty Lennon and Leah Jantzen--- and I have to tell you WHY they are a cut above the rest... and why they hold such value to me as a mom who is fighting to make a difference. Even in their most intense and wild determination to build wealth, success and personal fulfillment, I have NEVER known either of them to compromise their personal integrity or WHO THEY ARE as women... as they support and advocate for other moms in business. You may remember them from past shows: Empower Yourself, Empower the World and Who is On Your Support Staff? (with Patty Lennon), and Sports Widows and Rock Your Business while Rockin Your Babies (with Leah Jantzen) As I've moved up the rungs of my self-made career ladder... I've noticed that ---although the view from the top is BEAUTIFUL--- the ladder becomes a bit more rickety the higher you go. I had --mistakenly-- aligned myself with some "false leaders" who only APPEARED to be successful. I became increasingly saddened to discover that some of the mentors I had been looking up to (were merely) con-artists in disguise...Gurus who were CREATING an illusion of grandeur and false perception of prosperity and fulfillment. What's more--- I began to feel -- almost as if... they didn't REALLY WANT me to succeed. Once I saw with fresh eyes the CLEARER picture of where I had (unfortunately) landed... a cut-throat industry filled with big egos and easily threatened RIVALS who would STAB and SABOTAGE their own colleagues for the mere HOPE of crossing the finish line first... ((GAG!)).... I clamored to find MY PEEPS. ---AND --- (phew!) I found them! Had it not been for MY TRIBE... I might have remained disenchanted. MY TRIBE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME... ---If I need a good cry....(and to once again find the road back to LAUGHTER!!) ---If I need to find my focus, clarity, and purpose... ---If I am challenged by a business goal... ---If I need to reinvent... ---If I need to brainstorm. I ---HONESTLY--- don't know where I'd be without my tribe. These are women (and mothers) who get ME (not who I might appear to be.) These are women who are rooting FOR ME. (Not secretly hoping that I will fail or worry that MY SUCCESS might dampen their own spotlight.) These are women who will NEVER FAULT me for having a setback or seeking support and a pick-me-up, or choosing to be 100% ME. THIS IS SO RARE...but not impossible to encounter in your own lives. When YOU are feeling sad, or clouded , or scared or alone--- YOU MUST HAVE A TRIBE who you can count on to boost you back up, remind you of your purpose, what you are capable of and help you to cleanse the energetic vibration of your passionate ambition to serve others. Join our clan. In April 2013, Patty Lennon will be bringing us the Mom Gets A Business Conference! This empowering event promises to serve MANY purposes for women who are ready to invest in themselves! If you are looking to CREATE WEALTH with flexibility and freedom-- AND build a network of women who are forever rooting for your unwavering personal fulfillment-- JOIN US! Leah Jantzen and I are proud to be part of the line up of high leveled inspirational speakers who have grown their businesses and found personal fulfillment --- while still being the moms that they always wanted to be --- and WITHOUT clawing their way to the top by scratching each other's eyes out. Yes. This environment EXISTS... for all of us. Entrepreneurship is a terrific solution for Moms seeking personal and professional fulfillment. At the conference, 200 moms of school-aged children will discover a support network that works for their lives and their families. http://www.momgetsabiz.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/MGAB_April26_tile.jpgThe Mom Gets a Business Conference is the answer to the greatest need a woman with children has today: to create wealth with flexibility and freedom. Founder Patty Lennon will lead 200 women through starting their own businesses from home, while still getting to be the kind of moms they want to be. This special one-day conference will give moms the tools to access their personal power and start their own businesses on their own terms. They will learn how to create a business using the skills they already have, and get a step-by-step action plan for building their businesses and creating support networks.
Monday 4th of March 2013
Play Big. Play Bold. Moms and Dads --- those of you who are running your own business --- do you realize that YOU are a unique breed? You are powerful, motivated, service-oriented -- and most of you <> launched FAST into business with nothing more than an idea ...and some faith. What happens when a business is run with ---oh... not much more that that? Working too many hours and getting nowhere fast. If you are a small business owner (and a MOM or DAD!)...you can't even PRETEND that you don't relate to the bold header above =) It's no fun being BUSY and BROKE... and ---really--- it doesn't make much for healthy living OR healthy parenting OR healthy business growth and sustainability. Business Moms and Dads, it's NO WONDER that you struggle with balancing parenthood and personhood with businesshood. Instead of working harder, it's time to STRUCTURE smarter. Once your business is ORGANIZED, you may be ready to hire out the pieces ---with success. Keep the big picture in perspective. Small Business expert and leader, Kim Flynn will be welcomed onto This Little Parent Stayed Home today to show us HOW we can to stand in our power as the CEO of our business and WHY the role of leadership can never be hired out. In addition, we'll be talking about WHY we need training, WHAT kind of training will most benefit us (and not tease us or break our banks with empty promises!) HOW to set up a support system, and HOW to eliminate focus leaks. It doesn't matter if you are a BEGINNER in your biz or an EXPERIENCED business parent with a purpose, YOU. WILL. LOVE. Kim's NO APOLOGY content and no-nonsense style! Looking for a check-list of to-do’s to immediately implement into your business? Tune in to today's show!
Monday 25th of February 2013
Blight? or Blessing? Depending on the way you look at things, this generation's fast booming presence of the internet can feel overwhelming to some, and over bountiful to others. C-H-A-N-G-E is not always easy, but if you are willing to progress forward, you are more likely to beat the rush hour of the cyberspace highway. ---Are we like mice trapped in a maze waiting for someone else to give us the "cheese" that we feel ENTITLED to?--- Revisit this past show where we talked about the cult favorite book --> Who moved my cheese? <--and how YOU could be killing off your business and joining the extinct by simply wishing for the things to return to how they "used to be". GET UP TO SPEED! Technology of the 21st century has radically changed our daily routines, our opportunities in business and our family lives in new and REVOLUTIONARY ways. Instead of feeling inconvenienced by the digital age we live in -- try showing some GRATITUDE. After all, most of us would never have the small businesses that we do without data technology --without the blog-o-sphere-- without cyber-connection-- without DIGITAL MOBILITY. Mobile Websites: Your new business card. So-- you finally understand the importance of having an online presence--- you broke down and got yourself a snazzy business website. ---DON'T GET TOO COMFORTABLE--- because NOW it's time to make your website "mobile friendly." WOW. Just when we were starting to feel "in the game" the game has changed... AGAIN. The new reality is that 70% of online searches are now done on mobile devices. Congratulations. If you have kept up so far--- your website allows you TO BE FOUND online. Now it's time to get MOBILE FRIENDLY. Stop the endless pinching, scrolling, and copy-pasting to make a phone call. Did you know---? 59% of mobile users only look at the first page of a website. 74% of mobile users will leave a mobile site if it doesn’t load in 5 seconds. 50% of mobile users are unlikely to return to a site if they had trouble accessing it. 33% of mobile users choose to go to a competitor’s site rather than reload the site they are trying to access. Don't act as if we've never been here before. Remember VHS tapes? Not only did we convert those big bulky organizational nightmares into shiny little DVDs, we found digital recording devices (DVRs), flattened out our TVs and widened it's screens to recreate the experience of sitting in a movie theater. We even went back and converted old films and home movies into the new format. NICE--NEAT--CONVENIENT. How about telecommunications? Answering machines that "ate up" your messages with tangled up tapes are a long gone thing of the past and have been replaced with film-less --cyber-- voice mail messaging and the ability to reach ANYONE instantly through TEXTING. You have no choice to keep up ...and... it's a good thing. On today's live show, expert Karen Kanefsky-- from GopherMobile.com --will be educating us on the need to make our business websites "mobile friendly" and how to upgrade our customer's digital experience when connecting with us ON-THE-GO. Tomorrow's Opportunities Are Being Created Today. If you have a "spark" of an idea, and the passion to drive it forward, you won't want to miss the first 10 minutes of tomorrow's show. Tory Johnson will be making an UBER special appearance to tell us why YOU should be attending this year's Spark and Hustle-- and why you will get even more out of it THIS YEAR. Want to know why I am such a fan of Tory Johnson? She listens. She cares. She is motivated by YOUR success... not her own ego (like so many other business guru's tend to be --In my HUMBLE opinion... ahem...) Spark and Hustle is more EXTREME than ever because this year there will be LESS LISTENING to other people's success stories, and MORE CREATING of your own success stories. That means, more ACTION PLANS, more PERSONAL FEEDBACK from Tory and her team of experts, and more ways to maximize your BBFs (Best Business Friends). What you will NOT GET is a bunch of empty motivation, waste of time "networking" with people who are only there to "sell AT you" or aggressive selling from the stage to entice you into a package that you don't need. If you are ready for REAL RESULTS for your business THIS YEAR... and you have THE MUSCLE--- Get your Spark "Hustled"!!
Monday 18th of February 2013
Body issues: Everyone has them. I don't think I've met a single person who simply loved the body in which they were born. Men... Women...everyone has an issue with SOME PART of their body. At least most grown-ups do. Young children seem to be different...for the most part. They have no problem running around, being naked and loving all their parts. So when do the body issues start? ---AND---more importantly ---WHY---? In today's society we are now seeing more children under the age of twelve developing eating disorders. Anorexia nervosa and compulsive eating are the most common among such young children, but there are cases of bulimia being reported. It is estimated that 40% of nine year olds have already dieted and we are beginning to see four and five year olds expressing the need to diet. Are young children being robbed of their childhoods? Why is it that so many young children are becoming obsessed with dieting and their weight? More reason to LOVE THE BODY you are in. Children are at a risk for developing an eating disorder if the parents themselves are too preoccupied with appearance and weight. If the parents are constantly dieting and expressing dislike towards their own bodies, the child will receive the message that appearance is very important. Eating Disorder Awareness week is coming at the end of February. The point of today's show is to make US AWARE of how our own stresses and negative body images affect our children. If they are going to grow up to love and accept their bodies, they must be raised to love and accept themselves. Today Ryan Sallans returns as a guest on the show to discuss how to have a positive attitude about our bodies, and how we can save our children from self-esteem issues.
Monday 11th of February 2013
Stepping up and standing out. We are truly living in a generation of possiblity. If you want to bring your career home, there really are no more excuses. Whether you have invented a product, conceptualized a must-need service, or simply want to join a ready made direct sales team-- opportunities are abundant! Filling an existing need. There are dreamers and then there are DOERS. So many of the successful mom and dad entrepreneurs that have visited us on This Little Parent Stayed Home took their struggle and turned it into a solution. Their darkest hour and most challenging moments became the seed in which their business eventually blossomed. Filling an existing need doesn't just mean creating something where once there was nothing. Not an inventor? No problem! Filling a need might mean knowing how to align your personal attributes -- your skills, your talents, your visions, your RESOURCES-- with the available opportunities. Opportunities are abundant! Don't see them? You may be walking through life with your EYES WIDE SHUT. Every day I see social media posts from a friend or colleague who is in need of some kind of support. Step up with your hand raised high! Mom and Pop have firmly found their place in the new economy. Much of this economic revolution came about from a renaissance of ideas and a need for change. Family life was the new priority and therefore family-run businesses began to boom. Some didn't make it, but continued to reinvent themselves until a decent way of life was restored. Others navigated paths to success on their own accord -- by exceeding their own expectations, staying fueled by passion and MARCHING ON!! Everyone has a story. When spoken from the heart, most stories will sell. One of my favorite stories of success comes from my good friend, Amy Beth Pitcher, the owner and creator of Country Home Gourmet, a direct sales and party plan company that was seeded, planted and grown -- from scratch-- by herself and her husband, Shane. In addition to being a business leader and an inspiration to hundreds of personal consultants across the country, Amy Beth served in the United States Airforce while raising her family. For those of you who are members of the OurMilkMoney.com business directory for parents, you may recognize Amy Beth as our Membership Director! (So now you know why I may be a bit biased about today's guest) but once you meet her, you will know exactly why I wanted to show her off and share her magnificent story with you. Amy Beth is a woman with such integrity and commitment in everything she does -- no matter where her family business journey takes her. One of the things I love about her ... besides her spark and her enthusiasm... is her complete transparency and her willingness to tell it like it is. Join us on the show today to hear about how Amy Beth's "pilot idea" grew into a nationwide party plan company, and an opportunity for more moms and dads to build a family business.
Monday 4th of February 2013
Activate your Authenticity. I never really intended to be a social media coach, but one day I just happened to crack a code on a social media platform. This simple equation allowed me to drive traffic with just a quick click of a button. Before I knew it I had completely reinvented myself and I had a wait-list of clients who were willing to pay me top dollar to share my secret with them. The secret is that there really IS NO SECRET online or offline that you can't figure out for yourself. The simplicity of what I discovered is no different than good old fashioned selling through authentic engagement and personal connection. Everything I know about increasing your bottom line in business through social media navigation is completely and totally visible. These aren't just numbers. These are people. There is something that feels very artificial about easily driving traffic through interpersonal connections, and yet contrary to how it must sound, every message I broadcast is generated from my genuine passion. NOTHING is sly or fraudulent about how I've increased my following or how I've taught others how to increase theirs. I am willing to bet that if you were to separate the successful moments in your business from the not-so-successful ones, the BANKABLE moments DID NOT come from the manufactured tech messages that were sent from your automated services. They came from real conversations that grew from real relationships based on an equal give and take. Stay connected digitally, but separate yourself from the marketing hype and connect on a personal level. We've all had negative social media experiences and therefore we ourselves know what we will not tolerate when it comes to buying into someone else's hype on the internet. Yet when increasing our own bottom line in business and turning a profit, there is a disconnect. We often find ourselves committing the same bad behaviors that we resent in others. "Everyone is talking, but no one is listening." This is the way that my clients often describe their experience in social media and networking platforms. They feel bombarded and overwhelmed by the LOUD and confrontational messages they see from other small business entrepreneurs - which can and often does result in feeling small and invisible. The thunderous and overbearing business agendas on these crowded platforms can be downright deafening. Do we really need to play that game to have a chance at success? Selling on social media might feel a bit... unnatural. Small businesses don't always mesh with high impact and aggressive sales tactics, so what you think might be an aversion to online selling might actually be an indication that you have what it takes to form everlasting and solid relationships with your clients. Authenticity feels right. Artificiality doesn't. A good business cannot survive on passion and enthusiasm alone. Sales MUST BE part of the equation, but online selling does not need to be mass produced and manufactured. Even your automated processes should be authentic, organic and compelling. The trick is to adequately balance your online presence with a strategic system that keeps you engaged at a personal level. On today's show, I'll be introducing you to a friend and colleague, Laurie Hurley. Known as the Social Media Navigator, Laurie will be telling us how to streamline and accelerate our online presence on social media without the overwhelm, and in an organized fashion.
Monday 28th of January 2013
Are you passionate about working at home? Lisa Kanarek is. She thrives on the freedom and she celebrates it every day. Making the choice to bring your career home can initially feel like the most liberating move a person can make. I mean let's face it, you can't get fired. You can play hooky anytime you feel like it. You can work in your pajamas, or even naked if you were really so inclined. You can earn as much as your little heart desires without that annoying glass ceiling. What could be better? The sad truth is that being your own boss isn't always as glamorous as it seems. Working at home can get messy. We become clumsy, disorganized, caught up in the double (and triple) duties of being a homemaker and a parent and an entrepreneur. We are always very busy, but often very broke. The passion we feel about our careers gets buried beneath the not-so-fun administrative tasks, the little concentration breakers (those darn kids!) and the pressure we put on ourselves to get an income for our effort. We begin to wonder if we were just overly ambitious in our goals to "do it all." Improve the way you work at home, and you'll fall back in love with your business. On this evenings broadcast, I will be introducing you to work-at-home maven Lisa Kanarek. We'll be chatting about how to get back that entrepreneur enthusiasm and take it to ultimate celebration. Lisa will be sharing productivity tips, strategies for a more efficient home office and time management solutions for the busiest boss moms out there. Together we'll find that groove that makes us great.
Monday 21st of January 2013
COEXIST is a documentary film making an impact on young people's lives. "Coexist is a thought-provoking and compelling film that resonates profoundly with anyone who views it. It underscores the sheer complexity of the Rwandan genocide and subsequent efforts at reconciliation, and provides a deeper examination of hatred and forgiveness." - Connecticut Teacher of the Year (2012), David Bosso This Boston-based educational documentary film project, "Coexist: Bridging the Divide Between Us and Them," aims to teach students about genocide to increase their awareness of "othering," which can range from pushing and teasing to bullying and hate crimes. Educating our children is the best way to create awareness, tolerance and ultimately end violence in communities. "Coexist" has been featured in film festivals, conferences, schools, and universities around the world following its world premiere in Boston, and has been selected by American Public Television for distribution to public television stations across the country, extending its reach to more than 100 million viewers. This week we will be interviewing the director of this critical and significant film, Adam Mazo who has drawn parallels between the events in Rwanda and attacks by school bullies, suggesting peer pressure can push nonviolent people to commit violent acts, whether it’s throwing someone’s backpack in the trash or committing more extreme acts such as genocide. A reflection about bullying is a productive way for us to understand violence in communities. We cannot pretend that we don't relate. If anything, practicing extreme tolerance helps us to understand why bullying occurs, and what we can do to prevent it. It's not always as simple as a deep rooted lack of self esteem that motivates one group to dominate over another. In the case of Rwanda, and how it mirrors events on our playgrounds, often those who bully are protecting themselves from the wrath of the group by pledging loyalty. This is a also a mob mentality: bully or be bullied. We've discussed peer pressure and bullying in the past, but never from this angle. A passionate subject for me, as I was just "cyber-bullied" not too long ago, I am pleased to be able to recognize Adam's great work and do my part to pass this important message forward.
Monday 14th of January 2013
It's spirituality that drives our visions and decisions. I was raised to be agnostic...to keep my mind open to all possibilities. It has served me well on most accounts, but there were times when I needed more. I needed to have...FAITH. Without faith, what else is there? Whether you believe in a higher power or not, you have a spirit within you that drives your ambitions, your visions for success, the way that you raise your children to have morals and values and the way that you respond to life's adversity. We love, we hate, we laugh, we cry, we fight with our best friends and our spouses, we make up, we yell at our kids and then hug them a little too tight (ouch, mom!), we make ourselves over, reinvent and rebrand. We are progress. We question everything we do, even when we are most firm in our convictions. We pray even when we don't fully believe. We hang in there even when we most feel like throwing in the towel. We mourn losses and celebrate victories. We are the human spirit. We make the world go around with what we can't see but believe is there. Faith. This week I will be introducing you to one of my favorite people in the world... my good friend Geraldine Teggalove. She is a person just like me and you - with a story of struggle and a new emergence into self-realization and now a spiritual mentor for others. I've learned so much about the human spirit through Geraldine, and this week I am pleased to be able to share her and her prosperous wisdom with you. So many wonderful topics will be covered today, including mysticism, parenting from a metaphysical point of view, understanding our Crystal, Rainbow and Indigo Children, and if there is time, we may even get Geraldine to do a mini nature spirit reading... or two. It is also my privledge to introduce you to the newest member of my team, Danielle Bach. She is my assistant, my booking producer, my co-host, and my rock. It took me awhile to find her, but now that I have, my plan is to keep her forever. Please take a moment to read about these special ladies below.
Monday 7th of January 2013
Happy New Year. Now get back to work. Changing our moods to match our surroundings isn't always easy. We ventured into solo-preneurship because we wanted the freedom to be able to work, play and sleep on our own. We chose our unrestricted and self-led careers so that we could "leave work at work" and take long breaks to celebrate the holidays with our families among other things. Although I am grateful to have that luxury of turning around the "Closed" sign in the window for the last 2 weeks of the year I admit that it is always a struggle for me to shift into vacation mode or "mood". I love my work. It's not easy to turn off this brilliant brain of mine (ahem). When I get into a productive momentum, I don't want to stop for anything. Not even chocolate covered candycanes and eggnog. This hot mom / workaholic / home maker needs to be given an annual intervention at the same time every year. It has become a ritualistic detox for me to turn off my smart phone and leave it off to stay present in the holiday festivities. Interestingly enough, once the holidays are over and it's time to go back to work, it's a struggle to go back to the work mindset. There is a new detox that needs to take place. I am just not in the mood. By this point, I've gotten happily accustomed to waking up late with the kids, hanging out in pajamas to sing Wii Karaoke most of the morning, eating left-over apple pie for breakfast, snacking on gingerbread houses and chocolate truffles, and having "words with friends" marathons with old college friends all. day. long. Snap out of it. Remember your purpose. Once we get clear and remember our higher intention, it shouldn't take long to snap back into the profit-producing mindset. After all, it is the choice we made to work hard in our independent careers that allows us to have long vacations as a result...and as a reward. We've earned the right to be able to get lost in our hazy lazy vacation moods without losing our shirts. And we'll earn it again. And again. Let's get PUMPED. I cannot wait to get going in 2013. There is a world of possibility waiting to be attained in small business and Mompreneurship! Mom business leaders are the new sexy of the decade and we are venturing into more opportunities than ever before. I am fully prepared to get you into the profit-producing mindset and give you the tough love you need to reach your personal goals this year! My sweet friend, Vivienne McNeny will be joining me as co-host on tomorrow's show. She is a fellow leader, a fellow Toginet radio host, and a fellow mom. I am thrilled to have her with us to ring in the new year! We'll be talking about home-schooling, managing the chaos of family large and small, and having a ball. If we aren't having fun... what's the point?
Monday 17th of December 2012
There is a process that we must go through when tragedy strikes. When I first heard about the tragic events of the school shooting in Conneticut on Friday, I shut down. Every part of me went numb. It was too much for me to handle. I had to take some time to process it, sort out my reaction, and consider how much I could allow my mind to wrap around it. I was sick to my stomach. I couldn't breathe. My 3 year old was having a play date with his best friend and I had to keep it together for their sake. So I did. I went through my day holding onto my strength as long as I could. That afternoon at my first grader's pick up time, I arrived at his school early, choking back tears and when he approached the car, I got out to hug him. I began to cry...but only for a few seconds. Our embrace was disrupted by a school attendant who had to remind me that getting out of the car in the middle of the carpool lane was not permitted as I was holding up traffic. I took the kids to get a banana split, and loved loved loved them as much as I could before dropping them off at their grandparent's for the weekend. It was my birthday and I had plans to meet my husband for dinner. I fell into my husband's arms and sobbed. I was angry, scared, sad and more. A part of me wanted to curl up in a little ball and pretend it never happened. Deep down I couldn't stop screaming. I argued with myself on whether or not I should approach the subject on this week's show. How could I talk about it when I could barely speak? How could I not talk about it? As parents, we are universally connected. The love that we have for our children is what binds us together across the globe and it's the reason we can experience such pain and anguish even when we are miles away from the tragic incident. We are bonded to the parents who lost their precious children that day. We can't help but feel their grief as if it were our own. We may come from different cultures, religious faiths and educational backgrounds. We may have different opinions about weapons, the government's role in gun regulation, and who or what is to blame in the matter. But make no mistake, we are aligned with one another. This is not one of those issues where we can simply "agree to disagree". Children have lost their lives, and their parents will never be the same. WE will never be the same. We MUST come together to find a solution. This show addresses the tragic events of Sandy Hook Elementary School as they occurred and what we can do as parents to protect our own children moving forward.
Monday 10th of December 2012
The most difficult part of being your own boss is knowing when to take a break. No one really intended for the holiday season to be stressful. So why does it become increasingly overwhelming each year? Let's dissect it. (It's my favorite thing to do!) The holidays have become more diverse and although it may take more effort to keep all the annual traditions equally balanced, I have to admit that I really love how much we have progressed as a society. Chrismakah. Shismakah. It's all in good fun. Last night I hosted my annual Hanukkah party for the neighborhood kids which is always ironic because my kids are the only ones there who are actually Jewish. I never intended to be the mom responsibile for giving culture to the non-Jews, but each year I am asked by the other neighborhood moms, "You'll be having your annual Hanukkah party again, right?" Impressed by the interest, the willingness to learn, and the celebratory spirit of others... I just can't say no. Each year, usually by about the 300th latka and burn from the oil splatter, I admit that I have a moment of crankiness. I declare, "This is the last year we do this!" I vow to spend less on the festivities, give less gifts, retire from making hundreds of homemade holiday truffles for bosses and teachers, cease the humorous holiday cards (known for our interfaith witticism), and simplify the winter season altogether with LESS. The real reason I can't quit. Besides the fact that I love it? Nothing beats this time of year. Amid the chaos, I am reminded of the fact that I am throwing parties, creating holiday cards, baking and decorating... BECAUSE I CAN. I am the boss of me and I SAY it's time to take a break and enjoy the happiest time of the year. (I am giving YOU permission to do the same.) Six years ago, I was trapped by my corporate job, my limited paycheck, the captivity of the time card... and I had big dreams. Aspiring to one day have the kind of freedom that only a self-employed mom could occupy, I yearned to make my own decisions, participate in holiday recreation, and tell my kids "Yes, I can come to your preschool to demonstrate the lighting of the menorah... again." Because when we break it down, there is no expectation in the world of self-employment. The only pressure we truly feel is the kind we put on ourselves. Knowing that I can quit at anytime is enough to make the choice not to. So, on this week's show I am taking a break from the business talk and instead we're going have a little fun getting to know some television and film celebs. Both guests are friends of mine from my acting days, positively talented and unequivocally excellent in the parenting department. You've seen them everywhere... pegged "those actors" the ones who just keep showing up in your favorite films and TV programs. Never resting from their passion to create, Bob Clendenin and Jillian Armenante are always on the move.
Monday 3rd of December 2012
You know more about marketing and advertising trends than you realize. While you may be a business owner who is focused on getting your products and services exposure, you are also a consumer... and you know what floats your own boat. You also know what is annoying and what kinds of ads you are delibrately tuning out. You are your ideal client. Advertising changes every single day – what worked today may or may not work tomorrow. Before you get tripped up about changing your marketing approach or blow your entire advertising budget on gimmicks that are consistently ignored by online browsers, consider which marketing tactics work on you. A big trend in small business advertising is to go where your ideal demographic is hanging out and create some buzz through a clever and fun campaign. This doesn't have to be an expensive approach, but because you will be gaining a presence on different platforms it can take time to be effective in raising brand consciousness and awareness. Still, one of the hottest trends in creating out-of-the-box-buzz is getting reviewed by fellow mom bloggers. Enough noise about a brand can lead to that coveted spot on a store shelf. This week I will be chatting with my friend, Abby Fatica and her new business partner, Monica Mylet about their latest endeavor to help Mommy Bloggers and Mommy Inventors connect for better brand relationships. If you have been successful in building your social community, Trackersphere can help you leverage that influence and use it to elevate your bottom line. We'll be discussing the many new tools and resources that can help you bridge the gap in your business relationships whether you are a blogger, a brand or both.
Monday 26th of November 2012
The #1 stress creator during the holidays is debt. We have made sacrifices. We've left our double-income-no-kids lifestyle long behind and ventured into a hand-to-mouth way of living. We've made choices to stay home with the kids and build side businesses to supplement our expenses. We don't spend extravagantly and although we survive each year, we still manage to go deeper into debt. The holidays expect more from us. Because we don't have disposable income, we fall back on the only thing that will get us through...credit. American households have a substantial amount of credit card debt. Of the estimated 46.7% of households that carry a balance, the average debt is a whopping $15,328 as of September 2012. What does this mean? Credit card debt is holding fairly steady – but whether or not that’s a good thing is up for debate. On the one hand, higher consumer spending puts the economy on a positive track. Higher spending leads to more jobs and higher incomes, which in turn lead to higher spending. However, if wages and employment are improving at a sluggish pace, this might well be an indication that families are borrowing to make ends meet rather than a reflection of a well-founded increase in consumer confidence. Used wisely, credit can help you invest in a solution. This week I'll be introducing you to Emily Chase Smith, a financial solutions attorney with a proven track record at helping entrepreneurs get out of debt and create financial stabilty through strategic solutions. On the subject of business debt, I'll be talking to you about the many bad business investments that so many entrepreneurs are still paying for with interest and how to avoid falling into those traps in the future.
Monday 19th of November 2012
Thanksgiving is a great time for reflection. It's been said that living in gratitude is the best way to abundance. So, just for the sake of argument, if we were to give thanks for our family, our friends, the roof over our heads, the food we eat and our good health....would the laws of the universe give us more of the good stuff? If only it were that easy! Thinking positively is really only a small component of being able to manifest and create an abundant outcome. For me, it's the deep reflection of what I've already accomplished that transports me into the most potent mindset for manifesting. So much of what I am grateful for began 5...10...even 15 years ago. “You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future....” - Steve Jobs Fifteen years ago I arrived in Los Angeles, bright and starry eyed. With my college degree in musical theatre in one hand and a pile of headshots and resumes in the other, I was ready and determined to become the hottest star that Hollywood had ever seen. Young, hot and single, I came to the Tinseltown along with millions of others who all looked every bit as hot as me and had the same dream. I was now in the most competitive industry in the world and although I had the chops to perform circles around the others, I learned quickly that getting hired was more about strategy and less about song and dance. Many actors learned this the hard way. They quickly saw the steep competition before them and the near impossibility of getting their talent discovered by the right people. So they quit. At 24 years old, I landed a job working at a company called Act Now! where I became a consultant for the seasoned actor in Hollywood. I spent my days auditioning actors for our pre-screened workshops, coached them how to nail the "cold reading" audition every time, and taught them how to build relationships with top-notch casting directors, agents and managers. My former boss and first business mentor, Kenna Dean, taught me my first lessons in the importance of business integrity, reverse sales strategy, and choosing our clients appropriately. Kenna was also the first "Mom-prenuer" I'd ever known, building a lucrative business model that served the most competitive industry on the planet and still managing to put her family first without apology. Join me tomorrow when I interview Kenna Dean about how she became a successful business leader and a liason between actors and entertainment professionals... all while changing diapers and rocking her baby.
Monday 12th of November 2012
What gives? If you are like most of the moms I meet who have decided to bring their careers home, your biggest frustration comes from the lack of results from all of your hard work. You may have the business idea of the century, be completely fabulous at what you do, you may even have a huge following of fans who tell you how much they admire you. But when it comes to make money, there is a real lack. You may be busy...but your also broke. Its time for rapid results. If you feel yourself becoming dangerously close to becoming a "business program junkie" or a mom entrepreneur "victim" cliche', its time to turn inward, clear out the stuff that ISN'T working and increase your bottom line with what little dignity you have left. Just Kidding. I know you are dignified, but what may be sabotaging your progress is your desperation and your all-to-easy tendency to get distracted with the mundane tasks that are not leveragable. It happens to the best of us, and the busiest of us. I get you, moms. There simply is no more TIME to invest in your business. You've been patient. And patient. And patient. Its time to get the outcome you have been working towards. The answer is simple. First we need to evaluate your activities and then we need to leverage them. You've only got 6 hours a week to grow your business? Great! If that is all we've got to work with, then lets make those 6 hours count. I've called upon the best person that I know to help in this area, Coach Jenn Lee. Although we'd all love more TIME, wishing for it won't make us more productive. Jenn Lee is a Ninja when it comes to showing us how to trim the fat from our time sucking tasks and focus on being more effective with what little time we do have.
Monday 29th of October 2012
We are all capable of changing our mindset. Sometimes we just need the tough love. The kick in the pants. The serious talkin' to. Yep, this is going to be one of those broadcasts. You know, the one where I tell you to step outside of your little bubble, stop blaming others about the less than desirable situation that you are in, and turn that negative energy inside out. Before you decide that I am not talking about you and decide to tune this one out, try doing a little test to see how self aware you really are. Is playing the blame game REALLY productive? It may make you feel better at first, but I promise you there is a better way to overcome obstacles and take charge of your own fate....fast. This week I am going to share with you one of my little secrets for staying on top of my game and pushing through the rejections and the setbacks. All it takes is a little imagination. The truth is, things are never really what they seem. It's far too easy to blame all of our challenges on someone else's stupidity and bad decision making skills. It's nothing more than an excuse for us to get out of doing the dirty work and discovering the solution for ourselves. How far does blaming others ever get us... really? This week, I am opening up the phone lines for you to get your personal challenges addressed. If you would like to be featured live on the air with a question or a comment, our phone lines will be open: 877-864-4869 or if you are unable to listen live, but would like to have a question or comment read on the air please fill out this form. The overall theme is this... HOW TO SEE THE BIG PICTURE. You'll discover how increasing your insight can be truly magical - in just about any situation. I'll be providing you with tools so powerful that every solution from now on will seem almost as if they are being personally handed to you on a platter. You'll understand when you listen in. (You're welcome.) Returning to the show this week is our favorite astrologer, Heidi Rose Robbins with a quick update on what we can expect from the changes in the atmosphere and how we can thrive no matter what the stars tell us!
Monday 22nd of October 2012
It's no wonder you are skeptical. In my last few months of working in Corporate America I spent my hours sneaking around on the internet, searching for any legitimate income opportunity that would allow me to come home. I had been fighting with my dear sweet husband about my intense desire to give up my stable salary for the freedom to stay home with our newborn son. Leaving our baby in a poorly run home-daycare was just downright painful, and I couldn't do it anymore. I was ready to make some sizable sacrifices to become the full-time caretaker, but without some kind of supplemental income, we couldn't justify the transition. For months, I searched for something stable that would support my desire to follow my heart home. The challenge is not a lack of at home career opportunities... it's finding the right one. Just run a simple google search on "how to make money from home" and you'll be bombarded with empty promises of investment opportunities that smell of something rotten. Before becoming parents, we might have been more willing to take these risks, make a few dumb decisions and lose the roof over our head. We'd tell ourselves we'd never make that mistake again and grow from the experience. But with kids in the picture? We no longer have that luxury. If there is one thing that I knew about myself as a new parent and the parents that I now work with, it is that Moms and Dads are determined to find a way to do what is best for their families. They are willing to take risks, work hard and even invest in something new, but how do they know when the opportunity is right? We are on "Business Opportunity Information Overload"... and we still don't know what is legit. As part of the mission of OurMilkMoney.com we strive to find the BEST independent career opportunities for you. We've done the research and we've asked all the tough questions... so you don't have to. We ALWAYS have your best interest at heart. If you are looking for a truly legitimate way to earn an unlimited income for your family online, an opportunity that is flexible and filled with potential, you will want to tune into tomorrow's show. I have invited my very good friend, Bridget Brady to share with us how she secured her financial future by creating a residual online income and how she is teaching others to do it as well. Bridget is known as the Internet Goddess, a true inspiration to men and women across the country. She will be joining us on tomorrow's show to share a very transparent approach to her program. She will also be offering a no cost informational Tele-seminar, exclusively created for Our Milk Money parents and This Little Parent listeners. We've got your back, and we will leave no stone unturned! You will not leave the tele-seminar without knowing: How much is the full investment (very reasonable with no hidden costs) How quickly you can expect to recoup your investment without risk How much you can expect to earn from the program How much work is required to achieve your desired results How others have created their success with this program How others have FAILED this program (That's right! This is not fool proof. You MUST be willing to do the minimal amount to see results....and we will lay everything out for you upfront so you can make an educated decision on whether or not this opportunity is right for you.)
Tuesday 16th of October 2012
Whatever challenges you are up against are opportunities for you to resolve -- not just for yourself, but for the rest of the world. It's been a little while since we've heard from you. Time to check in and let us know what is happening in your world, what is challenging you, blocking you, or keeping you from reaching your goals. I am here for you and I am keeping the phone lines open. If you would like to reserve your coaching spot on tomorrow's show, fill out this form, or call in live: 877-864-4869 Back by popular demand, it's a free coaching day! Whatever you are feeling limited by, now is your chance to find a solution before paying it forward to someone else. That is how it works in the parent entrepreneur culture. It is no accident that we were put in the driver's seat just when the world needed an entrepreneurial revolution. It's now up to us to pave the way and often that involves creating new routes to a new destination. If you are a self-employed parent, more opportunities just opened up for you to get exposure and connect with others who are on your team!
Monday 8th of October 2012
Flustered or unfazed? I am all about simple. Actually that is a blatant lie. I often look at others who seem to have it all together and I wonder what it would be like if I simplified the chaos in my life. On the days that I do actually feel caught up and organized- it doesn't last long. I imagine it's because a clean slate is an inviting opportuntity to take on a messy new project. Which makes me wonder... Do we thrive on chaos? If there is one thing I've gotten really good at, it's learning to dissect everything. Our lives are like one big puzzle to be solved and each experience brings us new clues to live more fully, abundantly, and purposefully. I just got back from speaking to a deeply passionate and intimate group of people at the Booya Bootcamp with Martin Presse. As a speaker I am hired to inspire -- An absolute dream job. Especially when I think about how inspired I get when I listen to everyone else's stories. I absolutely love connecting with new people. I am always shocked to learn how completely HUMAN we all are. We all have had good and bad experiences in life, love, and business. We've had our hearts broken, our egos shattered, and many of our dreams destroyed before they were ever fully defined. We have also experienced heavenly joy, divine awesomeness, and a love for our families that can not be replaced by a simplistic life experience and a sparkling house. How we choose to embrace it is what defines us. Those of us who love our truths are less tormented by them. We are able to float through life effortlessly. Nothing knocks us down - at least not permanently. We wear our scars like badges of honor. We laugh more, learn more and yes --- make more money. I am so excited to introduce you to 2 very special people tomorrow. Anna Marie Martin will be joining me as co-host and is quite frankly the greatest Virtual Assistant on the planet. It wasn't long after I'd gotten to know her that I offered her a staff position on Our Milk Money as head webmaster. I love going to her with new projects because she always gets so excited to take on new challenges and she is always so grateful for the experience. Who wouldn't love to work with someone with her attitude? Speaking of positive energy, I'll be introducing you to Sandy Fowler, another fellow Toginet Host, and the most spirited Mom you've ever heard. Sandy is filled with clever and resourceful strategies for decluttering, destressing and deactivating depression! Want to venture into the Holiday Season without the headache? Sandy is your gal.
Monday 1st of October 2012
You already know you have a powerful message to broadcast. You've fine-tuned the branding of your product, the specific wording of your tag-lines and logos, but now its time to color your personality and give yourself the voice you need to BROADCAST EFFECTIVELY. Using the tools you already have like your voice and your poise, you can perfect any message you have by using subtle strokes like intonation, pace, volume and tonality. Very often it is these slightly intensified qualities that resonate with your potential clients at such a subconscious level that they often are not even aware of the influence that you have over them. It is tools like these that build great leaders and get others to take immediate action. Perfect your personality and it'll feel like waving a magic wand over anyone you want to call into action. If you are looking for a way to gain that extra magnetism that will allow you to project a quality message with clarity and authority, you won't want to miss tomorrow's show. From training Hollywood actors and internet radio show hosts, I've learned a little something about how to increase your desirability simply by polishing your presence. By using your electric vibe and unique charm like a well oiled instrument, you could literally triple your client base in a matter of days. Imagine new prospects lined up on a wait-list to work with you. Believe in the buzz, baby! Every last drop of it is possible. Tomorrow you'll learn the magic formula that will fine-tune your personal charm and rev up a more charismatic presence. Next weekend I will be speaking at the Booya Weekend Bootcamp on this very subject. (I believe the conference is sold out, but I am sure if you begged Martin Presse, he'll find a place for you...try this link and tell him I sent ya!) Tomorrow, I'll be offering the same marketing strategy package on the radio show that will be offered at the Booya Presentation Skills Seminar... for a sneak peak at the goods, check it out here---> Tomorrow's radio show guest embodies the personality that I am talking about and she has the notches on her success belt to prove it. Jen Bilik, the fearless founder of Knock Knock Products took an ordinary idea and exploded it with her own personal brand of charm and charisma. Her creative ideas were all united by a sensibility rather than a product type. Using observational humor and always speaking the truth, Jen Bilik created Knock Knock because she never met an affirmation that she liked. She figured there had to be other cranky curmudgeons like her who wanted to tell the truth, and that is what made her idea sustainable, expansive, replicable and scalable. Mandy Kalish will be joining me once again as my co-host!
Monday 24th of September 2012
The biggest regrets come from the failure to think big from the start. Stop and consider for a moment that we really do have access to the same tools and resources- in everything we do. You may not have been born with the natural ability to understand business, but learning the skills that you need to take action is as easy as choosing to absorb new insight. Their are infinite channels of enterprise available worldwide with immediate results at almost no cost - and learning to leverage these channels is worth more than any price tag. It all begins with a little bit of hunger for knowledge. As a busy work-at-home parent, the digital age can be a blessing and a curse. Emerging media sources are exploding, but traditional media platforms still play an important role in giving exposure to small business. If only you knew how to cut through that fierce competition. Remember that everything worthwhile comes with hard work and perseverance. Most of the time, the reward is simply given to the ones who never threw in the towel... even when they most wanted to. This week, I am pleased to introduce you to a long-time colleague who I've had the pleasure of watching blossom in her business and brand. Beginning with her creation of a gorgeous online shopping mall with more than 75 virtual stores within Shabby Lane Shops, Catherine Monceaux has expanded her architectural vision into a beautiful newsstand magazine, now available in top stores such as Barnes and Noble. Catherine's passion for her enterprise is fueled by the love that she has for her children... a resource that we all have in our toolbox. We have more commonality than we often realize. Joining us once again as co-host is my good friend, Tania Mulry. We'll be sharing some exciting new developments with you in regards to mobile media marketing.
Monday 17th of September 2012
Whatever is screaming the loudest gets the most attention. At least that is how it is in my house. As parents, our days almost never go as planned. You may have meant to put out a client newsletter or create a rockin' new business plan or even have a play-date with some new friends from preschool. All that was pushed aside, however, when your 3 year old peed on the floor or your 6 year old suddenly came down with pink eye or your hot water heater broke and seeped into all those boxes in the garage. Sometimes the hardest part of being a parent is that we lack control of the day to day and even the hour to hour. Why even have a game plan when it's sure to get disrupted by something unexpected? A game plan keeps you focused, but having flexibility keeps you prepared and ready to deviate from your plan without having a grown-up melt down. Tragedy + Time = Comedy Keep those chuckles coming. On most days, it's the only way to make it through. If you want to survive, you must learn to laugh at the absurdity of your unexpected daily dramas, surround yourself with friends and tribe mates who have been there, done that, and remember that every new experience as a mom or dad is an opportunity for you to create a more controlled system ---for next time. This week I will be introducing you to two very good friends of mine. Mandy Kalish is one of the newest staff members of Our Milk Money, joining us in her role as Director of Sales and Marketing. My friendship with Mandy is not so new, however, as our history together stems back to grade school when we were the best of frenemies. Mandy is one of the funniest women I have ever had the pleasure of knowing and I cannot wait to reminisce with her about our childhood years...all the way up to motherhood. If anyone knows how to embrace the absurd, it's Ms. Kalish. Speaking of funny, my good friend Chris Mancini, stand-up comic and comedy film writer/producer/author, returns to the show as our guest of the hour. New parents, you certainly won't want to miss this! Dutiful dad, Chris Mancini, is offering an insightful, fun and extremely helpful short course on overcoming the anxieties of becoming a first-time parent. If you or anyone you know is even a little bit FREAKED OUT about becoming a parent, Chris can help. He teaches how to overcome the "Hyperanxiepression" so new parents can enjoy their helpless little infants from day one. "Will I ever have s-e-x again?" "Will I ever sleep again?" "Will I have to start going to bed at sunset?" Questions like these are more common than you think: you're not alone. Join Chris in his super-affordable, fun and helpful course, or give it as a gift to any expecting new dads (they probably won't admit it, but they're SCARED).
Monday 10th of September 2012
Welcome back Lil' Parents! As we say in my family when we have just taken a much needed break from one another -- I have enjoyed missing you! It's back to work and we have lots to cover! I am really looking forward to launching into the new format of the show tomorrow night! I hope that Monday evenings will bring more opportunity for you to tune in live and take interactive action. I have a terrific new line up of guests for the fall series and we plan catering each show to more specific challenges that you may be having as a parent and solo entrepreneur. I am pumped!! If there is one thing that inspires me, it's watching others create an innovative variant of success by pushing past boundaries and striving for progress rather than perfection. Very often we don't know what our life purpose is until it is staring us squarely in the face, and even then sometimes we miss it. The truth is we all have accessible solutions. What might start out as an imaginative approach to solve our own problems often results in a fresh and revolutionary way to contribute to society. Are you ignoring the little whisper of a voice that is revealing exactly how to radically reshape your ambitions? There really is no secret to learning how to turn your passion into something that fuels and sustains you. Stop being so modest and flaunt what you have! Joining me tomorrow evening on This Little Parent Stayed Home, are two champion innovators. Tania Mulry of edRover will be this week's co-host, and together we will be interviewing LuLu Powers, known as "Hollywood's Martha Stewart", the celebrity entertaining designer who has created, cooked and composed for many of America's royalty including Leonardo di Caprio, Madonna and Bill Clinton. No giveaway this week, but we have some terrific perks for anyone who would like to donate $5 or more to the Our Milk Money crowd funding campaign!
Friday 24th of August 2012
Go beyond slight recognition and dive into stardom. Years before I was a business coach for parents, I was a business coach for actors in Hollywood. I didn't teach them how to act, but I did coach them on how to know their "product" as well as how to create out of the box marketing strategies that would allow them to be remembered by the people who were in a position to hire them. The business of acting isn't much different than your home based business where you structure your own game plan, work to build memorable relationships, and represent your brand with complete confidence and poise. Many of the most passionate and talented actors share a common pitfall in their careers: They are so passionate about the art of performing, but they often ignore the neccessary business steps it takes to get them in front of the camera, or on the stage. "I don't want to play the Hollywood game, " they'd say, "Just put me on the stage and let me perform." My response? "If you don't create a business plan and a unique marketing strategy, how do you expect anyone to hire you to perform on a stage?" Working actors know that their real job is the audition, not the performance. Often the most significawork is not in the actual execution of our service, but rather in the implementation of the plan to get someone to hire us. It should come as no surprise that some of the most talented actors remain unknown in Hollywood, while many of the less talented ones don't have any problem booking role after role. Short answer? Those who are working in show biz, know BIZ. Do NOT under-estimate the power of muscle marketing and out of the box strategies when working to get known in a competitive field. The key is in targeted actions that will get the industry buzzing about you. If you are hungry enough, you shouldn't have any problem taking an unconventional route (or two) to your destination. Are you willing to shake things up a bit? This week, I am proud and honored to introduce you to my friend Wendi McClendon, a television and film celebrity who happens to have crazy awesome talent as well as immensly clever business sense. An incredibly talented comedic actress, Wendi has never had any problem taking bold risks and working her "brand" on her own terms. Friday's show will be a real treat!
Friday 17th of August 2012
Champions come from the most unexpected places. I'd like to think of myself as a pretty open-minded and accepting individual. No judgements here. But in the realm of authenticity, I'll admit that when I was first introduced to Ryans Sallans, a trans-gender male, public speaker, educator and author of the book "Second Son," I found myself making quick assumptions about him - not that I am proud of myself. Even I, who touts non-discrimination wondered... what's wrong with this person that he couldn't find peace until he had transformed his entire gender identity? The more I read about Ryan, the more he became a hero to me. Gender identity is a complex and awkward topic, even for the most broad-minded and unbiased but through Ryan's writing, speaking and mentoring, his message is such an important one. He brings a multitude of positive attributes to the trans-gender and gay communities, as well as to their families who love them and want to understand them. Shouldn't we all make an effort to be more understanding? We can all learn a thing or two from Ryan Sallans, the brave trans-gender male who found his authentic self. As a mother, I've always sworn that I'd be 100% accepting of my child's sexual orientation and lifestyle without question. But would I be able to maintain this stance should my child develop deep depression and extreme dysfunction due to gender identity crises? Our children may decide to go down a different path than we had envisioned for them. As parents, there is nothing we want more than our child's true happiness in life. To meet this life-long goal, we may be faced with circumstances that challenge our ideals and force us to push past our comfort zones. At some point we must concede that we will not always "know better" when it comes to our children's happiness. At which point, there will be nothing left to do but trust that they will find their own path to whatever divine happiness means for them personally. Friday's show has become a true passion piece for me as I believe this topic is timely and important for anyone who loves and wants to understand another human being. This week I will have the honor of interviewing this brave gentleman, an icon and role model for the trans-gender community, a patient teacher for those who are affected by their transitioning family members, and a life saver to suicidal teens
Friday 10th of August 2012
Be honest. Does social media frighten you? You wouldn't be alone if it does. It seems like every time we finally master one platform, a new one appears or a new 3rd party application is created. You are no dummy. You appreciate that social media is a terrific tool when it comes to promoting your business and leveling the playing field, but staying technically aware is enough to make your head explode. Without the right comprehension, your social time online could end up being counter-productive.   How are you supposed to get any actual work done with all these social media expectations?   Like every other bit of technology, new discoveries that were supposed to make our lives easier seems to make them more complicated. That is why we are going to attack this topic with the most streamlined intentions for you as a busy work-at-home parent.   Your work time is already limited so it is important to know how to effectively engage in social media and keep your internet presence exposed without breaking the time bank. This week we will be giving you tips and tricks on what social media platforms you should most be paying attention to, how to structure your work time so that you aren't spending hours losing your focus, and how to maximize your time using these platforms in a way that will bring you immediate results every time.   There is no one better to share the airwaves with me on this topic other than the Linked In Lady herself, Carol McManus. Carol built a 6 figure income in less than 18 months by mastering LinkedIn and putting a system in place that allowed her to drive her consulting business in about 20 minutes each day.   Many of you also know that I recently became a sought after Twitter coach once I "cracked the twitter code" and learned to drive traffic by the thousands in just a few minutes each night.   The hour will go by fast on Friday, but we will do our best to pack the show with lots of useful takeaways
Friday 3rd of August 2012
Believe. Plan. Go. Meeting Jenn Lee was like hitting the jackpot. Everything she said about taking action and streamlining all efforts really resonated with me. I was introduced to Jenn shortly after being asked to host Spark & Hustle. Tory Johnson told me that Jenn would help me change the way I executed everything in my business, and she was right. With her sharp wit, no B.S. approach and practical takeaways, Jenn Lee's out-of-the-box strategies are game changing. If you are ready to stop making excuses, take back the control and get fast results that will earn you a profit that matches your hard work, you'll want to join us this Friday.
Friday 27th of July 2012
It's simple. Just run your family like a Business. Why not?   By using an empowering management style, who's to say that we can't educate, parent, and inspire ambition in our children as we raise them along side of our businesses?   If you are a parent struggling to balance career with family, you won't want to miss this discussion.   Simplify. Compartmentalize. Profit.   This is a revolutionary time for all parent entrepreneurs, but as we will discuss, we are still pioneering the industry- and that means paving the way for a younger generation of parent entrepreneurs. We know them now as our children.   In a world of entitlement and increasing dependence, it is important that we teach and inspire our kids to listen, be observant, work well with others, adapt, stay accountable and self-sufficient, and follow their inner sense of integrity.   Do we as adults encompass all of those things? Can you imagine how much we would be accomplishing by now if this is the way we'd been raised?   This week, I will be introducing you to successful entrepreneur, public speaker, author and businessman, Chris Efessiou. Chris found himself facing his greatest challenge when his marriage ended and he was left to raise his seven-year old daughter on his own. Without a manual, he stuck with what he knew and discovered that the same skills critical to success as a business leader seamlessly transferred to parenting. Chris will be joining us to share his discovery on how the principles that are essential in team building can be used to build a prosperous business and a loving family.      
Friday 20th of July 2012
Turn your dreams into an actionable plan. Dreaming is the fun part, but creating a detailed and effective plan is a different story. It might seem to be less fun, but that is only because it is less familiar. A road less traveled usually leads to more abundant joyfulness. So the question is... Do you dare? Or do you delay? As women and mothers living in a culture that expects us to be all things to everyone- including ourselves- we often don't know where to start. Turn your passions into something that fuels and sustains you. This week we will be talking about how to get sizable results by broadcasting a quality message rather than a careless and impersonal blast that reaches a large quantity, but stimulates none. When you leverage your resources effectively, you will be able to indentify your true value and find your most joyful purpose. Living authentically in this manner is the best way to parent with purpose. This week I will be introducing you to my friend and colleague, Executive Coach and Leadership Development Expert, Dori Klass. Together we will be discussing how to align our passions with how to become (and raise our children to become) contributing members of society.
Friday 13th of July 2012
Come One Come All!!! Mom of Many Hats Radio and This Little Parent Stayed Home are joining forces for a SPECTACUTLAR double feature, 2 hour show on July 13, 2012! Ally LoPrete and Angie Mozilo will dazzle, delight, and dish about all things "woman" on this special 2 hour radio event! From parenting to perfection, working from home to wanting the most of ourselves, dreaming to dazzle, vulnerability to value - you name it, between these two ladies, they'll share the dish about mastering and manipulating the art of juggling it all.
Friday 6th of July 2012
Design your ideal life. If you are serious in creating a career that fits around your family's needs, you've got to get to know Leah Jantzen. Leah is a good friend, fellow radio host on Toginet radio, and also like me, she is a mom on a mission. Leah is a shining example of a woman who has never backed down, rarely lets fear get in her way to soar to new possibilities, and has proven that it IS possible to create an environment that mirrors the most important values in your life including your family and your career. The thing I love about Leah is that she doesn't hold back when telling it like it is and always finds the fun and the warmth in the hard choices we have to make as moms. Like me, she is willing to share the deep and dirty truth about how she manages it all... even when the kids are sick and the house is a mess. Don't become engulfed in the minutia of what can't be done... not when there is a rainbow of possibilities! Get your inspiration from those that have already made it work and then apply it to your own situation. Thousands of moms are now paving the way for others to create their own wealth on their own terms. Take advantage! There is a New Boss in Town... It's your Kids. This week you'll want to join us as we dig deep and dish as the real work-at-home moms of Toginet Radio. We'll share our challenges, our solutions, and our dreams that keep feeding our desire to grow and keep on growing.
Friday 29th of June 2012
Being a stay-at-home parent is a thankless job without pay, without bathroom breaks, and somehow it manages to deplete what little we have from our bank accounts. From the outside it must look like torture and yet the work-at-home parent revolution is still rising by tens of thousands each year. Why would parents choose to come home if they are so miserable? Because they are not. They may not have much sanity left, but they have chosen this path because it gives them freedom. The businesses that we build from our homes are not to fund extravagant lifestyles. They afford us the opportunity to be with our children, raise them, and play a significant role in their growth and development. This is no easy feat, but we have made this choice and we are willing to do what it takes to keep us at home where we feel we are most needed. If there is one thing I learned when I launched OurMilkMoney.com, it's the power we have in numbers, it's the influence we have over each other to create trends that work in our favor, and the community that thrives on a commonality: the love we have for our families. Why ask others to support us in our endeavors when we can support each other? Don't waste time trying to convince others that your choice to come home is noble or apologize for your disruptive children when on the phone with a client. Isn't it time that we stop trying to prove to the world that we are significant? It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Moms are breaking new ground even if we have to drive in the slow lane. Slow and steady always wins the race. There are enough of us setting the same intention that we can make a difference by working together. That is why I love organizations like Honor the Mom and Hula Frog. Both are organizations run by moms for moms. There is nothing like building upon our spirit of sisterhood. This week we'll be talking about how you can stay involved in the Mom community and how it will work to your advantage resulting in all the support you'll ever need to drive your own ambitions.
Friday 22nd of June 2012
If we weren't crazy before we became parents, we certainly are now. I admit it. I love crazy people. Let me clarify. I love people who embrace their craziness. Why try to hide it when you can make it work to your advantage? It's the crazy ones who get. stuff. done. It's the crazy ones who invent new products, take them as far as they will go, and then invent something new when the first product becomes old news. It's the crazy people who always land the big accounts and close the biggest deals because they are not afraid of the word "no" It's the crazy ones who demand to know the rules just so they can officially push the boundaries. It's the crazy parents who obsess about getting their child into the most ideal pre-school, without which they may never get a decent shot to get them into college or grad school. How crazy are you? But more importantly, how crazy are you willing to be? Are you crazy? Or just stressed out? The difference between crazy and stressed out is the FUN aspect. Crazy can be a blast. Stress is just a downer. So how do we keep it light and enjoyable? Humor, of course. I am so excited about this week's guest. I might as well hand over the microphone and let her take over. I heard Dr. Nancy Berk on my friend Angie Mozillo's show, Mom of Many Hats Radio, and couldn't stop laughing. Laughing?! Sometimes, in the day to day meshugana (Yiddish for "crazy") I forget how to let those ha-ha's out for some fresh air. Do you ever wonder "When did I get so serious??" Nancy Berk is a Stand-up Comedian AND a clinical Psychologist. Talk about a unique and fertile concept! The world can always use more humor- especially in an area that usually has our sanity slipping away on a daily basis. We are going to have some fun on Friday! The topic is about preparing for college, but really Nancy Berk is filled with great insight to get us through all the parenting years.
Friday 15th of June 2012
Are you Fearless? Probably not. None of us are. Fear affects each and every one of us in different ways. You may think you know someone who appears to be fearless, but the truth is, they just might have a better relationship with fear than you do. Are you the kind of person who ignores the fears that present themselves? Do you cover it up with distractions and procrastinations? Or are you the sort of person who takes a moment to dissect the fears at hand and approach the issues dead on? When we are feeling down, stressed out, overwhelmed or uninspired, often the results appear in our physical bodies. It shows up as a headache, back pain, weight gain, weight loss, fatigue and more. If fear is the driving factor for all stress, than stress is most likely the root cause of our recurring and chronic symptoms. We've been taught for years to deal with these symptoms through medication prescriptions, pain killers, or physical therapy. Unfortunately the over abundance of prescriptions eventually result in more undesireable symptoms, side effects and addictions. Whats worse, if the cause of the symptom isn't dealt with directly, it will eventually resurface in another form of physical pain. The only true way to handle a symptom is to find the root cause and deal with it at the core. In every challenge of our lives, we are presented with the choice to cover up the pain with a distraction, or face the challenge head on, become the victor, and never look back. Whether dealing with a physical challenge or an emotional one, the key to overcoming the debilitating effects is to bring our emotional, instinctual and spiritual natures into balance and harmony. I am very much looking forward to introducing you to my guest this week, Dr. Peiter DeWet. It is not often that you find a doctor who is willing to take that extra time to search for the root cause of a medical problem rather than easily writing a prescription for it. Breaking out of the norm is a brave choice in today's medical field, but it is proving to be neccessary for ultimate health and wellness. Dr. DeWet is one of the rare doctors who I personally feel is on our side, looking to help us truly heal from within, approaching his patients holistically, focusing on the mind, body and soul. This week we will be talking about how we can tackle our chronic challenges from its origins and heal from within. Dr. DeWet will be helping us better understand the science behind these kind of remedies as well as teaching us the benefits of Holistic Health and Quantum Physics.
Friday 8th of June 2012
Make Strategic Planning Work. As busy moms with busy schedules we really don't have a choice but to orginize our time and efforts down to a science. If we don't stay 2 steps ahead of our day, we run the risk of falling way behind... as well as falling apart. So lets talk about strategy. Do you feel like you are pounding the pavement in your small business without seeing results? Are you simply trying to keep up with your long list of daily tasks only to fall short on accomplishing more than half of them each day? Do you find yourself spending too much precious time cleaning up messes and putting out fires and not enough time driving your business forward? Chances are you need to re-evalute your methods and rework your focus. Very often we are so caught up in working HARD we forget to work smart. Strategic Planning is a great tool for organizational alignment and goal setting. Experts tell us that in order to get ahead in business, we need to move beyond daily responsibilities and incorporate advancement into our daily routines. That sounds like a good idea in theory, but what about the stay-at-home parents who are already at their responsibility limit? Momprenuers, this show is most definitly for you. In fact. the phone lines will be wide open on Friday for you to call in and ask your most challenging questions. Call in if you: ...need help orgnizing your daily task list. ...don't feel that you are getting enough support from your spouse, friends or other members of your family. ...have a terrific vision for a business, but need help executing it. ...are tired of working hard and not seeing enough results. ...need some help thinking strategically on reaching a specific goal - or several. ...can't seem to find the time during the day to get any work done (those pesky kids!!)
Friday 1st of June 2012
What is the Good Girl? The “Good Girl” is an archetype that has different forms—the judge, the critic, the perfectionist, the people-pleaser to name a few. But no matter the form, the basis of the Good Girl has to do with feeling limited by society’s rules of what a woman should be. It has to do with playing small and feeling stuck in a prison of other people’s ideas. It has to do with feeling like we have to live up to the idea of being “good.” Many times the “good” part of us judges the “badass” part of us and we miss out on the truth of what it means to be a whole woman. Many women seem to come up against this archetype as we begin to explore our true selves and our real desires, or as we up-level our business and personal lives, or as we step into a bigger game that calls for us to be seen and heard. The Good Girl Gremlin seems to come up just as women are about to expand and grow… just as we are about to rock the center stage of our own life. What are some “Good Girl” symptoms? You may spend energy in guilt and shame You may play small and hide out You may have trouble speaking your truth or being seen You may feel distanced from your desires You may feel limited, judged, and boxed in by yours and other’s expectations Your mantra may be “I’m not ready” or I’m not good enough (to be seen, to create your desires, to take action on your truth) You may feel bad about wanting more (more abundance, more passion, more purpose) and yet at the same time, you know there is more for you This week, I am inviting my friends, Christina Dunbar and Regena Garrepy to join us on the show! These women founded the Bye Bye Good Girl Movement and are now healthy, whole, and yes–badass women! I can't wait for them to show you how to claim all of this for yourself so that you live from a place of authenticity, truth and power.
Friday 25th of May 2012
Hot mamas know how to work it in the bedroom and in the boardroom! I'd like to think that we've been through enough together and have moved well beyond being embarrassed about asking the tough questions. We know that sex sells and we know that sex heals. So why not use a little sex to up our game in business? This week I am bringing on my good friend, Lou Paget, a well known Certified Sex Educator prominently featured on HBO and FOX. This Friday there won't be anything holding us back from telling it like it is... and getting down and dirty. You will LOVE Lou. Beside Lou being a complete blast to spend the hour with, you will learn things about the world of sex that you didn't know affected our every day lives as moms, soon-to-be-moms and entrepreneurs. Don't tune this one out because you think this show doesn't apply to you. Too many women (including myself) have opted not to pay attention to their sexual power simply because they didn't have the time to make it a priority. The truth is that those that join us this week will be one step ahead in business, parenting, and female empowerment. I Choose to be a Hot Mama! Do you? Lou Paget will be covering everything an empowered Hot Mama needs to know, from the questions she is too embarrassed to ask to things she wishes someone would give her permission to do! This goes beyond nurturing your sex life straight to the smart, sexy, and incredibly savvy! Come learn how to be a Hot Mama
Friday 18th of May 2012
Whether you are just at the beginning stages of your new home career or you've had a decent amount of success growing your small business and are ready to catapult yourself to the next level, additional capital needs to be considered. Starting with a larger investment might enable you to grow your business more agressively, but if you don't happen to have deep pockets you can find ways to fund your business through other areas of value. It's pretty simple really. You can't afford to hire a web designer? Spend a few days scouring the internet for free YouTube tutorials and teach yourself how to do it for nothing. What you lack in funding you can make up with time. The bottom line is you shouldn't let a great business idea fall by the wayside because you lack capital. If you have a stellar idea, a viable business plan and a whole lot of passion, there are always options for finding a way to launch your business. So tighten up those belts and get ready to ask the right questions about how to get the money you need to get going. How much do you need to have saved to be able to leave your corporate salary and begin working for yourself full time? How much should you invest in your business? How much of your return should you keep for yourself and how much should be invested back into the business? Do you need an investor? How does that work? How long should you wait for a return before changing your methods? How do you create a budget for your business? What are the basic start-up costs for a new home based business? (Licenses, trademark, website, patents, etc...) Known as the "Financial Mom" Pam Otten will be answering these questions and more.
Friday 11th of May 2012
For Mother's Day this year, what is it you REALLY want? If you are like most work-at-home moms I know, a relaxing day off with no responsibility for anyone other than yourself might sound like just the thing. But what would make it even more precious would be the ability to sustain that rejuvenation the other 364 days of the year. For me, that gift is knowing that my hard work and determination has a pay-off. Otherwise what is the point? Working at home is like taking on a double career for half the pay- and only some of us will actually see results in our income. Those odds are not very reassuring. So why do we keep at it? Because we love and care for our families and are determined to provide for them. Because we want to share ourselves with them as mothers and caretakers. Because we don't see any other way. The truth is, as parents, our time is VALUABLE and oh-so sparse. Focused work time without interruption is as scarce as hens’ teeth, so what little we have, we need to invest wisely. If you are not seeing the results you want, its time to re-evalute what you are doing with your precious time. What if I told you that I could give you the tools that would ensure you would see massive pay off this year? Happy Mother's Day. You're welcome. Most of the time its not about working HARD, its about working smart and strategically. I learned this and many more lessons 1 year ago at Tory Johnson's Spark and Hustle. This week I was reminded of where I was a year ago, and the clarity I received after I attending the game changing event. I can't wait to revisit this with you on the show this week. I am fired up and ready to rock it at the next level. If you want to come with me to Spark and Hustle in LA, connect with my people at an event in a city near you, or if you need to talk it out with someone who will give it to your straight ... write to me personally and we'll talk about it together. Pushing throught my skepticism was a defining moment for me. It started me on a path that has led to everything I am accomplishing today. Give yourself what you truly want this Mother's Day. You deserve it. This Week's Guest Ellen Gerst is a coach who helps clients to experience a change in perspective in order to move successfully through difficult life circumstances. With the ability to quickly drill down to the essence of a matter, she is able to effectively coach her clients to focus on achievable goals that will bring the most benefit to their lives. Ellen is also the author of several books on a variety of subjects including, grief, dating, relationships, spirituality, networking, social media, caregiving, and weight loss. Currently, she is coaching others on how to write and market a book in their area of expertise.
Friday 4th of May 2012
Back from the Blast! Last week's show was a hoot, wasn't it? It was exactly what I needed to let loose and feel more connected to my inner geek. Sometimes its neccessary to deviate from course a bit and shake things up. Thank you so much for your wonderful letters and participation! Melissa M. writes: "I needed this! It not only gave me reason to get out there and hit the gym, it gave me permission to enjoy listening to music that is mine." Amanda P. says: "That was truly hilarious! Ally, I have been waiting for you to break out that singing voice of yours. That was the most fun I've ever had listening to your show." Mendy G. says: "I was listening to your podcast and DYING! I ALSO have Rent on my music playlist I'm a huge Broadway playlist nerd..." Miss the Live show? Listen to the replay here---> This week our beloved Kelly will not be able to join us, but in her place I am thrilled to introduce you to another one of my fabulous staff members: Roz Walker. You may not realize it, but Roz is behind the scenes every day giving you so much of what you love about OurMilkMoney.com. It's Roz who is setting up our weekly giveaways and handling the contests, tweeting out our message each night, and posting all of those thoughtful and insightful quotes on our Facebook Fanpages. (nope, I can't take credit for it... it's all Roz!) Always on the edge of the latest social media trends, we are so very fortunate to have Roz tell us where we need to be, when and most importantly WHY! In addition to being an active a full time staff member of OurMilkMoney.com, Roz is CEO of CovertSocialMedia.com, where she is an expert on things like gaining followers on social media, social branding and small business PR. She is also a true advocate of work-at-home moms and is a busy multi-tasking mom of 2 little ones herself. Roz will be helping me interview our wonderfully insightful and altruistic guest, Debra Slover, whose mission is to plant seeds of the next generation and grow them into world leaders! Look out parents! Your child could be a pioneer in the making!
Friday 27th of April 2012
Me? Work out? You must be joking. Do I look like someone who likes to sweat? It was as though I had an allergic reaction to fitness- for most of my life. Joining a gym seemed like the dumbest idea and the biggest waste of money. EVER. Unless there were Broadway show tunes playing and I had my tap shoes on, I didn't like being active. AT ALL. Running or even walking on a treadmill was pure torture for me. I'd heard people talk about the endorphin rush they got when working out, but I was sure it was a myth. Then one day I became one of them... a fitness junkie. It started with the desire to have an uninterrupted shower - ("you mean, I can put the kids in the gym daycare and just...shower?") and then I made a deal with myself that I could only shower if I had walked for 10 minutes on the treadmill. It wasn't long before I was enjoying my 1 hour workout SO MUCH, that I was actually sad to have to end my time at the gym. Yep. All true. Not a myth. I drank the Kool Aide. This week. I am going to share with you my secrets to incorporating (and loving it) fitness into our stay-at-home routines- especially as a busy career mom who barely has time to brush her own hair. You will thank me for this one. This week, tune in to learn: -->Why my gym membership is the best investment I've made in my Home Business -->How I went from HATING the work-out to loving it. --> My "guilty pleasure" song list that is guaranteed to make you want to keep moving effortlessly! --> How to take advantage of all of the benefits of the gym. Everything from cheap child care, to free wi-fi. --> How to MELT away aches and pains with a self-treatment technique invented to bring youthfulness back to tired, aging bodies. This week, our special guest is my favorite fitness instructor, Gloria Stewart. There is so much to love about Gloria. She's fun, knowledgable and cutting edge! I became instantly addicted to her M.E.L.T. classes and couldn't wait to introduce her! What is M.E.L.T? The M.E.L.T. Method® (MELT) is a self-treatment technique that helps prevent pain, heal injury, and erase the negative effects of aging and active living. MELT simulates the hands-on techniques that Gloria Stewart uses to eliminate stress, pain, and dysfunction in her MELT classes. This unique Hands-off Bodywork™ approach is the first treatment that simulates the techniques – and the results – of manual therapy. MELT is the first neurofascial technique. This patent-pending method brings your body back to a more ideal state by directly enhancing body awareness, rehydrating connective tissue, and quieting the nervous system. The first time you MELT, you see and feel a difference – and over time, you can transform how your body looks and feels. MELT is changing the way people care for their bodies. This proactive approach to maintaining a healthy, pain-free, active lifestyle is the best solution for living longer…better. Friday, we're going to MELT!!
Friday 20th of April 2012
This week, I will be introducing you to one of the most heroic and intrepid women I've had the pleasure of meeting, a bright beacon of light for so many, Chrissy Harmon. From the moment I read her intense and undisguised encounter of what happened to her that night, I became truly encaptured by her ability to find strength within herself for the sake of her children and her powerful voice to tell it to the world. It is adverse experiences like this one that are used to create world-wide movements. I felt her power in every word that was written. She is revolutionary. She is influential. She is a mother who is driven by the love of her children and a vision for something better for herself and for all of us. On Friday, I am going to help Chrissy tell her story. We'll also be learning a little more about Clueberry World and why the creation of it is such a miracle in the midst of her treacherous marriage. I want everyone to know just how special Chrissy Harmon is. Not because she was a victim of domestic violence, but because of how she is making her mark on the world with all that she has, and all that has molded her. It is hard not to wonder if it was all meant to happen because of her gifted voice. Someone had to tell this story. Its an all too common story, but it needed a voice as powerful and tender as Chrissy's. Chrissy Harmon is a leader...much more than she is a victim. She has embraced her role in this world, and now we all have the great priviledge to learn from her.
Friday 13th of April 2012
Make the world a better place and get paid to do so. If there is one thing that inspires me, it is seeing a mom who had an idea that would make the world just a little brighter, a little more colorful, and a little more cheerful. Pair that with a mom who needs to create a source of revenue that allows her the option of making her family her number one priority and she's got herself a DREAM JOB. Wouldn't you love to find out how she did it? Say Please was started by life-long friends and fellow moms Judi Willard and Mary Fuller, because they were tired of seeing products being peddled for kids and adults with messages like: "My favorite accessory is my dad’s credit card", ‘‘Boys are stupid", or “I’m a Biotch.” They decided to create a company that produced greeting cards, clothing and other accessories that featured positive messages, but in a hip and humorous way. Any time you venture into a brand-new-never-done-before-creative business idea, it takes intense vision, blind risk ...and a whole lot of drive - the kind that might cause other people to call you crazy. No part of this is easy. Yet, mom product inventors like Judi Willard have defied odds, hurdles and adversity to successfully bring their bright ideas to stores like Pottery Barn, Toys R Us and Michaels. Positive words can change someone's day, a life, and eventually the world. This week I'll be bringing on Judi Willard a licensed psychotherapist who was able to use her talent, education, and passion to come up with a terrific product that helps parents to connect with their kids through upbeat phrases and sentiments that, quite simply, make kids feel great. Its a feel good kind of show jam packed with inspiration!
Friday 6th of April 2012
It takes hands to build a house, but only hearts can build a home. What does real estate have to do with building a career from home? Well since you asked... When you become a work-at-home parent, your home becomes more than just a place to raise your family. It becomes your office, your sanctuary and in some cases, a potential for earning investment income that could help to fund your business. Your home ownership situation could be an imposition or an advantage depending on the amount of knowledge that you have. More than half of the country’s population owns a home, so understanding the current housing market could be critical to your game. The amount of foreclosures and short sales are at an all time high. If you have been forced into one of these situations, you will be looking to get back into the housing market at the most appropriate time. How do you know when the time is right? Having the right information about the housing trends will guide you to when you can buy again as well as help you see the big picture on growing your business and providing for your family. Planning and development are a multi-tasking mom's secret ingredients. The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned. - Maya Angelou This week I will be bringing on my good friend and personal real estate guru, Brian Melville. I asked Brian to be my guest this Friday for so many reasons. Not only is he one of the most knowledgeable real estate experts in his industry, I have watched him drive his personal career and thrive no matter what the industry trends suggested. His perseverance and tenacity for his field has remained unwavered. We could all use a little lesson on how to be the last one standing when the competition throws in the towel. On Friday we are going to talk about STAYING POWER and how to leverage your current situation into reaching your desired results in record breaking time.
Friday 30th of March 2012
I love a good celebration. A pat on the back for a job well done is all I need to keep going on most days. Even through the most challenging times, I always know that my Friday shows will lift my spirits and bring me the clarity that I need to do my job to the best of my ability. Broadcasting to you is always the highlight of my week. Together we have set up a space filled with strength, compassion and unlimited possibilities. You are my rock. This Friday we will celebrate 100 episodes of This Little Parent Stayed Home together. We've come a long way baby! The best way to celebrate it is to look back, reflect on our journey and get ready for 100 more. Want to know what I have planned for this week? Not a darn thing. I've been told by my darling producer, Kelly St. Clair, that I need to sit back, relax, and trust that the show will just "be there" for me as I have for everyone else. What fun! I am looking forward to being pleasantly surprised! It's going to be an EXCELLENT Friday!
Friday 23rd of March 2012
I am hosting the GREATEST Event of the year and YOU are invited to be my guest! You've heard me talk about how Spark & Hustle transformed me last year. You may have even watched as I've grown my own business and brand into something extraordinary. It all started when I attended Spark & Hustle. It is almost disturbing to think that there was actually a time when I had considered NOT ATTENDING. I had a million excuses... It's too expensive.... I am too busy with the kids... There will be too much work waiting for me when I get back... It's too hard to find a sitter I trust... I might not like my roommate... I won't learn anything I don't already know... I don't have anything to wear... I need to stay focused on the new diet I just started... REALLY??? Seriously. I was looking for any excuse not to attend. The truth? I was afraid. Ever feel like this? I had been working my tush off for 4 years without any significant results. I was tired, I was spread thin, I was sick of my hard work not paying off. I didn't know if I could attend one more conference or invest in one more "promise" that would ulitimately disappoint. Tory Johnson promised me it would all change if I went to Spark & Hustle. She delivered. I came home from Spark & Hustle completely transformed and clear on my intentions to excel in everything I was doing. In exactly 1 year since that magical weekend, this is what I've accomplished: I landed a Literary Agent and launched The Home Free Thrive Guide & Audio Series. I turned my initial listenership of only 800 into nearly 20,000! (and still growing!) I landed sponsors for my radio show, enough to pay for the production in full and then some! I grew the OurMilkMoney.com database by 1200%. I began coaching, raised my rates beyond what I ever considered I could be worth, and booked up so many time slots I had to create a waitlist for new clients! I moved my family out of out teeny tiny condo and into our dream home! I became a sought after and PAID public speaker! A DREAM come true. It's been a great year and I have only just begun. This Friday I am thrilled and honored to have the amazing Tory Johnson join us on the show. If you know her, you are most likely already positively affected by her. A woman with so much impact on the global women's movement, a creative force that inspires new talent and booming business concepts, and a true source of inspiration for so many. This is an interview you will not want to miss.
Friday 9th of March 2012
Unemployment might be the best thing that ever happened to you. We have all heard these stories from some of the most successful people in the world. Their journey almost always starts off with unexpected loss, sickness or misfortune. I lost my job.... My house was foreclosed... I was diagnosed with a life altering illness.... I went through a horrible divorce... Dare I say it? Is it possible that hardships and losses have something to do with success and properity? Yes it does....that is, if you have the perspective to make your stumbling blocks into building blocks. Listen for the Cha-Ching in your Challenges This week I will be bringing on a good friend and terrific public speaker, Alan Sherwood, a fellow Toginet host of the increasingly popular weekly show, Successfully Unemployed. Alan will be joining me on the show this week to help answer some of the most critical questions about how to find stable and fulfilling employment. Together we will be talking about his valuable threefold perspective that can provide a means to a faster and more fulfilling end...no matter what the setback. Tune in this week to learn: --->How to turn your unemployment into abundant self-employment --->The benefits of owning a home-based business --->How to make use of transferable skills from your previous jobs --->How to transition from being an employee to starting your own home-based business --->Why networking is important even before you start your own business ...and more!
Friday 2nd of March 2012
Choose to Live in a World of Progress and Forward Motion Want the life you are in. Easier said than done... or is it? Some people make it look so effortless. The truth is that it can become effortless once you have made a habit out of it. Ahhhh, yes. Creating a new habit is where you might be getting hung up. If getting a new perspective is all you need, that means its time to declutter your current perception of things. You must train yourself. Letting go of limited beliefs simply requires re-training and refining. All too often we become trapped by misconceptions that our destiny is determined by some acutely misterable incidents that life throws our way. ...unless you choose to believe that these "incidents" are disguised as something else. Blessings? Opportunities? Lessons? Use your creative force to thrive on these endeavors. We can't be afriad to trust that we possess a powerful spirit - the same spirit that helped us to create and nurture our children. We can use this empowered spirit to help us apply for a business loan, quit our day jobs to work for ourselves, or call up an intimidating client to close the deal. To deny this spirit would be almost as bad as settling for mediocrity. You don't want that for your children, so why accept that for yourself? Let go of limiting beliefs and you will acheive a better perspective in all you do. If you are truly ready to be in a better reality, you must be willing to see things differenty than in the past. Negative illusions might be holding you back from knowing that it is a grand thing just to be alive. More than that, it could be preventing you from broadcasting a powerful message to the world that only you were meant to deliver. If you are truly ready to become a pioneer, than you must be willing to invest more into your creative core. Dare to stand before the Universe when it presents you with a challenge and ask, "Is that all ya got?" My guest this week is... you. I will be opening up the phone lines to address any challenges you may be facing in your business, your family or your personal life. If you would like to join us with a challenging question of your own, book your FREE COACHING SPOT NOW or if you are unable to call in live, but would like to have a challenge addressed on the air please FILL OUT THIS FORM. This Week's Giveaway THE HOME FREE THRIVE GUIDE WORKBOOK AND AUDIO SERIES
Friday 24th of February 2012
New Trends for a New Generation of Kids What was important to our parents when we were growing up isn't neccessarily a priority for our children. For example, learning and retaining information has become less important as a life skill because information is instantly and freely available via the web. IT skills are less valued as devices become so much more intuitive to use. The newer skills which we need to teach now are more self-developmental. Children should understand the power of teamwork, the real value of sharing and the deep fulfilment that comes from making a contribution to the world. These same skills that are taught to us as adults to help us improve our home lives and create success at work can be applied when raising our children. As entrepreneurs in business we already know the importance of acting on our ideas, creating our own opportunitiesand taking balanced risks. These are the exact same qualities our children need to be successful 'entrepreneurs of life'. Why wait until we reach adulthood to learn attitudes that will lead to a more successful life? As parents, we desire for our children to grow up with confidence and self-belief. We aim to help them understand that they control their own destiny and that they can determine the life they ultimately live. Just as we have come to learn in adulthood, our children can be taught that if they set a goal and work towards it with planning and determination then it will happen. Take action now. Imagine the power of starting this journey of self development in the early years. How much more prepared for the turmoil of teenage years might your children be if they have the right attitudes to start with? Our children's early years pass quickly - just ask any parent with kids in college. The best time to provide them with strong foundations for life is between birth and 11 years. Once they are into their teens their lives become more complex and our ability to influence them has significantly diminished. Joining us as a guest this week is David Machin, a visionary with an important mission for children and the parents who raise them. On Friday we will be talking about what the future has in store for our kids, defining new opportunities for them and how new discoveries in science and technology are paving the way for the next generation of world leaders.
Friday 17th of February 2012
You want to be your own boss, but do you see yourself as an expert? Packaging your expertise won't be easy if you don't have a clear perspective of the package you are already in. How you share your message with the world will determine how you are able to truly monetize your work/life experiences and it starts with what you are already projecting. If u hav tIpos n missppellins in ur soshal medea n email corresspondance, you might be conveying a misperception about your capabilities and who you really are. Build your Expert Empire. Are you discounting your knowledge and your expertise? If you don't believe it, you can't expect others to believe it either. Unfortunately we can't just snap our fingers and magically acheive the ideal confidence level that we need to run our business with ease and impact... or can we? Fake it until you make it. Feel like a fraud? It's what the top leaders in your industry have been doing for years. Start by dressing the part, portraying the professional you aim to be and embodying the persona of an expert in your chosen feild. The secret to social self-confidence is to know and understand the rules of social engagement before you’re in the middle of an uncomfortable situation. In a simple sense, when you know which fork to use — you are liberated. It works the same way with small talk, introductions, eye contact, and “The Perfect Hand Shake”. Take a quick lesson in etiquette. Joining us as a guest this week is Patricia Rossi, the author of the book Everyday Etiquette: How To Navigate 101 Common and Uncommon Social Situations. This week we will be diving into some of the most common traditional etiquette guidelines and those that are relevant to our technologically-oriented society of today. This is the framework for basic kindness, authentic confidence and overall better personal and business relationships.
Friday 10th of February 2012
What are you willing to give up? If you are still daydreaming about leaving your corporate day job to: a) stay home with your kids b) be your own boss c) have more freedom or d) all of the above Why haven't you made that leap? Are you... ... scared that you will not find a comparable income to the one that you are currently making? ... scared of losing your current lifestyle? ... scared that you won't be able to pay the bills? ... scared that you are not capable of being your own boss? ... just plain scared? Doers are daring. As scary as it may be, there comes a point where you must ask yourself what sacrifices you are willing to make in order to inspire change. Last week I did a live broadcast from my dream home for the first time. If you listened in, you know how happy I have been. I feel proud because I know how hard my husband and I have worked to earn this. However this house didn't just fall into our laps as a result of our hard work. We still had to take action to obtain our dream home. Although that may be obvious, I've seen people for years yearn for something that they had not created an intended action for. You can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket. This doesn't mean that purchasing a lottery ticket is the best way to earn an income. However it's just as silly to sit there and hope that you win if you never bought a ticket to begin with. Make a game plan and start playing. Joining us as a guest this week is my good friend, Stirling Gardner. He is an actor in Hollywood who has been supporting his dream by freelancing as a blogger and living in one of the most expensive cities in the country RENT FREE. I asked him to join us on the show this week so he could tell you exactly how he did it. These tips and more will revealed this Friday!
Friday 3rd of February 2012
Greetings from my new home! I am a bit late in getting this message out to you because I have been busy moving my family into my dream house. For years we have been busting at the seams of the little condo that my husband and I bought when we were first married. Since becoming a growing family of four we have been striving to afford a bigger place. Job losses for both of us as well as the declining real estate market meant that we were destined to stay trapped for years in that tiny condo box for years. At times it felt hopeless, but we didn't give up. We have finally arrived. As laborious and demanding as the journey was, I now feel as if I am standing on the top of Mt. Everest. I barely remember the turmoil and tears that got us here. All I can feel right now is pure gratification...and a little bit of shock that I actually made it. I can't wait to talk more about my journey with you on Friday! Will you celebrate with me? There is more to celebrate... Several of my friends this year have been nominated for Oscars. Crazy right? That heavy gold statuette that only America's Royalty have had the honor of clutching in their perfectly manicured hands? Not the people I know. These are true stories of everyday ordinary folks like you and me who have risen to the top with passion, tenacity, and a whole lot of drive. We have the great opportunity to learn from their journey. We have one of the biggest giveaways ever this week! Joining us as a guest this week is Jacqueline Green, the founder of The Great Parenting Show...and wait until you see what she is giving away!!
Friday 20th of January 2012
What is the SPARKLE EFFECT? Much like the butterfly that has the ability to alter the weather with a simple flap of its wings, we have the power to create change...within ourselves, in the children we raise, in the businesses we build, and in the world we live in. It all starts with a simple mindshift. The Sparkle Effect is a lot like the Butterfly Effect... only fancier. Last week I talked about a profound experience I'd gotten fully engrossed in, and how amidst a busy schedule I'd found myself reaching out to a complete stranger who was in the process of breaking out of a voilent and abusive marriage and rebuilding a new life for herself and her 3 children. Learning about Chrissy Harmon's brush with death after being beaten by her husband rocked my core, had me up until 3am desperately trying to track her down, and ultimately landed her a possible opportunity to get massive support through a reality series on OWN TV. Listen to last week's show now--->. There is no better way for us to break out of our entitlement attitudes than to see someone who might not have it so easy. As parents and business people, we can't help but want to leave our mark on the world. Often, we become so busy we don't stop to notice how much we are already making a difference. Are you aware of you sphere of influence? When you blog, do you think about who might be affected by your words? When you post a simple facebook status update or send out a tweet, do you give much thought to the impact you may be having on a single person who may be browsing several months after you posted? This week, please welcome Kristi Lynn Olson, an Entrepreneur Success Strategist for Women. If you are tired of being invisible and insignificant, and ready to share your unique gifts and talents with the world- you'll want to get to know Kristi. An expert in helping women unlock their true sparkle and discover their purpose, Kristi will be joining us Friday to share tips and tricks that will be sure to get you noticed.
Friday 13th of January 2012
What should a busy overworked mom dovwhen she is most overwhelmed? Blow everything off and go to Disneyland.   And that is exactly what I will be doing tomorrow. Why? BECAUSE I CAN.   I admit it. That overworked and overloaded mom lately is me. Ever since my rocket touched the 2012 atmosphere, my business and my family life has hit warp speed. My schedule is booked with private coaching until March, the kids are operating with a new level of nutty energy (as they are most likely ready to get back to school), and since we are busting out of the teeny little condo that my husband and I bought when we were first married,  we have decided to sell it and look for a bigger place.   There is nothing drastic, dire or tragic here.  In fact, everything that is occuring is due to growth, expansion, and prosperity - all things to be grateful for.   WOW...is this fortunate and privileged mom really... complaining? The truth is when we are knee deep in the chaos, and we haven't left room to reflect each day, we get easily jumbled, muddled and cluttered. It becomes difficult to see clearly all that we should be grateful for.   Has this ever happened to you?   The good news is that as our own bosses, we have the luxury of calling ourselves into the big office, patting ourselves on the back for working an obscene amount of overtime, and granting ourselves the day off to take our kids to a theme park.   This is why we became self-employed in the first place. Sure, it is 3 times the amount of work for a fraction of the paycheck, but the freedom to do whatever the heck you want on any given day is PRICELESS.   How often do you take advantage of your role as boss and announce that today will be a "fun day"? I'll tell ya, nothing is more freeing as a work-at-home-mom-o-holic.   I will be back from the Happiest Place On Earth this Friday, just in time to introduce you to my friend and guest of the hour, Dawn Billings. Now there is a lady who knows how to put the fun in her step. I've never met anyone with such vision for the unconquered. Dawn is a big dreamer, but more importantly, she is a big DOER.   Enjoy the rest of your week. Friday will be a great day
Friday 6th of January 2012
How different would your day-to-day be if you never had to nag your kids again? What a happy 2012 it would be! I hope that you had a wonderful holiday celebration with your families! My greatest wish is that you gifted yourself with some much needed YOU time before the year ended. There is nothing better than to hit the ground running with intense enthusiasm for a bright new year after being completely refreshed from a relaxing holiday. Are you laughing yet? The reality is that the holidays can be pretty stressful for everyone - especially for parents, and even more so for those who have chosen to stay at home. Somehow we manage to become more run down from our vacations than from our double careers. You wouldn't be alone if you found yourself secretly counting the seconds before the kids return to their school schedules. Does this sound a bit more familiar? What if I told you that I had a gift for you that would make your job as a parent a whole lot easier? Imagine being rid of daily annoyances like toddler melt-downs, sibling rivalry and nagging to get your children to do their chores. Wouldn't that make your life a lot less hectic and a lot more productive? Imagine what you could do with all of that stress-free and unflustered time! That is why I am truly over the moon to be introducing you to our guest this Friday, Amy McCready, Founder of Positive Parenting Solutions and an expert who has appeared on Today and The Rachael Ray Show, among many others. I had the priviledge of reading her book over my holiday vacation, called "If I Have to Tell You One More Time..." The Revolutionary Program That Gets Your Kids to Listen Without Nagging, Reminding or Yelling. Believe me when I tell you- I have been blown away by the affects of these incredible tools that get your kids to listen. If it worked on my strong-willed little devils, it will work on yours! Simple and concise, this strategy is for every parent looking to raise respectful, well-behaved, and well-adjusted children, whether dealing with a willful two-year old or a power-seeking twelve year old. I loved this strategy so much, I couldn't resist sharing it with you. This is my gift to you to begin the new year right. So... Happy New Year!! We have decided to sponsor Amy McCready by hosting a FREE WEBINAR just for my special listeners. What busy and involved parent wouldn't want to start the new year off with more serenity, less conflict and a lifetime of peacefulness?
Friday 16th of December 2011
It's my birthday, and I am coming out. Nope, I am not gay. But like those who are, the best way to embrace your unique value with dignity and self love is to make the most important purchase of your life and own the rights to your personal truth. My friend, Rick Clemons, known as "The Coming Out Coach" taught me that, and he joins us on this special show. As you know, I am on a mission to bring home 1 million parents. I have been incredibly focused on this bold endeavor which has delightfully led me to connecting with compassionate and purposeful parents like you across the world. I have been hell-bent on helping you to claim your freedom so that you are able to adequately parent, provide and nurture your families, as well as yourselves, on your own terms. While deep in our determination to achieve what we have set out to accomplish, it is easy to lose track of our core intuitions... and I am no exception. This very often happens to the best of us when we become fearful of taking risks or, as in my case, taking firm stances on issues that are immensely important to us and those we love. Tomorrow is my birthday and I have decided to celebrate it with you by talking freely on topics that I have held back on in the past. My birthday wish is that you will join me with love, compassion, and an open heart. Join me in reaching new heights of clarity as we celebrate all that makes us singularly remarkable, and honor our personal enthusiasm for who we are- without apology.
Friday 9th of December 2011
SEX is not a dirty word. As you probably have already guessed, we are going to get into some juicy conversations this Friday. So often we tip toe around topics like pleasure and passion...and as a result we may be denying ourselves abundant wealth, health and quality of life. Yep, sex is a necessary topic. The word has gotten a bad rap over the last several decades and yet it is one of the most natural ways to boost health and stamina, increase immunity, creativity and productivity as well as earn a better income. So if you want to put the sexy back into your business (as well as the bedroom) you won't want to miss Friday's show! WHAT? SEX can help me grow my business? Yes, absolutely. Ever hear of Oxytocin? Known as the "love hormone", it helps women to love, bond and call upon their most creative channels. So wouldn't it make sense to take full advantage of... this natural hormone when we are experiencing disconnect with ourselves, our partners, and even our businesses? Has This Little Parent Stayed Home gone ... porn?? Not at all. But we won't hold back on sharing any relevant topic with you. This week I am going to bring on my friend, Bonnie Gayle, the inventor of a product called Sex Butter. You won't want to miss her incredible story of how she found success with a product that so many people shied away from.
Friday 2nd of December 2011
Sometimes you just gotta laugh about life. If you are like me, you are already knee deep in the hustle and bustle of the holiday season. I find that there is really only one way to enjoy it before it stresses you out. Indulge with no regret. You deserve to unwind, so take the hour off, pour yourself a glass of wine, and join me for some must needed girl chat and laughter. From here until the end of the year, we'll be talking about kickstarting 2012 at a pace that works for us. We have a terrific guest joining us, stand up comedian, author and public personality, Stefanie Wilder-Taylor In addition, I will be welcoming a new host on Toginet Radio, Judy Schriener, an award winning journalist and a first rate interviewer. I know I am looking forward to getting a few lessons from her!
Friday 18th of November 2011
Wouldn't it be nice to wake up every day with boundless energy and vitality?   Its a common problem among hard working moms. We give the best of ourselves to our children, our marriages, our homes, our businesses and maybe...just maybe... if there is time... we'll give something back to ourselves.   We know its backwards.    We know its not healthy.   We know this behavior will eventually come back to haunt us, but its a trap we fall into time and time again.   Stop the madness and recapture your magnificence!   Its time to practice new habits and take preventative measures. Learn to put yourself first and as a result create optimum health and well-being for yourself as well as your children. Because lets face it- when Mom is feeling good, everyone gets to reap the rewards.   This week we'll be talking about how to amp up your vitality and your vavoom!  Joining us is Sharon Otness-Foot, a Healthy Lifestyle Coach who helps women fall in love with themselves again by feeling healthy, vibrant, sexy and confident through the "VaVoom Factor," a 5-part process, designed to take clients from Doom and Gloom to VaVoom
Friday 11th of November 2011
The most effective enterprises come from our own experiences. It happens to all of us. We get an amazing product idea based on our own desire to fulfill a personal need. We consider putting our brainchild into action, get spooked by the unknown and let the idea fizzle away. Then we freak out when we learn that someone else had the same idea, and is making a nice living off of our brainchild. If this has happened to you on more than one occasion, its time to re-evaluate and re-engage. Don't let another brilliant concept pass you by. There are so many reasons that I am excited to share this week's guest with you. Kelly Lester, the inventor of EasyLunchboxes, is that Mom Entrepreneur. You know, the one who created a product that seems so simple in retrospect that nearly anyone could have come up with it, but she was the one who took the ball and ran with it. She is the one who took action, and she did it with full commitment- without reservation, without exception, and without excuses. In less than 3 years, Kelly's product has taken the lunchbox industry by storm becoming the top lunchbox product on Amazon.com, and the most talked about lunchbox campaign on the web today. All of this was executed without spending a single advertising dollar. READ MORE ABOUT KELLY LESTER HERE---> Oh yeah. There is a lot we can learn from Kelly Lester. And her product? We unofficially announced on our facebook fanpage that our giveaway this week would be one of her complete lunchbox systems, and we already have people clamoring to win. Wouldn't you love to know her secrets? In addition to getting the inside scoop about her incredibly successful launch pad, Kelly will be sharing some of her best tips for creating a healthy and fun food lifestyle for our families. ...AND because Kelly happens to be a really FUN friend of mine, we're going to have a BLAST. (That is just a given...)
Friday 4th of November 2011
have had the pleasure of connecting with thousands of parents in the last 4 years, and that number grows rapidly each day. One thing that remains consistent in what I have learned from you as parents: We really are more alike than different. It should come as no surprise that we are motivated by the exact same thing: Our love for our children. We may be activated through different means of achieving our goals, different passions, career aspirations and lifestyle visions, but the driving force is still the same. Why then, do we feel so alone? Today there is a greater ability to connect with one another than in any past generation. There has never been a better time for moms and dads to claim their place in society and earn their way to freedom, all while making a difference for our children and the future that awaits them. Thanks to the interactive media, gone are the days of the lonely house parent who has no means of connecting to other grown-up intelligence. We have resources! We must realize our potential as a community, our power as consumers, and the promise for a significant impact by committing to COLLABORATION. There is a science behind all of this and when closely examined, it equals progress. This week, I am going to be introducing you to one of my most favorite people, Sundara Delphini. A single mom, a doctor of alternative medicine, an expert in spiritual wellness, and a master of energy and quantum physics. There is no better way to describe her... Sundara is a HEALER. Together we will be discussing the very energy that surrounds us, binds us and connects us- and how to harness it for our advantage in this forward movement. Joining me also this week will be a very special guest co-host, one of the loyal and dedicated staff members of OurMilkMoney.com, Wendy Conte, Certified Bookkeeper and Quickbooks ProAdvisor for more than twenty years, and a terrific example of a successfully self-employed parent with an ideal niche.
Friday 28th of October 2011
If life is a contact sport... just seize the remote. I admit it. I am a disenfranchised companion of a hopeless sports fanatic. Every year during the baseball season and then during football season…and then again during basketball and hockey season, I become a sports widow. My usually amazing, supportive and attentive husband disappears into an alternate universe. He becomes engrossed in our TV and is oblivious to anything occurring outside of the flat screen. He is visually as well as audibly impaired and deprived of common reality. Not only do I lose my husband's mental state to the sports world, I lose him emotionally as well. Suddenly his moods become dependent on how his team performed that day. During the season, my family also gets to witness overly superstitious behavior bordering on OCD. I don't just mean wearing a favorite shirt or chanting a team mantra- I mean the belief that if he doesn't eat the right food or sit in the perfect position- that he personally will have a negative affect on the outcome of the game. If you would like to get back to loving your man (rather than loathing the Super Bowl) rest assured- help is on the way. I cannot wait to bring on our special guest of the week, Leah Jantzen- a fellow Toginet host, stay-at-home mom, life coach, and brilliant expert in helping the abandoned sports wives become abundantly sports savvy. We'll be discussing how to meet your sports-a-holic half way, how to find your inner sports fan amid the sports aversions you think you might have, and how to use these televised sporting events to work to your advantage. Mine and Kelly's husband's also join us for the sports talk. Oh Joy!
Friday 21st of October 2011
Give yourself permission to be the boss of you. Today I had a conversation with my 5 year old about being the boss of himself, and how he shouldn't worry about what everyone else is doing on the kindergarten play yard. Interesting concept, isn't it? All too often we see a clear path to success for others much more than we see for ourselves. I remember when I wasn't the boss of myself... when I had a job working for someone else. Several jobs, actually. Although I didn't know it at the time, I lacked 2 things that I will never take for granted as my own boss again: Freedom and choice. I just came back from an empowering conference called "Woo Hoo Weekend" with Lisa Steadman- where I had the privilege of speaking to a fantastic group of men and women about our choices as parents who are self-employed. For many of us, the desire to become our own boss didn't fully transpire until we became parents. We talked about the physical, mental and emotional transformation that came about once our children became the centerpiece in our lives. No matter how much we had prepared, everything took a detour once baby made 3. In some ways, parenthood gave us more clarity and more self-purpose than we'd ever known, or ever expected to know. In other ways, it presented us with fear, worry and loneliness that would keep us up late to serve our families and our businesses - but rarely ourselves. Now more than ever, there should never be a question how necessary it is that we claim our success and stand up for our smart and savvy selves. No one can travel down your path, hold your actions accountable, or celebrate your story as well as you. I am thrilled to be inviting a dear friend to the show on Friday - a passionate parent and wow-woman with aptitude, drive and mom power, Jill Leberknight. I know you will find her to be as inspirational as I do!
Friday 14th of October 2011
Today, we have Geoff Alexander from iContact returning to the show- and we will also be introducing you to the winner of the iContact email marketing campaign home-based business, Lisa Nicholson. I am thrilled to be able to talk to her for the first time and I just know that you are all going to be so inspired by her. She is definitely someone who makes things happen, without excuses, without letting fear or rejection frighten her… she has the right attitude- she is someone that we all should aspire to be like. The Home Free Thrive Guide Workbook & Audio Series- This is in honor of my first product launch! I am truly excited to be offering this to you all! First, I will be giving away a free package today on the air. And if you would still like to win a copy, you can visit us at facebook.com/thislittleparentstayedhome to register- it takes seconds to register- and we have giveaways nearly every week… so be sure that you are on our fan page.
Friday 7th of October 2011
You might be holding a magic wand. If you've been following along each week, you have most likely been planting seeds for awhile now. Like the vegetables and flowers in your garden, the seeds need nourishment. Water, sunlight, soil and love. If you have been diligently tending to the seeds of your home based business, there is no telling when they could sprout! For some, seeing those sprouts can be very exciting. For others, overwhelming and downright SCARY. What if that big break to happened TOMORROW? The truth is that we are often not prepared for that million dollar break, and it could be a likely reason why it has not happened yet. Are you sabotaging your own success? I believe in the power of manifestation and that often we will subconsiously wish away the things that we are working so hard to acheive- because deep down we don't feel prepared to handle the success. I am afraid... ...if the local news station runs a segment about me, too many people would see, want to buy my product and I wouldn't have enough inventory. ...if I took on more clients, I wouldn't be able to find the time to service them. ...if I made a big sale, I'd have to hire contract help, and then I'd have to pay them. ...if Oprah comes calling, there wouldn't be anyone to pick up my kids from school. Sounds crazy right? These may be other people's fears, but if you are willing to dig a little deeper, you may discover that you have some irrational fears of your own. The truth is, these are common fears that I have heard from many of the self-employed parents that I talk with and coach. Could it be that you are actually afraid of success? Let's at least be honest about WHY you might posses these fears of success. Once you are able to clearly see what is holding you back, a magic wand will be revealed to you. It may be as simple and clear as making a choice to wave it and be ready for bigger and better things. Join us this Friday when we talk about FEAR (in honor of the scariest month of the year)!! I am thrilled to be welcoming back a favorite guest, Danny Koefke! You may remember him as the school teacher and author who told us that if his entire family could thrive on a teacher's salary, you could survive on fixed budget as well. Danny is giving away a copy of his newest book! A Simple Book of Financial Wisdom: Teach Yourself (and Your Kids) How to Live Wealthy with Little Money
Friday 30th of September 2011
You'd love to leave your day job and come home full time, but then how would you put food on the table? You are not alone in your desires, and you are willing to explore every viable option, but in the end, you feel lucky to have a job and a steady paycheck. You don't want to mess with decent fortune in this economy, so instead of rocking the boat you stay right where you are - despite the fact that you really wish you had more time at home with your family.   No one blames you for being torn between having big dreams and staying comfortable in your current reality.   So lets explore something new. Telecommuting.    Keep the job. Lose the commute.   Not only can you have your cake and eat it too, but by proposing a telecommute option to your current employer, you will be contributing to a growing trend and paving the way for others to do the same.   You may not realize this but most people who are currently telecommuting for their employer originally believed it wasn't an option. The reality? Telecommuting is a growing trend BECAUSE of the tremendous value it provides for the employee as well as the employer. New research shows that employee productivity increases when given more freedom and flexibility to work from a remote location. Telecommuting is also attractive to larger companies because it saves on overhead by downsizing the physical workplace.   Join us this Friday when we share with you just how mobile today's workforce really is!   Joining us are Peter Mann, CEO of Oransi, a green home products company that strongly encourages their employees to telecommute, and Kate Lister from the Telework Research Network.  READ MORE ABOUT OUR EXPERT GUESTS HERE--->   Co-hosting with me this week is one of my most talented and dedicated staff members, Roz Walker, Director of Marketing and Business Development at OurMilkMoney.com. READ MORE ABOUT ROZ HERE--->   We'll be making a big announcement on Friday!  If you have been following along with the iContact campaign- the results are in!  After reviewing hundreds of fantastic applications and meeting with several top candidates, we have finally chosen a winner!  Tune in Friday to hear who we have selected to win the iContact Email Marketing Home Based Business!
Saturday 24th of September 2011
You've listened to other inspirational stories. Now it's time to listen to your own. We all have a story to tell, but hands down- your story is the best one there is. No matter where you are in your journey- there is an inspirational screenplay in the making with you playing the role of the protagonist, the hero and the champion. Don't quite see it? There is tremendous value in living in the moment - in treasuring every trial and tribulation and having pride in your "war wounds". We learn through struggle. We become stronger each time we fall down. We gain valuable insight by doing - much more than listening to others tell us how to do it. For most of us, there isn't a lot that we aren't willing to do to achieve our ultimate success. Before we invest ourselves emotionally, financially and mentally however, we want to know that there will be an ultimate pay off. We are cautious. We can't afford to waste our precious time on a business concept that might suck up our resources and leave us feeling depleted, burned and rejected. We have become so cautious that often we choose not to take the risk at all. No matter how trapped we feel in our less than desirable situations, we aren't always willing to leave the safety of our personal prisons. Do more than learn about it. Live it. This week I am going to show you how to use your innermost conflicts as a catalyst for your own personal success. No one can tell your story like you can. You may be surprised just how inspirational your story is. The more trauma and anguish....the better! Join us this Friday when I give you a quick step by step tutorial on how to create your own inspirational story - complete with a destination so successful that it will have your audiences cheering to the very end. This is one story that will give you more drive and will power than anything else has given you up until now. Our guest this week is Debra M. Cohen, Successful Mompreneur, President of Home Remedies® of NY, Inc., and author of The Complete Guide To Owning And Operating A Successful Homeowner Referral Network©
Friday 9th of September 2011
Can't find the ideal job? Create your own. If you ever feel like saying - Just give me a job already! Please, just give me a legitimate way to earn a paycheck and I'll make you proud! Then - oh boy - do I have a surprise for you! Together we are going to create a job opportunity. An opportunity that will give you: A. The flexibility to work around your family's hectic schedule B. A creative outlet in which you've been aching and C. Unlimited income making potential Think you've heard it all before? Think again. In this defining age of technology, the one thing every business needs is an email marketing system that empowers businesses to engage, educate and retain customers. Not to mention stay on top of cutting edge social media that will bring about new clients. There is no doubt about the need for this type of service. What would you say to someone hiring you to do just that? This Friday I am bringing on Geoff Alexander, Director of Product Development at iContact to talk to you about how to use their Agency program to offer an email marketing service out of your home. Think of all the businesses, large and small in your local community who could use your creative expertise in getting the word out for them! Do you like to write? How about starting a business that creates press releases for small businesses in your community? Perhaps you have your own idea. What would you do with an email marketing business? If this sounds like something you'd like to explore, you won't want to miss Friday's show! WANT TO BE OUR GUINEA PIG? We need someone to show 'em how its done... One lucky stay-at-home parent will win a free annual subscription to an iContact Agency account as a way to enhance and grow a home-based business. The winner will be hand selected to join us on the air to share with us their process, their challenges and especially THEIR SUCCESS!! From now through September 19, OurMilkMoney.com welcomes all parents who are looking for a legitimate home-based business opportunity to enter the contest by visiting OurMilkMoney/iContact Contest and filling out a basic online application. OurMilkMoney.com and iContact.com will form a committee to select one winner. The result of the contest will be announced live on the radio October 7. READ MORE ABOUT iCONTACT HERE---> And there is more being given away this week! Those that are not selected are welcomed to participate in a free iContact 30-day trial account and to follow along with the educational radio program dedicated to helping parents bring their career home.In addition, I will be welcoming one of my favorite motivational business speakers to co-host with me this week. Lisa Steadman, the CLAMOR QUEEN and brilliant ambassador of WOO HOO! If you already know her, I don't have to tell you just how amazing she is. If not, now is your chance. You won't be able to help yourself from feeding off of her empowerment!
Friday 2nd of September 2011
Our careers are not indissoluble. Its almost too easy sometimes to fall out of love with our projects, and let them die slowly on the vine. Our marriages: Not always indestructible. Our choice to become a parent? PERMANENT. No getting out of that one. Becoming a parent is never what you expected and no matter how much you prepare, you are never prepared enough. Why? Every child is different and every family has a different dynamic. Parenthood is a constant transition, filled with drastic modifications in your environment, your priorities and your relationships. Staying organized and on top of your game is essential for your business success as well as the success of your parenting. Joining me this week is parenting expert, successful business coach, public speaker and fellow Toginet radio show host, Brenda Nixon of The Parents Plate.
Friday 26th of August 2011
They say art is a way of life...but can you live it?   There are people who have spent their lifetime making sacrifices for their art. Why not do the same for our children, our businesses and our ideal way of life?   The "struggling artist" very often gets a bad reputation for being poor, irresponsible, or unclear about what their priorities should be. But consider for a moment what we can learn from this generation's artist. Take away the desire to "make money" and replace it with the desire to "make art" and you'll see exactly how its possible to live beneath your means in a way that makes you happy and filled with joy on a daily basis.   Struggling to survive in a bad economy? Ask a stage actress who has been living in her own personal recession for her entire career. In massive business debt? Ask a theater company how they've managed to survive performing to only half-filled houses. Feeling empty or undernourished from being forced to live a more frugal lifestyle? Ask the poet how going for a walk in the rain can satisfy their soul for the rest of the week.   If the goal here is to spend more time with your family- if that is what simply makes your life worth living -then the artist just may be the ideal teacher for you.   Joining me this week is playwright, Rebekah L. Pierce, whose work focuses on contemporary women and the search for purpose and identity.
Friday 19th of August 2011
We are Moms. It's our job to be emotional. Let's take off our business hats and focus on the kids this week. Since we are our own bosses, we can absolutely make that decision if we want to ...and commit to it....guilt free! (Its one of the many perks to being self-employed). Now that we've established that, lets get back to the kids. For many, its back to school week! Whether you send your kids to public school, private school, or home school- we have each chosen what we believe is the best method for educating our children and helping them to find their place in this world. As their caretakers we have made ourselves responsible in virtually everything: Language, manners, safety, resourcefulness, discipline, curiousity, creativity. Empathy. EVERYTHING. (I am exhausted just thinking about it!) No matter what education system you have chosen for your child, it is important that we include the importance of taking risks. In each stage of life, infant to adult, its been proven time and time again that INTELLIGENCE does not always equal success, but CONFIDENCE IN SELF very often does equal success. Therefore, we'll be talking about the importance of growing through neccessary risk taking and encouarging your children to do the same. This is a special week for me personally because my oldest is starting Kindergarten and my youngest is starting Preschool. Its been a very emotional and exciting time for my family. If you have a child who is starting a new school, or simply moving up to a new grade level, join me on Friday where we can congratulate (as well as commiserate with) each other on another parent job well done.
Friday 12th of August 2011
A Mom is a Mom is a Mom... But my favorite kind of mom is one with a sense of humor. Which is why I am over the moon about having a good laugh with my dear friend, Kaitlin Olson on Friday's show. You know her from her hit television comedy series, It's Always Sunny in Phillidelphia on FX, or from her recurring roles on Curb Your Enthusiasm, Meet the Marks, The Drew Carey Show, Miss Match and countless others. Yep, she's a celebrity, and I'd be lying if I said I wasn't proud to know her although not for the reason you might think. If there is one person who has stayed completely grounded despite her fame in Hollywoodland, Kaitlin is the girl. Its not often you meet someone who has it all- beauty, brains, talent, and love. She's the full package... and she's not all that different from me and you. We are in for a real treat this week!
Friday 5th of August 2011
There is power in numbers. When I first created OurMilkMoney.com, it was because I had a dream to be able to stay home and take care of my family. I knew that I couldn't do it alone, and that there had to be others who had the same dream. My vision for OurMilkMoney.com was that it would be a collaborative organization - one that would serve a purpose for many others like me. The more parents I could get involved- the more we would accomplish for ourselves and our children. I had dreams of validation, purpose and impact. Nearly 4 years later, I still feel the energy from all of you. It’s feeding itself. We can see very clearly what we have already accomplished and how much more we will grow and succeed as a team. Parents are a force to be reckoned with. We share the same philosophy. In this virtual world of intra-personal communication, you must believe that there is a force that binds us all together. It's the love we have for our children. Because, let’s face it, none of us knew this kind of love until we became parents. It changed everything about who we are as people and what is ultimately important in our short time on this planet. No matter what your personal goals are for your family, what kind of house you want to live in, the monetary limit you’ve put on yourself to feel successful... we all have our children in common with one another. Not one of us will dispute that our families are worth the sacrifices we make every day. We use our lives of freedom to give quality time to our children...not on sick days or an allotted number of personal days. EVERYDAY. No one’s priorities are more important than yours and your family’s. That is why Organizations like OurMilkMoney.com and LivingMyMoMent.com are aggressively adamant in showing the world the value of family owned and operated businesses. Joining us on Friday is Abbey Fatica, owner and president of Living Your Moment which she started in April 2009 as a way to market small businesses owned by moms and dads.
Friday 29th of July 2011
Time. Remember when it was expendable? If there is one challenge that we all share as parents and entrepreneurs its in managing our schedules: Daily tasks, keeping our children alive and well,  parenting to our best ability, attending to our home,  our small business, our own sanity...how do others cope?   One thing is certain, you don't need me to tell you that you need to have more control of the chaos... you already crave it with every fiber of your being. What you need is a solution. A step by step strategy that will allow you to stay present in your time with your children, keep confident and attentive when working with clients, retain confidence and conviction while growing your business, and earn the right to sleep peacefully at night.   I come across this challenge so often with my personal coaching clients that I thought it was time to address it on the show. There is good news here. First, you are not the only one who struggles to keep it all together- that should give you the plausibility to breath a sign of relief. Second, you are not crazy or incapable or hopeless. Third, there is a solution- and if you join me on Friday you will walk away with the tools to create a much more manageable schedule for yourself, your family and your business. We have a terrific guest joining us, Tisha Marie Pelletier, the owner/founder of Simply Put Marketing, Details Event Management, The Mom-e Club and author of When The Universe Throws a Curve Ball – How a mom entrepreneur went from disappointment to living her passion.
Friday 22nd of July 2011
If you know a child bully, look closer at where they maybe learning their behavior. The apple never falls far from the tree, which is why moms and kids alike are tormented. It's bad enough that kids bully other kids. But look out for another rascal on the playground. Do you know her? THE BULLY MOM aka The Monster in The Minivan. Either you've seen her terrorize others, or she's come after you personally. She's always got a juicy rumor to share about another mom, or worse: a child. She's the one who made you feel bad because you couldn't breast-feed.... or labeled you the "boob Nazi" because you dared to nurse in public. You may have a regular group of moms in your play-date, but she's always "forgetting" to invite certain women. Or is it more than 1 mom? Perhaps an entire group of culprits are making you sweat each time you see them. Bullies tend to flock together, excluding the new mom on the playground, or flat out ignoring the mom who just moved into the area hoping to make some new friends and simply "fit in." While women are capable of such strong friendships and acceptance, they are just as capable of being downright MEAN. As Little Parents who Stay Home and Parents of The Our Milk Money Organization, we've accomplished A LOT together. We've rallied and united, forming a nationwide movement of parents who have vowed to support one-another in our choice to work from home. Now its time to come together for a new cause: The Anti-Bully Campaign. Live and Let Live. Support each other and THRIVE! Now I KNOW that none of you are tyrants, (right?!?)... But I do know that you are powerful parents who care to make a difference for yourselves and for your children. We all want to live bully-free. Therefore, I am calling upon you to join us this Friday where I have invited 2 incredible women to talk about how we can stop the bullying altogether and contribute to a more peaceful playground and contented community. Please welcome a wonderfully giving, supportive and hard-working member of Our Milk Money, Stacy McGuigan. I've invited her to join me on Friday's Anti-Bully show as a Co-Host because she is a terrific example of how we can use our passions for good, and how the decision to support others can move mountains! If more people were like Stacy, the world would be a better place. In addition, we will be inviting Dr. Jeanelle Marshawn Lanham as our Expert Guest, Founder of the Teen Nonprofit Hodge Podge the Teen Cafe. Also a published author with a Doctorate in Teen and Family Counseling, she's known as The SWAG Doc™.
Friday 15th of July 2011
Moms are great with scheduling in time for everyone else. How about a little "YOU" time? Worried it might take away from the time you've scheduled to save the world? You are not alone. As moms we are often driven to pursue definitions of what a good mother looks like to the point that we completely lose ourselves in the process. I am inviting Patty Lennon back to the show this week because she is a lot like you. She is a mom who thrives on making an impact on the world, connecting with other women, and giving herself the life she's always wanted. Patty will be joining us this Friday to talk to us about creating a virtual home for Moms like you who are ready to move up on the priority list - by designing a life that honors you as an individual. READ MORE ABOUT PATTY LENNON HERE--> If you are ready to fall as deeply in love with your life as you are with your children, this is the show for you! In addition, Patty will be sharing with us some great knowledge about Micro-Lending through Kiva.org and how to give back to the world, simply by empowering yourself. Two Birds, one stone.
Friday 8th of July 2011
A fantastic show with 2 fantastic women: Wokie Nwabueze, who will soon be a fellow host with me here on Toginet with her new show Stop Fighting! Make Peace at Home, AND Kelly McCormick, author of the new book, OutSell Yourself: Go from Hello to Sold with Ethical Business & Sales Techniques. This generation of small business owners has a new selling style. Its called "recession selling" and it refers to the way consumers have responded to the unsteadiness in the economy. What kind of seller are you? Does it match the way you think as a consumer? Do you upsell yourself on a product or service with lots of options or do you pass on the extras simply because times appear to be tough, and instead purchase a new product only out of sheer need?
Friday 1st of July 2011
The best way to predict the future it to create it ourselves...but it couldn't hurt to have a hint or two about which path we should take...   If you are like me, hard work comes fast- but slow results make you batty. Often, I have found myself shaking my head to the universe begging for a sign that my persistence and perseverance will result in some sort of pay off. Ever feel that way? Am I on the right path? Should I try going down that path instead? What am I missing?   In passed shows we have talked about how we can cut out 80% of our competition just by outlasting everyone else. A shocking 90% of first time home-based businesses fail in the first year because of the inclination to throw in the towel a little too early.   It wasn't too long ago I ran into my friend, Heidi Rose Robbins- a gifted astrologer and empowering group leader for women. She must have sensed my restlessness because she intuitively offered me a "hint" into my future- the very prophecy that I had been aching for: "You are on the right path, and very soon, you will begin to see results from all of your hard work."   It was all I needed to march on.
Friday 24th of June 2011
For many of us, success is merely just A CHOICE to execute a tactical plan that will create your desired results. What is so complicated about that? I'll tell you what is complicated: We are. We have too many worries, fears, complaints, stresses and B.A.G.G.A.G.E! These problems cloud our visions and distract us from our focus in a vicious cycle that confuses our intelligence. This week I'll be drawing your attention to your subconscious mindset, and whether it is working for you or against you. How open are you to altering your belief system? If you want to learn to expect more from yourself, a shift in mindset is almost always the magic ingredient. Together we will create your unique victory story!
Friday 17th of June 2011
These kids went from ABC to CEO. Have we been so consumed with our own home-based businesses that will allow us to take care of our kids, that we might have overlooked the notion of raising them to take care of themselves? We can play a large role in the kind of future our children have by exposing them to our own careers and engaging them in the freedoms that comes along with being financially independent. As an added bonus, if you are in need of some help funding your family's active lifestyle, perhaps you don't need to look past the little tenants residing in your home. Putting your tween on your payroll will not only provide you with outstanding tax benefits, it will also encourage their entrepreneurial spirit and teach them valuable financial lessons along the way. I've invited back my good friend, Sarah L. Cook - owner of Raising CEO Kids to Co-Host with me this week.Together we will be interviewing some of the most inspirational kiddos this generations has ever known. I am so excited to introduce you to these young entrepreneurs! Meet our four young superstars:Lexxi Saal founded Lexxiloves.Org when she was eight years old. Her foundation provides love and compassion to the children in foster care.Michael Costigan carries an utterly unique story to share. As a 13 year old, he set off to start his first business -- madƒusion.Michael Kilby is a high school student who began SubtleTees from an idea he developed after playing a word game with his family and completing an 8th grade art project.Rachel Pavelka, age 16, has owned multiple businesses since the age of six.
Friday 10th of June 2011
Business just got personal. A good old fashioned Mom and Pop business is a neat idea in theory but how does it really work out? You want to start a home-based business, and you'd like to work with a partner. How about your life partner? You've managed everything else together - your house, your kids, your vacations... why not share the same career? When you're confronted constantly by someone who knows you so well, you're going to have an extraordinary opportunity to work on your flaws and develop as a person. When it does work, it can be glorious. So, how can you make it work? Plan no-business weekends. Go on actual dates. Make rules. Sounds like the same rules we talk about for any parent who is self- employed, doesn't it? This week I'll be bringing on a friend who has made it work. Adrienne Kallweit, owner of SeekingSitters has been working with her husband for 7 years and will be sharing her story with us!
Friday 3rd of June 2011
Everyone is calling themselves a business coach these days. How can you know for sure if you need a coach, and what can you expect from hiring one? How can you even be sure if you are working with the right one? These and more questions will be answered on this week's show. Issues today- School teacher wants to quit her job but has no idea what she could do from home and is afraid to lose her 40,000/ year income. AND Selfemployed mom has too many ideas and wants to know how to keep all her businesses organized without losing her mind. Also, are multiple streams of income good?
Friday 27th of May 2011
You might be an ideal employee, or a rock star business owner. You may be creative, innovative, organized and skilled, but there is no way around it. If you are going to venture into business for yourself, you are going to have to talk to other people. If you are shy, lack confidence in your communication skills, or seem to have forgotten how to speak "grown-up" since becoming a mom, then this is the show for you! Lets brush up on those conversation skills and get comfortable talking again. This week I am bringing on a dynamic guest, Robyn Hatcher, the founder of SpeakEtc., a communication and presentation-skills training and coaching company that helps clients develop presence through communication. We'll also talk about how to polish the non-verbal elements of communication – body language, gestures, vocal quality and unlike many other presentation coaches Robyn works equally on the verbal skills– word choice, content and organization so that clients become more powerful and engaging communicators. Her unique approach identifies and works with client’s strengths, core values, and passion. Robyn will be giving away 20 complimentry coaching sessions! You must listen to the show to find out how to be one of the first 20 chosen!
Friday 20th of May 2011
Being you. Nobody can do it better. Oh sure, you might think you'd be better in business if you were someone else. With someone else's education, someone else's money, or someone else's connections. But that is not necessarily true. You are right where you are today because you are ...you. Learning to embrace our best attributes (and forgiving some of our worst) allows us to be fully present in our business experiences, offers us more authentic relationships and stops the dreaded "If I was someone else..." head trip that can sabotage our success. There is no one better to help us with this lesson than the amazing Jess Weiner. A friend and colleague, Jess is dynamic at giving us the gift of loving ourselves.
Friday 13th of May 2011
Don't let your visions of success frighten you. As parents and business leaders, we are also visionaries... and that can be overwhelming for those of us balancing a full schedule of family, home and business. Making room for our own sense of purpose can feel irrepressible and disorganized...until we see an example of someone who has already achieved the kind of success we'd like for ourselves. Last week, we talked about surrounding ourselves with positive people and how that can create a clear path to victory. This week I'd like to talk about adopting behaviors and philosophies of those we admire and look up to. For this very in depth look at ourselves as front runners in our own ambitions, I am bringing on a woman who I have admired for years, Susan Lyne. When I first met Susan, I'd just about had it with corporate jobs, the temping pool and narrow-minded bosses. I might have completely lost my faith in the American workplace as well as in my own ability to deliver adequately as an employee. I had been knocked down too many times for instinctively wanting to streamline and push boundaries, and was nearly convinced that it was not possible to satisfy any employer, let alone my own career aspirations...which were becoming more and more unclear to me. I needed a role model. Someone to look up to who would show me that it is possible to lead a dynamic team without sacrficing integrity, and one that would transform my outlook to a more positive one. At the time Susan was the President of The ABC Television Network, and my temp agency assigned me to answer her phones for a half a day - which turned into 7 fantastic months working for a woman I grew to admire, aimed to be like, and would eventually turn to as a cherished mentor. In that 7 months I learned how a great leader leads, the inter-workings of the entertainment Industry, conversed on a daily basis with Hollywood celebrities, television executives and creatives, and best of all - it was the beginning of my growth into a new version of my best self. It was the beginning of my new career as a free thinker, visionary and eventual leader, myself. Thanks to Susan, I began to believe in what I could contribute to my own life as well as with others. This week, I am beyond thrilled to be interviewing my role model, Susan Lyne - an empowering leader, a dynamic media guru, and terrific mother and wife. Currently Susan holds the position of CEO at The Gilt Group.
Friday 6th of May 2011
We are very affected by the energy of the people who surround us... especially the people who we love most. It's not the easiest thing to admit, but often it is the support (or lack thereof) from our friends and family members who make or break our success. These characters are only fragments of the people we love most and our need to impress them is fabricated by our own insecurities and fears. When we are working overtime to appease them, we become unclear about our own intentions and consequently deny serving our happiest self. Our inner voice becomes silenced. On the other hand having a strong support base, fans who adore you and are rooting for you, can make a terrific impact and result in acheiving your ultimate reality. Then again, who in this whole wide world doesn't have complicated relationships? This week we'll be talking about finding your peeps, and conditioning your "habitual relationships" to be more optimal, more productive and more worthy of your love and attention. Joining us this Friday is Cindy W. Morrison, former news anchor and investigative reporter, now a social media strategist and author of her latest book: Girlfriends 2.0. She will be joining us to talk about SOCIALVENTION: How to reboot, upgrade and reinvent yourself. n addition, I will be welcoming a fantastic new "co-host for a day" to share the airwaves this week: Patty Lennon! A coach for moms and the founder of MOM GETS A LIFE, Patty is the perfect complement to the show this week. Moms, we'll be talking about how to become more clear in how to serve your deepest needs, stay true to your essence and fall back in love with your purpose on this planet.
Friday 29th of April 2011
In my absence, my amazing co-host and producer, Kelly St. Clair will be taking over the show on Friday with a not-to-be-missed guest. I'll be back the following week. Be good! xo, Ally We're All in This Thing Together In the year 2000, my husband and I were blindsided by a home invasion. This shocking event would change us as the people we once were. Or should I say…. thought we were! We were instantly transformed into irrational human beings. It distorted our view of the world around us. How would we be altered because of this? Would we be able to stay sane in an insane world? My beliefs before this home invasion were that everything was going to be story–book perfection. I had already had my life systematically planned out, complete with an organized time-line. You see, as a little girl, like so many other little girls, I always dreamed of marrying my prince charming and living happily ever after. I even designed the wedding in my head with exact precision. Right down to the last hand-sewn pearl on my dress. My perfect husband and I would get married and have 2.4 beautiful children. Twins, plus point four. When they were born, my husband would help with the care-giving of these little bundles of joy equally. Fifty-Fifty. And life would be……… Wait. Stop. That was my fantasy world. In reality, it is much different. Society has us believing that the mother should be the predominant care giver and have principal responsibility for the well-being of the child, while the husband hunts and gathers to bring home the pay dirt. My guest this week will dispel these beliefs and help us understand that there is a better way. Kristin Maschka will reveal her 4 Remodeling Tools to get the lives we want. In addition, we will be discussing ways for parents to allocate responsibilities equally and share in the contributions of the family’s financial security. You do not want to miss a minute of this revolutionary show that is sure to start a movement of a new way of parenthood AND parenting. READ MORE ABOUT KRISTIN NOW ---> Kristin will also be giving away a signed copy of her book to 2 very lucky winners! This is Not How I Thought It Would Be Remodeling Motherhood To get The Lives We Want Today
Friday 22nd of April 2011
If you are looking for freedom without the guess work, purchasing a franchise might be a perfect option for you. You want to be your own boss, but the thought of being a CEO might make you shutter. I am not going to convince you otherwise. If there is one thing I have learned from my coaching clients and even some of the callers on the show, its that some people just don’t want to go it alone, and who could blame them? Its life-changing enough when you discover all the added responsibility that goes a long with becoming a new parent. Why would anyone willingly take on the accountability for an entire company? No, thanks. Just sign me up to do some work for someone and give me a paycheck for my time. If only it were that easy. Contrary to the way it may seem there is a middle ground and owning a franchise may be a viable option. If you are like most people you probably don't give yourself enough credit. You may be scratching your head in the same spot wondering if you are good at anything. You might assume that because you’ve never been your own boss that you still need a boss to tell you what to do. If the thought of truly being your own boss gives you more of an upset stomach than changing your situation, no matter how miserable it may be, then consider purchasing a franchise. Ask yourself these questions: Are you looking for something that is uniquely yours? Or do you simply want to run the show, regardless if it's by someone else's rules? The biggest advantage of owning a franchise is the reduction of risk you will be taking for your investment. This is because franchises typically get up and running faster, and are profitable more quickly. This is the result of an already proven management system as well as an already established name. Add the flexibility of the fact that you are still the boss with a product or service you can be passionate about as a parent, and it may just be the answer you've been looking for. Joining me this week to talk about franchising is the lovely and talented Shannon Wilburn, President and Co-Founder of The Just Between Friends Franchise System. With over 100 franchises in more than 20 states (26 of them can be found on OurMilkMoney.com!), Shannon will be talking about the JBF concept: How JBF saves families 50-90% and helps families make 65-70% on selling their own children's and maternity items. In addition to franchising, we'll be revealing 4 top notch and underground universal rules among the nations flourishing self-employed parents. What Are these New Rules? On Friday we will uncover the innovative underground world filled with flourishing self-employed parents who once felt like they were on the outside looking in, but not any longer. What is their secret to success? Its simple. They follow the rules. Parents across the country have already discovered that survival is not only possible, it’s unavoidable. By simply understanding the operating principles shared by others before them, you too will see how to flourish. Tune in to learn these 5 simple rules that will nearly guarantee your success as a "career parent" and make your "double careers" a whole lot easier!
Friday 15th of April 2011
Thanks to internet media, anything is possible. The truth is there are a million and one ways to cultivate your campaign and none of them should be overlooked as a possibility. We can start by exploring one of the hottest new trends that I happen to know a lot about: Being the host of your own radio show. This week I'll be inviting my boss, John Martin (or as I like to call him "Papa Togi") the owner of Toginet Radio, to talk about all you ever wanted to know about hosting your own talk radio hour. Its a great time to call in for questions! We'll be chatting a bit more about my COHOST for a DAY Campaign which will give you the opportunity to join me on the air live and learn all the ins and outs of broadcasting your message via internet radio! I will also be sharing with you some things that I've learned over the last 55 episodes that have helped me to grow my brand, land me on the top of the iTunes charts and allowed me to exceed my listenership goal by 500% in the last few months. In addition, we'll be talking about how to create a small budget for your small business. I am pleased to introduce to you Jerry R. Citarella, a financial services trainer and presenter. READ MORE ABOUT JERRY NOW ---> Jerry is giving away his book to 2 lucky winners! The Truth Helps: Your Guide to a Successful Financial Planning Experience
Friday 8th of April 2011
Julie Steelman generated over $100 million in sales, left corporate America and retired at a young age to live in Hawaii with her husband. Isn't it time to turn your dream into reality? If you are like me, you hate the idea of selling, no matter what it is.... your products, someone else's products, your services, someone else's services... The very thought of asking someone for money might bring about nausea...and you are not alone. Then again, you work hard and you are as ready as ever to maximize your profits and boost your bank account balance. Torn much? Its time for us to have the "How to Sell" conversation, and there is no one better to help me with this topic than Julie Steelman. Most entrepreneurs trip over the cash-generating functions of their business because there are so many misperceptions about selling. That means most of us are leaving precious dollars on the table and forfeiting our right to live abundantly. The truth is, when your mind-set, heart-set and skill-set are aligned properly, you become instantly bankable. You easily magnetize your ideal customers and have the soul-satisfying business you always dreamed of. Everyone (including you) has their own natural selling and money-making style. It’s just that you haven’t known how to access it or how to use it to win business graciously. I am thrilled to be having Julie join me on the show Friday, where she has promised to share her money making secrets with us. READ MORE ABOUT JULIE NOW ---> Julie is offering all TLPSH listeners a free preview chapter for her book Claim Your Sweet Spot Sign up HERE to get it NOW! Also on Friday, I will be sharing the internet airwaves with Martin Presse, my Co-host for the Day. Martin has an incredibly successful business practice as a presentations coach. He's an expert in being able to captivate any audience and keep them on the edge of their seats! READ MORE ABOUT MARTIN NOW ---> Martin is giving away his book to 2 lucky winners! The Booya Guide to Great Public Speaking How to Speak and Present Like the Pros Register HERE to Win!
Friday 1st of April 2011
The further the journey, the more you will enjoy the ride. Its very easy for us to look at what we don't  have. Its even easier for us to take a look at what everyone else has - but if you are looking for solutions, that is not the way to go about it. I am constantly looking to align myself with people who are real go-getters. I am most inspired by those that possess a real human spirit and tenacity for life.  These are the people who I want to learn from, the ones who overcame a real struggle or unexpected curve ball thrown at them by life itself. The ones who never saw their lack of support or funding or less than desirable circumstances as an excuse to give up. These are the stories I get truly excited to share with you on This Little Parent Stayed Home, because they get you pumped up and feeling grateful for all the opportunity you already have.   Join me for a truly inspirational show on Friday when I introduce to you Vivian Tenorio, a brilliant and tenacious entrepreneur who quite frankly, never gave up her drive to put her amazing product on retail shelves everywhere. READ MORE ABOUT VIVIAN NOW --->   Enter to win a signed copy of Vivian's Book!   Pink Slip to Product Launch in a Weak Economy Small Business Advice from a High School Dropout Who Landed Her Sweets on Retail STore Shelves - and How You Can Too  The amazing story of overcoming personal fears and limited resources, using gut instincts, initiative and just plain hard work to create a thriving business.    
Friday 25th of March 2011
The most successful people take their "mess" and make a message. Why is it that other people's stories always seem more inspiring than our own? Is it that we have a hard time recognizing what will make our own stories mean something to others? Very often we are too attached to ourselves to see clearly the unique and magic appeal that has been within us all along.  We know our stories too well to be able to see it from someone else's point of view.  Join me on Friday when I show you how to unlock the potential that you've always had for rising above any possible competition in your field. Together we'll discover the spectacular brand that is unique to you. You'll be untouchable!   I made a promise to you awhile ago that I would deliver to you real strategies that would create measurable results in your business. Whether you are just getting started building your brand or you've become stale and are in need of a make over, this is a not-to-be-missed show.   I am so proud to introduce to you, one of the amazing speakers I snagged from Spark & Hustle, Lisa Steadman. READ MORE ABOUT LISA NOW --->   Tune in with your notebook and a pen because Lisa will be sharing with you real strategies that you are going to want to put into action as soon as you are done listening. Lisa will be talking about Defining your Business, Identifying your Target Market and Developing an Authentic Brand. Don't forget to claim your free giveaways:   FREE Audio Program on the top 5 reasons you may have fallen out of love with your life or business and how to get re-engaged. FREE Special Report: Your Woohoo Within™: Why you’re the only one who can tell your story, be the expert, and rock the business of YOU!
Friday 18th of March 2011
Like-minded communities must stick together and rely on each other in times of crises. That is why when my friend Sharon Davis contacted me and asked me for my support, I decided to hand my show over to her this Friday so that she could broadcast a very important message. Sharon lives in Fort Bragg, CA, a "sister city" of the newly devastated Otsuchi, Japan, where more than 10,000 residents of the small 16,000 person community are still missing from last week's quake and subsequent tsunami. Sharon is on the committee for the Otsuchi Relief Fund, and is determined to help her sister community rebuild itself. Members of the Fort Bragg Otsuchi Cultural Exchange Association (FBOCEA) have mobilized to create an Otsuchi Relief Fund. The entire community is rallying to raise funds to help the families in Otsuchi who have lost their homes, businesses and their families. WHY AM I HELPING THEM? WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH BEING A PARENT WHO WANTS TO STAY HOME? This is an incredible story and I am always struck with gratitude when I learn of these selfless acts of kindness and altruism. We so often become consumed with the little trials of our own lives that we very easily shut out greater things that are happening in the world- and then we wonder why things are not "going our way." Perhaps its comforting for us to close our eyes to the more substantial and monumental misfortunes, but ignorance has its consequences and knowledge gives us the power to grow. I invite you to step outside of yourself for an hour this Friday - out of your familiar reality and out of your comfort zone - to learn about the great things that can be accomplished when large groups of people with similar passions come together.
Friday 11th of March 2011
What is the ideal you? And how does one become that? This is something you've been hearing me talk alot about recently: The importance of having a role model... or several. True role models are those who possess the qualities that we would like to have and those who have affected us in a way that makes us want to be better people. They affect us because they have touched a part of ourselves that is aching to be stimulated and awakened to its fullest potential. Role models can be real or fictitious. That is right. You have the power to create your ideal and theoretical hero, and you absolutely should. Your hero will advocate for you and your goals. This supreme being takes leadership on the issues that you believe in, handles rejection with grace and integrity, and is a prototype for everything we are creating in ourselves. We often don't recognize our true role models until we have noticed our own personal growth and progress . This week, I am going to tell you about some of my role models and how you can take all of the best qualities of those you admire most to help you influence yourself. We'll also be talking a little about The Empty Nest Syndrome at each stage of parenting, whether you are just about to send your little ones to kindergarten, or not-so-little-ones to college. Natalie Caine will be joining us as this week's guest to talk about how to handle life's bittersweet moments and deal with a newly emptied nest.
Friday 4th of March 2011
In this economy, everyone needs to have a job. Taking care of your kids and your household is worth a million bucks, but unfortunately that is not going to cut it. You have bills to pay, little people to feed and...well, a life to live. It takes time to build a business, and nowadays, sticking it out is half the battle. But enough is enough. You are working hard and you deserve to be paid. If only that were enough. Pulling double duty does not entitle anyone to a salary, but creating a smart and strategic business plan will give you a greater chance of prosperity. Just wait until you hear the valuable insight that will be brought to the show this week! I am honored to have joining us, Nell Merlino, Founder and President of Count Me In for Women’s Economic Independence, the leading national not-for-profit provider of resources for women to grow their micro businesses into Million Dollar Enterprises. Nell Merlino is Founder and President of Count Me In for Women’s Economic Independence, the leading national not-for-profit provider of resources for women to grow their micro businesses into million $ enterprises. She is author of Stepping Out of Line: Lessons for Women Who Want it Their Way in Life, in Love, and at Work from Broadway Books, which is available from Amazon.com. Throughout her career, Nell Merlino has been inspiring millions of people to take action. She is the creative force behind Take Our Daughters to Work Day, which moved more than 71 million Americans to participate in a day dedicated to giving girls the opportunity to dream bigger about their future. Through Count Me In, Nell is now inspiring women entrepreneurs to dream big and achieve even more. She is leading a global movement to empower women entrepreneurs to grow their businesses to a million dollars and beyond by providing tools, resources, and a supportive community of their peers. Count Me In’s Make Mine a Million $ Business program reaches women entrepreneurs in communities around the country through events and on-line community. This movement will not only add millions of jobs and billions of dollars of economic activity, but take women to new levels of independence, empowering them to act as economic leaders. Nell is also the founder and President of Strategy Communication Action, Ltd. (SCA) in New York City, a firm specializing in the creation of public education campaigns that motivate people to act. She is a member of the U.S. Department of State Advisory Committee on International Economic Policy (ACIEP), and appointed a Pathways Envoy by the U.S. State Department to promote women’s business growth through South and North America. Nell also sits on the board of the American Enterprise Organization. Prior to founding Count Me In, Merlino created campaigns like the YWCA’s The Week Without Violence, the United Nations’ Fourth World Conference on Women in Beijing, worked in two state governments, was an advance woman in presidential politics, a union organizer and a Fulbright Scholar.
Friday 25th of February 2011
Brandon Na joins me as co-host and breaks down the SEO question for small and home based businesses. Hailing from the Internet's top marketing departments and strongest engineering teams, SEO Consultant Brandon Na has offered his time to help small businesses like you get a step in the right direction on the Internet. Na's past includes working for the Internet's top brands including Amazon, Expdedia and Doubleclick, currently a division of Google.com. He's also run his own Real Estate practice which became the 2nd highest producing agent in the Bellevue office of Keller Williams Realty in his first year and has also helped a small franchise of English Academies in Korea grow from a student body of about 800 students to just short of 7000 students with his online marketing expertise. Currently, he is the Principal of a top Local Search Marketing Firm Seattle Organic SEO and Co-chairs an SEO group in the online & offline entrepreneur community Biznik. He also finds time assisting his family business which grosses over a million a year annually.
Friday 18th of February 2011
Its HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THIS LITTLE PARENT! We'll be celebrating 1 year of broadcast. Join us for a hilarious story from Chris Loprete about what happened 1 year ago today! We can benefit from free enterprise or contribute to a better world for our kids...or do both. When I first left my corporate job and came home to play the role of full-time mom, I remember thinking, "It just shouldn't be this hard." All I wanted to was to be able to provide for my child and my former employer was making it extra difficult. Maybe it was because I wanted to justify having to spend long hours away from my new baby, so I worked extra hard in my role in corporate America to make that time away from him count. But it didn't matter. I was already being penalized for becoming a mother. My boss made that clear, and so did my co-workers. They made comments like, "Well, I don't have kids to make the excuse to take extra time off when they get sick." At the time I nodded along, feeling almost guilty for having the audacity to ask for a day off to tend to my sick child. Looking back, I don't know who I am more disgusted by: the people who spoke to me in such a manor, or myself for allowing it to happen. When I lost my job and was thrust into the opportunity to become my own boss (whether I was ready for it or not) it became clear that I needed to take full advantage of the freedoms that had just been handed to me on a silver platter. Unemployed and scared, I learned to embrace my American privileges such as free enterprise and freedom of assembly. Almost immediately upon launching OurMilkMoney.com, it was recommended that I get to know MomsRising.org. I've been an involved advocate ever since. As parents, we have a lot to fight for and no matter where you stand politically, its important that we educate ourselves to know how decisions made in government affect us and our families. With groups like MomsRising.org, we don't have to fight city hall alone. In fact, there is a great deal that is already being accomplished and its easier for you to get involved more than ever. This week I am proud to introduce to you Kristin Rowe-Finkbeiner, the co-founder and the Executive Director of MomsRising.org. Together we will be exploring how we can work together to make a difference.
Friday 11th of February 2011
We've talked about everything else. Time to make some money. There is just no other way around it. You need to start bringing in an income. But not just any income-- one that matches your hard work and value. You have the idea, but now you need to turn it into cash. You've bartered, you've sacrificed, you've made that leap into self-employment, but you need to see green, and you need to see it N.O.W. I just returned from Tory Johnson's Spark and Hustle Conference, and I am fired up! Forget the small talk, and lets get serious. What matters now is the TENACITY, the HUSTLE, and the MOOLAH. Its time for you to obtain the missing knowledge that is necessary to cut through the crap and conquer any road blocks you may have in your way. Money may not buy happiness, but it will buy you the freedom to make your own decisions and never have to report to another boss, other than yourself, again. Join me this week when I share with you what I learned about how to hustle and how to bring your strength of purpose directly to the bank. Yep, its time to get you some money. Excited to be introducing you to my Co-host for the week, Saralee Leary- who happens to have been my roommate at the Spark and Hustle conference last weekend. There's no better person to come on the show and help me share with you the magnitude of what every participant took away from this event. Also, not to be missed is our fantastic guest for the hour, Sarah L Cook from Raising CEO Kids, who has a giveaway for out listeners! A FREE CEO Kids T-Shirt. To enter, all you have to do is LIKE The Raising CEO KIDS Facebook Fanpage and leave a comment with “I want the Free T-Shirt”.
Friday 4th of February 2011
If you've been following along with us so far, you know that this Friday I will not be available to host the show as I will be attending the Spark and Hustle Women's Conference in Los Angeles with Tory Johnson of Good Morning America, and I plan to give a full report upon my return! As we say in show biz, "The show must go on!" so in my absense I am handing over the show this week to.... The Pommos!! First, whats a Pommo? Parents of the Our Milk Money Organization. If you are a self-employed parent and you are listed on the OMM Business Directory, you are a Pommo. (Its a term of endearment!) Second, a show without the host? Actually, this week, you'll have 2 of them. Lead by our wonderful staff members, Julianne Alvarez-Wish and Kelly St.Clair, this show will be all about the Our Milk Money Organization! Only this time you won't hear me bragging about my own creation. You'll get to hear it straight from the horse's mouth. Thinking about joining? How about becoming a volunteer staff member? This is your opportunity to learn all about the insides of the organization, what the members are getting out of it, and how great I am to work with! (ahem) Julianne, Kelly and several members of Our Milk Money will be taking over the airwaves to share stories, inspiration and such big hearts - believe me, its a party you won't want to miss!
Friday 28th of January 2011
Two (thousand) heads are better than one. I do my best not to share my personal politics on the show because I don't want to run the risk of blowing my cover that I may be on the other side. Especially in this day and age. We've all become so divided and angry. It's gotten brutal out there. Which is why I was incredibly moved to see Congress sitting together as one unit during the President's State of the Union on Tuesday night. Yep, I was one of those people who signed the petition urging Democrats and Republicans to "mix it up" but I admit I was too cynical to think it would actually happen. So when I witnessed the unity, it was not easy to fight back the tears of deep benevolence. It gave me more hope than I have felt in a long time, and it inspired me to do what I can to keep the harmony circulating. Aren't we all just striving to live the happiest, healthiest and most peaceful lives possible? How could we be all that different from one another? We forget how powerful we are when we commit to working together towards a common goal, and we also forget how distracted we allow ourselves to become by focusing on the negative. Our time is precious enough as it is, so why waste it being counter productive? This week, I am going to be talking about the importance of aligning yourself with those who help you to flourish, rather than wither. We are also going to talk about the power of numbers and what we can accomplish together by committing to matching principles, pooling our resources and joining forces. As part of my CO-HOST FOR A DAY program, I have invited Maureen Daniels of The Shoppers Galleria and The Online Shopping Mall to share the show with me. To learn more about the program, or to submit yourself for consideration, read more. Our guest this week is Teri Amos-Britt, a former Miss USA winner, now a mother, an author and a spiritual coach, is a terrific example of how positive influence can make an enormous impact in our own lives as well as in the lives of others. Teri is generously offering a free giveaway for the listeners: An audio meditation: Grounding in God’s Light
Friday 21st of January 2011
How are we supposed to keep up with it all? As a parent, you barely have time to breathe, let alone keep your profile up-to-date on all the latest social media sites. Running your own business can be maddening enough while you are taking care of your family...but the thought of keeping up with social media might make your head hurt. This is where we dive into the technology that surrounds us, why there seems to be a lot more pressure to accomplish a lot more than in generations passed (there is!) and how to manage it all in an organized fashion without staying up until 3am each day. Oh, and there is more! With the help of our terrific guest, we will not only be talking about how to stay caught up with the social media trends, but how to get ahead. Chuck Hester is a LinkedIn power connector with more than 10,000 direct connections. He is a sought-after expert on the subject of using LinkedIn for media relations, personal and professional branding, and how to use social media to build business contacts. He’s addressed conferences thought the country and the world, including NewComm Forum, the Inbound Marketing Summit and the Hargraves Institute’s Innovations Conference in Sydney, Australia.
Friday 14th of January 2011
The most common challenge I hear from the parents who are searching for a new avenue that will allow them to earn an income from home is this: I don't know what I can do. The amount of times I hear that phrase is staggering. It's time that we dive into this common issue. Why is it we feel so inadequate and unaccomplished? Are we still all searching for our purpose in life? Is it possible you were really branded with no such talent to offer the world? The most important thing that we will be talking about on Friday is how to figure out what kind of lemons you were handed in this lifetime, and where you are under-utilizing yourself. Remember those career assessment tests they made us take in grade school? This show will be a bit like that, only it won't be so broad as to try and fit your peg into the wrong shape. Its time for you to discover the gift life has given you, but more than that, its time for you to share your gift with the world. You can truly do anything you want. Now lets discover exactly what that is. I'll be bringing on several terrific examples of small business entrepreneurs who have built their own lemonade stands from the lemons that they were given. Plus, I will welcome any of you to join us as a guest on the show to tell your personal lemons to lemonade business story.
Friday 7th of January 2011
Chris Hogan, Director of Wealth Coach Program The Dave Ramsey Show Chris Hogan might have been the most unlikely person to wind up working as a financial speaker. Why? Years ago, Chris was an All-American college football player who pushed future NFL players all over the field—far removed from the world of helping others find Financial Peace. For Chris, the path from football to where he is today was a long, but meaningful, journey. While he was a vice president of a well-respected company, helping clients manage all phases of their businesses, he realized how so many families, marriages and children were being affected by money issues. He felt powerless as he sat behind his desk and watched his clients throw away their financial futures. Chris knew things needed to change. That’s when he met Dave Ramsey, and his career found a new direction. Today, he helps spread Dave’s message of financial hope to audiences everywhere. An engaging and humorous speaker, Chris is an expert on subjects like mortgages, healthcare and investing. To promote financial education, he speaks at colleges and businesses, and conducts on-site training sessions at companies. Chris also works with high-profile clients, such as athletes, entertainers and businessmen, to help them develop a financial strategy to protect their wealth and secure their future. Chris has had insurance licensure and banking certifications in three states. He holds an undergraduate degree from Georgetown College and a master’s degree from California University of Pennsylvania. Chris lives with his wife, Melissa, and their three sons in Spring Hill, Tennessee. Topics Money: Management, Investing & Everything In Between Mortgages, Insurance & Large Life Purchases Wealth: Growth, Management & Giving Life Coaching Personal & Professional Development Business Growth & Development Chris oversees The Lampo Group, Inc. Wealth Management Services. He is also a Senior Financial Counselor and Director of The Lampo Group, Inc. Wealth Coach Program. His primary focus is helping his clients develop an appropriate and comprehensive financial strategy and then working directly with those clients to help them monitor and evaluate the strategy in light of their goals and needs. Mr. Hogan also works closely with other members of the Lampo team and other professionals to provide a select group of his clients with comprehensive wealth management services including budgeting, future planning and preparation, estate planning, retirement planning and risk management strategies.
Friday 17th of December 2010
Its the last show of 2010 and significant for other reasons as well... It marks our 40th live show together. Its my birthday episode. It will be our last show together before we head into 2011. As we round up this year and spend the next couple of weeks shopping, celebrating, indulging and gearing up for our new years resolutions, I thought it would be a good idea to spend our last show of the year together in reflection and commemoration. HEY! WHO MOVED MY CHEESE? You may already know the story about the mice so appropriately named Sniff and Scurry, and their "little people" friends, Hem and Haw. If not, you are in for a real treat. Who Moved My Cheese was a book written by author Spencer Johnson more than 10 years ago, which inspired a following that remains thriving today. The story of Sniff, Scurry, Hem and Haw is a simple parable about the world we live in, the natural progression of the planet's need to change and what happens when we are resistant and unwilling to evolve with the rest of nature. I love sharing these insights with you! Let this be my gift to you as we head into the most celebrated time of year. As an added bonus, I'll be bringing on special guest, Jaime Tardy, a debt free entrepreneurial business coach from The EventualMillionare.com, who gave up her 6 figure income to stay home with her children and become her own boss. The phone lines will be open for live listeners! Call 877-864-4869 or if you are unable to listen live, but would like us to address something on the air please fill out this form. I am looking forward to being innovative with you!
Friday 10th of December 2010
Some people are just naturally talented at giving and receiving. The rest of us could stand for a little tutorial. Knowing how to give as well as knowing how to receive are 2 equally important skills to have, especially this time of year. I've recently come into some new revelations that have helped me see the holidays for exactly what they should be: A time to appreciate your loved ones and share quality time together. Are you gagging yet? If you are, this show IS NOT for you, I'm warning you. Its going to be a feel good, tear jerking, ooey gooey, warm and fuzzy, overly sugary, live radio event that will make you want to call up any estranged relatives or long lost friends to tell them what they have meant to you. Get ready to feel like an emotional pregnant woman who cries at M&M commercials and wants to hug everybody. I'll be bringing on 3 women who are total heroes in my eyes. You may remember my dear friend, Shannon Penrod of Every Day Autism Miracles. She will be giving amazing advice to a mom who wrote to me asking for support in her very challenging situation. We are going to work together to help this very brave mom looking to give her family the very best. In addition, I will also be bringing on 2 of my dear friends and fellow neighbors, Jennifer Samuelson and Andi Wilson who recently discovered a homeless family and helped them to get fed, clothed, sheltered, and connected with distant relatives who would take them in. It's an amazing story- and literally only a few weeks old! Its knowing women as brave as this, with their selfless and heroic deeds that make me want to choose to give more often and for nothing in return. If you have a heroic, feel-good story, please feel free to call in and share it with us!
Friday 3rd of December 2010
So what if you are a little late in joining the cyber party? Blogging has been around for what, a little more than 10 years now? Yet, there are still so many of us who don't have a clue what its all about. Now, now. There is no reason to feel defensive. Remember, we are here to HELP YOU. Maybe you were just a little too preoccupied with other things in your life (and who could blame you?) You've heard about mom bloggers, you admit that you are especially intrigued by how one might actually earn a decent income from blogging, and you'd like to know what the real deal is. It sounds a little too good to be true, but rather than risk looking like a complete moron, you'd rather not ask. If this sounds like you (even just a tad) join us this Friday to learn the basic scoop and come out of the darkness once and for all. Joining me on the topic of blogging will be none other than the terrific gal who has been propelling The Our Milk Money Blog Spot to greatness, Ms. Julianne Alvarez-Wish. Thanks to the technology age, blogging is yet another career the stay at home parent might choose when looking to earn some extra revenue in between carpooling, naps and laundry folding...but its not quite as simple as it sounds. We know you've got questions. We'll be covering topics such as how to get started writing your own blog, why its important to have a blog for your already established business, how to earn revenue by blogging, and how to get free products as a blog product reviewer. In addition, for those who already have a blog, we'll be sharing some tips and tricks that will guarantee great improvements on the future success of your blogging and improve your blog's exposure.
Friday 19th of November 2010
There is really no telling which event is going to have the largest impact on who we are or how it affects the way we choose to lead our lives... Have you ever experienced something that has truly altered your core beliefs and became the one thing that lead you into your greatest self? Its inevitable that at some point in our existence there will be a life changing event for all of us. Perhaps it will be a near death experience or even the loss of a loved one. These events force us to confront our current behaviors, re-examine the consequences of our perpetual lifestyles and re-map our life's purpose, or perhaps its just that these moments are the ones that define us and give us the purpose we've been searching for. Depending on the nature of these moments and how you perceive them, even the most tragic events will later transpire as blessings in disguise and precious life lessons. How do you weather the storms in your life? Are you able to recognize the miracles that emerge out of the moments least likely? Would you be more willing to trek through the tempest if you knew the reward at the end of it would be abundant and plentiful? It is discussions like these that help us to realize what we are truly capable of and what is required for us to achieve all that we have ever wanted. Join me in welcoming Friday's guests to the show, Kim Upstone. A member of Our Milk Money, she is the author of A NEW DAY A NEW VISION, and she has recently published a new book called, All I Want is Everything.
Friday 12th of November 2010
If you have ever felt like you can't keep up with the chaos in your life and you just don't know where to turn... help is on the way. You already know how I feel about the super mom syndrome. I beg you not to get caught up in trying to do more than you can, lest you get sent to the nuthouse as I once was. But the REAL issue isn't always about being a trooper. Many stay-at-home moms and dads are simply at their wits end with all they have on their plate and the biggest challenge is where to turn when they are in need a helping hand. Why is it so difficult to get a little support nowadays? This week I am going to start off the show with some tips and tricks on how to get the help you need for either minimal or no cost, where to find it, and even how to get those adorable kids of yours to pitch in now and again. Yes, even the 3 year old can do her part. I just adore this week's guest and I just know you will as well. 24 year old Entrepreneur and Business Inspiration, Ms Samantha Davis of Sammy Davis Vintage will be joining us to spread her feel good mission and inspire us to keep our positive perspective especially as it relates to self-struggles, self-doubt and self-criticism. When I first began my journey with Our Milk Money, Sammy was one of my biggest supporters (and a terrific mentor!). At the time she was only 21 and just about to graduate college, but she taught me the importance of self love and self trust in my visions for the future. Sammy is a terrific and shining example of how to keep going even at the worst of times and she'll be diving into her own experiences on Friday. These are the greatest stories to be told and I just had to have Sammy come on TLPSH to share her empowering narrative of all that she overcame to reach her success. These are the chapters for our books, my friends!
Friday 5th of November 2010
With an overcrowded schedule, its hard enough to multi-task our daily tasks. How can we be expected to squeeze in "healthy" time? Believe me, I know that finding time to work out is as difficult as finding time to sleep on most weeks. As a stay-at-home parent, you may feel like you have less time on your hands, but as your own boss, you have more control of your schedule than ever before. Remember, you must contribute to your healthy self or your machine will not function at its most optimum standard, and as a busy work-at-home mom or dad, there isn't much room for malfunctions. Besides getting the blood pumping and the brain cells producing, staying active is a terrific way of de-cluttering your mind and piecing together all those fragmented ideas that might otherwise keep you up at night. If you belong to a gym with a daycare-you have even more of a reason to make the trip a weekly priority. How often do new moms get to take a long and uninterrupted shower? The child care alone is worth the price of the monthly membership to your local gym. Put on your headphones and listen to the “Hey I love that song!" CD you just made. Or better yet, catch up on all those wonderful free podcasts of THIS LITTLE PARENT STAYED HOME on iTunes! (with yours truly as your adorable and amazing host.) As long as we are talking healthy, we might as well dive into the haunting yet crucial reality of childhood obesity. This is one crucial epidemic that every parent should be aware of. One benefit to becoming a stay-at-home parent is how we can better involve ourselves in our children's healthy lifestyles. To aid me in this discussion will be expert and long time member of Our Milk Money, Marina McLennan, owner and creator of Exercise Rhymes, LLC. She has a terrific product, which I have been enjoying with both of my boys for several years now, and I am looking forward to sharing this dynamic individual with you!
Friday 29th of October 2010
This week we are going to be focusing on the Virtual Assistant trend. We'll be talking about the basic premise of virtual positions available in todays career world, and realistic expections about the role itself. I am really excited to be able to bring you the details of a real opportunity to become a virtual assistant, as well as the opportunity to become a franchise owner of a virtual assistant business. Please join me in welcoming Patrica Beckman, the founder and CEO of Cybertary.com to the show on Friday. I'll have a ton of questions, and I am sure you will as well. Don't hold back if you want to know something!
Friday 22nd of October 2010
Wouldn’t it be great if a family of 4 could survive on a single salary like the old days? According to Danny Kofke, its still incredibly possible. When Danny first requested an appearance on This Little Parent Stayed Home, I didn’t expect I’d become so excited. Although I do take several moments to consider all requests, many of them are not neccessarily worthy of our time- or more specifically YOUR time. Danny had my attention from the beginning. I believe what he has to share just might make an enormous difference in some of your lives. He sent me his book How To Survive (and perhaps thrive) On A Teacher’s Salary which clearly laid out in simple terms how hard-working parents can live a wealthy lifestyle despite earning a modest income. This brings up another important point of choosing the appropriate career for yourself. PASSION. A teacher is the lowest paying college degree required profession in the country, which pretty much guarantees that no one chooses to become a teacher for the salary. However, when you are in love with your profession of choice, its not the money that drives you, its the feeling that you are making a difference. DO YOU KNOW THAT FEELING? If not, it is crucial that you make that your next goal. We’ll be discussing it on Friday’s show. Money is cyclical and hollow. Unless you have a direct purpose for it, all the money in the world won’t buy you the motivation to do what you love most. When you are driven by an enthusiasm that comes from deep within and inspires you to make your mark on the world simply by being your best self, it stops being about the money. Aha! And yet that is exactly when we become determined to make enough to survive. It’s what all successful people have in common: a passion for their chosen careers. Whether your passion is to teach, act, or stay home with your kids, encompassing unfeigned joy in your chosen field is the only way to determined your truest prosperity.
Friday 15th of October 2010
What if I told you that you could double or even triple the value of what you have in your bank account right now? You'd would probably think I was selling you something, and I wouldn't blame you for assuming that. The very sentence REEKS of scam. No. I am not selling you anything. (Just my show. And that doesn't cost you a thing.) If you are still waiting to take that leap of faith, and the one thing that is holding you back is the big gaping hole that would be left in your budget where your salary used to be, then this will be the most important show for you, yet. We are going to jump into a very rewarding and effective topic on Friday that I guarantee will result in your own bright light bulb filled with new possibilities.. I've been dangling this topic in front of you for awhile... The ART of BARTERING And by the way, that is the simple answer to how you can increase the value in your bank account. I am guessing that what you already know about bartering doesn't get you nearly as excited as it should. The complicated answer is really not that complicated at all, but you have to tune in to truly understand the big mystery. Learning how to barter effectively just might be the most important skill you need to be able to survive at home without that steady paycheck you are so reliant on. It's a brilliant little concept that only a shocking few are putting to good use, and among us we can all pretty much agree that we probably would not have survived without it. Anybody can do it...yes, even you. You don't even have to wait until you are a business owner, and you don't need to learn a new skill. You already have everything you need! This will be just the beginning of our exploration of the subject. We've got lots to cover! We'll be diving into some terrific marketing tips for the small business owner, with some expert advice by Lucinda Cross of Corporate Mom Drop Outs. Also joining me on Friday will be my "co-host for a day," Dani Walker, a new Toginet Radio Personality launching her show Come Learn With Me which will be about health and wellness and will premier in November. Let's welcome Dani to the network with big open arms!!
Saturday 9th of October 2010
We can talk about it, or we can actually do it. If you listened to last week's show you know that we are heading into some uncharted territory- and that is exactly the way I like it. Parents, if you have been listening in each week, you already have the motivation you need to make a change for the better. I have no doubt. What you don't have are the tangible solutions to put your enthusiasm into action. To give you a quick recap, a new line-up of show topics was announced last week. These next 13 weeks we'll be bringing you step by step tutorials on things like approaching your current employer with a telecommute proposal, surviving as a family on a single salary, and how to effectively barter yourself and your services to compensate for what may be lacking in your bank account. We'll bring you already established home based business models, like mom blogging, virtual assisting and project management, and a whole lot more. If the last 30 shows were about staying sane and surviving, then the next 30 will be about putting objectives into action and thriving. On Friday, I will be welcoming a very important guest- so important that I can almost guarantee one show will not be enough for Mr. Brian Harmsen, Founder and CEO of Designworks Talent, LLC. An ex-colleague of mine from once upon a time, Brian is one of those rare individuals who has a true understanding of business industry trends, but more importantly, he has the outstanding ability to translate it for the rest of us dummys. (I say it with love.) I have always known that Brian had no business working for anyone other than himself. Visionaries like Brian are not often rewarded for thinking outside of the box in Corporate America, but once set free to run without any limitations, they are literally able defy gravity. So when he told me he had opened up his own recruiting firm, it felt as if our team just landed the star player of the century. Parent or not, as a business leader and entrepreneur he gets us, is rooting for us, and is able to inspire movement that is in favor of us. To top it off, he'll be offering us insight that will drop your jaw to the ground. So place yourself at the front of the class, and get ready to take some notes. This is just the beginning of how you will begin to understand your place in the virtual workforce and in rediscovering your path to legitimate job security. We are not just talking about it anymore, we are going to give you the guidance you've been asking for. The mission has not changed, but it just became a whole lot more progressive. Lets get you home.
Friday 1st of October 2010
I am not convinced that I have brought enough people home with the advice I have given, so we are going to dig a little deeper into the nitty gritty. We are going to get way more specific- that is what you need, isn’t it? You need real tools to apply to your own situations. I don’t think you need motivation. if you are listening to my show- YOU’VE got the motivation. But I realized that I had forgotten what it was like to be venturing into a new business for the first time. I wasn’t even sure I wanted to be a business owner...and I think you also don’t necessarily want to become a business guru- which is almost what it seems you have to become in order to become your own boss….and that just isn’t true. I am not talking about turning you all into multi-million dollar ceos here. If you are hoping for that- you’ve come to the wrong place. This is for people- especially parents who want to regain the control in their lives. Its the jurisdiction and the ability to make decisions for yourself that comes with being your own boss. When you are your own boss, you call the shots, you set your own pace, how often you are there for your kids, and you just have more room and flexibility for life’s little emergencies. This is what we are aspiring towards together. if I can help just 1 parent achieve that kind of freedom, I will have done my job, but I will not rest until I’ve reached 1 million. So, you want to hear about the new game plan? ooh. Excited.
Friday 3rd of September 2010
Its a new coaching day !! What DO YOU want to talk about? I'll tell you what I want to talk about! Its the fascinating phenomenon of trends. Who sets them, and how do they come about? Are they really just a result of our current societal progression? We can chew over what came first, the product or the current. Or we can create our own trend based on what our current society is in need of...or um, ahem...what we are in need of! Imagine the power we have to create a global movement simply by working together and using our commonality as parents to drive our ambitions!! You already know that I am on a mission to bring 1 million parents home...but I am also on a mission to support the ones who already at home. If you are with me, lets hear from you! The phone lines will be open on Friday, not just for those who are in need of coaching, but for those that have a voice and want to use it to be heard! Book your time on the air now! Like so many open coaching days, the common question among the callers seems to be, "I want to start my own business but I have no idea what I want to do." In the past, I've given specific steps that will help you see yourself and the value that you were intended to bring your community. But this week, I am going to take it a step further, implementing a true suggestion that might prove to be so valuable we could conceivably begin a sweeping new trend starting now! Our most valuable asset in our modern society as parent entrepreneurs is each other. Why? Because we sell to one another. We are not only networking to grow our businesses, we are each other's target demographic! Stay-at-home parents make up the largest group of consumers in America today- so if you cater to the needs of moms and dads, you are sure to be a success!
Saturday 28th of August 2010
There is nothing at all like much needed time away to help us melt away the stress of our everyday lives. How many times have we lay in a relaxing spot of cleanse and detox, vowing and determined to harness the vacation bliss so that we may carry it with us into our post-vacation lives- only to have it wiped away abrubptly the moment we step into the airport terminal? The peace and serenity seem to fade simultaneously with our suntans... Not this time. I am proud to say that it is 4 days post vacation and I am still basking in the glow of my week at the Jersey Shore where I let eager relatives chase after my kids for once. I spent hours sand sculpting (for a little taste of my work, visit here!), meditating, boogie boarding, eating a ridiculous amount of unhealthy (but necessary) calories from the boardwalk in the form of taffy, fudge, caramel popcorn and drippy cheesy pizza. It was...bliss. And, yes, I brought it back with me. (The bliss as well as the taffy.) So, trust me when I tell you... it is possible. I wanted to take full advantage of this blissful state - because who knew when I would have such an opportunity again? My experiment worked! These fresh, new discoveries of myself were unexpectedly monumental! I realized, without question, the mighty capacity we have as intelligent beings, the healing power of losing ourselves in uncriticized art, the magic of letting our creative juices flow without exposition and how to use it as an anchor when life becomes chaotic and we become jaded. How easy it is for us to forget the importance of clearing away those pesky cobwebs that infest our unrested minds and hearts! Staying in a state of gratitude - even when everything seems to be falling apart- is crucial to our happiness and health. This is the answer! And yet, its so simple. Sound hokey? Yep, I might think so too, if I was reading this. But before you get too comfortable in your cynicism, imagine for a moment the awesomeness of true bliss, and what it would do for you in your every day life. Appropriately, this week's guest is none other than The Bliss Lady, Teri Williams. Yeah, I know. How perfect is that? I know you'll be glad you tuned in on Friday. It's going to be a terrific show!
Saturday 21st of August 2010
Ally is on vacation, and the staff of OurMilkMoney.com is taking over for the second week with 2 more amazing guests! Technology has continued to change our lives in immeasurable ways and information at the tip of our fingers has become the norm. As entrepreneurs, we know that the internet has opened the doors for business opportunities all around us. Watch out now - here comes our tech-savvy teenagers, growing up with computers at their disposal and information-on-the-go being all they have ever known. Two years ago, at the age of 14, Ava Anderson may not have seen herself as a teenage entrepreneur. However, an alarming special about dangers in the cosmetic industry led her on a mission to find “safe” skin care products. She bought, researched and tried products, recommending those with lower toxicity through her newly created blog. Over that year, she became increasingly frustrated with the limited choices in the marketplace. Through a family contact, Ava made a trip to New York with her own entrepreneurial mom, Kim, to meet with a well respected skin care manufacturer. The goal was to see if they could make some safe products for Ava. That very meeting led to the start of Ava Anderson Non-Toxic, an eight month old product line currently distributed nationwide through a direct sales force and one of the fastest growing direct sales company’s in history. We are excited to have Kim and Ava Anderson joining us this Friday to get the whole low down on filling a niche, choosing their marketing strategy, developing a direct sales force and working for a 16 year old CEO. Kim has plenty to share about running her own business while raising her children and now working for one of them! Tune in this week!
Saturday 14th of August 2010
Ally is on vacation, and the staff of OurMilkMoney.com is taking over the show with an amazing guest! Have you ever known someone to start a direct sales business and shoot straight to the top? Someone who has had no previous experience in the industry, no special friends at the top, no magic fairy dust sprinkled on their head? Sometimes these are the “reasons” we believe others might be successful – especially when they do it quickly. Several years ago, Mona had the opportunity to meet Allison LaMarr at an event when she was practically brand new to direct sales. She was sweet, happy and enthusiastic on the outside. What we didn’t know then was that she was a fireball raring to go straight to the top on the inside! Over the course of the next several years, Mona watched Allison as she continuously set many impressive records with the 45 year old company. The ultimate achievement to go down in company history is leading her organization to become the fastest National Area ever! Today, in her very early thirties, she is officially “retired” from the direct sales business and embarking on a new adventure to Empower Women in Business around the world. Are you ready to hear all her secrets? Join us this Friday to learn more about Allison from her success tips on building a solid foundation and finding out where she is going in the future! We'll give you a little hint - it just may be a city near you!
Saturday 7th of August 2010
Whatever challenges you may be having, we can figure out a solution together! Do you need help or support: * creating a home-based business plan specific to you as a parent? * creating a schedule that allows you to balance work and family? * adjusting to life as a self-employed parent? * learning how to be your own boss and hold yourself accountable to these new responsibilities? * creating a winning media campaign? * working on a shoestring budget? * communicating with your spouse or other family members about giving you the support you need? * brainstorming ideas on what you could do to earn extra revenue from home? * dealing with every day stress? * with parental advice? Or maybe your life is perfect and you have no reason to call in other than to tell me how much you love my show- and to share a few sips of wine on a Friday afternoon. Summer is almost over. Lets enjoy every last minute of it!
Saturday 31st of July 2010
Imagine. Dream. Create. These and a little elbow grease are all you need to kick-start a fulfilling home-based business. Most times it takes a little money too, but not always. I went into business for myself as a single parent and trust me, I had no change in my pockets. What I did have was motivation. I wanted to be at home to raise my kids. That was all the motivation I needed to keep my nose to the grindstone. I knew what I loved to do and discovered more of who I was along the way. I loved people, writing and teaching. Those were elements of my blue print. I had a knack for communication and an ability to teach anything I learned. Those were my tools. And I was naïve enough to think I could be successful. Thank God! THAT was my investment. These three things were the cornerstones of my home-based business. When it comes to economic development, I believe we’re in the most fruitful period ever. There are more opportunities for self employment now that there have been since before the industrial revolution mechanized society. We’re no longer forced to put our blood, sweat, tears, and gifts into fulfilling someone else’s dream - unless we want to, and that’s okay too. We’re free. We have choices! Where do you stand? Is a dream or desire beckoning your attention? Would you like to spend your life doing something you love? Build your business! There’s no greater professional satisfaction than that of parenting a business from gestation to maturity - and beyond. Are you up to it? What have you got to lose? Answering that last question will probably require more personal strength than any other leg of your journey, so be sure to examine closely before you answer. What Have You Got To Lose? Many will answer, “Well, I have a lot to lose; time, money, ambition… and what if I fail?” My answer is this: In order to be successful with anything you do, be willing to set all of these concerns aside. Muster the courage to try something new; to put your ideas into action. Ascribe to the belief that,”It’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” (Who said that?) In our case, “It’s better to have given it all you’ve got and failed than never to have tried.” (This one’s mine.) You’ve got a dream, you go for it. Do your homework. Look for everything you need to support you in workin’ it baby! Find a mentor; join a networking group. Ask for support! OurMilkMoney.com is a great place to start. If you have money, spend it wisely. If you don’t, look for free resources. They’re out there. Google alone has several things that will support your new venture. Begin taking steps in the direction of your dreams. Do something, anything! You will set yourself up for some level of success. If you fail - find another way. Failure is feedback. It says, “Try another path.” That’s all. Just do it differently next time. Ask Thomas Edison, who tried over 14,000 times before he invented the light bulb. Ask Colonel Sanders (KFC) who shopped his recipe of eleven herbs and spices 1008 times before he got a bite (pardon the pun). They didn’t quit and neither should you.
Saturday 24th of July 2010
We could all use a little faith, regardless of what size or shape it may appear in to you. Whether you are transitioning into becoming a work-at-home parent, or you've recently become the victim of a lost job, you may be looking for some kind of sign that its all going to be okay. For many of us, these unforeseen circumstances have resulted in the choice to create our own employment, but this has proven to be no easy task. We are burning the midnight oil with research, marketing, website design, job applications, and more. We are watching our bank accounts disappear, our homes get foreclosed, and our confidence slip away. Its no wonder we feel cynical, doubtful, frightened, confused and alone. We are bombarded with mixed messages from every form of media, we are working blindly in a dark tunnel without a hint of light in any direction that tells us which way to walk, and we can't help but wonder how much longer we'll be able to survive without any answers. We are missing an important ingredient. Faith. When I met Reverend Hilde Brooks*, I was looking for spirituality but lacking hope. It was Hilde that showed me that faith can come in all shapes and sizes. Raised Jewish but married to a Catholic, and determined to find a compromise that made sense to both of us, we'd just about given up on our search after being turned off too many times finding everything too organized or rigid. But Hilde led a different kind of sermon. It didn't seem to matter what preconceived notions we carried with us as her teachings didn't attach itself to any one denomination over another. Her sermons brought meaning and purpose in a world full of chaos, optimism and conviction out of hardship, and faith when life was most challenging. As you know, I tend to get very personal on This Little Parent Stayed Home and I love to share the things that have played a significant role in my own journey. I want to share Reverend Hilde*. I am honored to have her join us this week and I am confident that you will come away from Friday's show with at least a little more faith and the belief that it will all be okay.
Monday 19th of July 2010
Not every parent feels that their ideal situation is to be home with their children... ... and there is nothing wrong with that. Period. But to all the parents who do want to come home and are aching to triumph over all the obstacles preventing you from being able to do just that...we are here for you! Several times this week, I spoke to someone who told me “I really do wish I could stay home with the kids, but my husband and I like our lifestyle and don’t want to give it up.” Maybe you feel this exact way, and if that is the case, I can’t say I blame you for feeling like there is no other alternative. But if some part of you feels your family would benefit more overall from having you at home, I hope that you will at least explore the possibilities a little further. Don't deny yourself or your family what is best simply because it feels unattainable. What if there was a way to have it all? The truth is, LIFESTYLE is only what we make it. Big corporate salaries and paid time off doesn’t always equal posh and luxurious lifestyles. If you are looking for ways to keep the fun and enjoyment in your life, enough to make it worth the loss of an entire income, then this is a good show to start with! Those of you who are already staying at home, you'll find a lot of value as well! This week we will be reminding you why you decided to stay home in the first place, and helping you to find the fun in your every day! Why not? You are officially the boss of your home! Together we will reawaken those childlike inhibitions and relish in the time we spend at home with our kids. This week, our guest is *Silvana Clark Author of Fun-Filled Parenting: A Guide to Laughing More and Yelling Less, will be joining us to share tips and tricks on how to have free and low-cost fun (that doesn’t involve computers, videos or TV!) easy activities, games and crafts (even if you are uncrafty!) to enjoy with your children.
Friday 9th of July 2010
There is a new boss in town... its your child. If you are a parent, you know that the love you have for your children fills an emptiness that neither a great career nor a sparkling house can fill. That concept is what will continue to drive us in our mission to provide top notch service from our home-based businesses without compromising our need to be great parents. We have taken our priceless, world class corporate experiences, and said so long to anyone who threatens our choice to create our own financial stability. This is a new business community with a new set of rules. Where else would you get away with having a conference call with screaming children in the background? How about the ability to say, “I will not have the report until tomorrow because I am volunteering in my son’s preschool”? Parent Entrepreneurs collectively agree and practice this simple principle: Family come first. Business comes second. By working together, and exercising the same patience with one another as we learned when we became moms and dads, we have created a fantastic new society. Never again will we lose sight of where our loyalty lies and where it will be echoed. This week we are proud to welcome OurMilkMoney.com member, Leta Hamilton, and author of the book The Way of the Toddler. Leta will be joining us Friday to help us explore the spiritual context of parenting. Together we will go to the heart of what it truly means to be a successful parent raising successful children. Until then, kiss your kids and enjoy your week!
Friday 2nd of July 2010
Bravo to the volunteers who call into the show on Open Coaching Days to share their journeys with our listeners! Calling in to a live radio show to talk about your personal challenges takes guts. But you know what takes even more guts? Sacrificing the stability of an entire paycheck for the chance of a different way of life. Nothing about this process is easy. You are not alone. It's been difficult for me to call myself an "expert" because really I am not all that different than any of you. I am figuring out how to make it work every single day. What I learn, I share. When I struggle, I share that too. I believe that there is always a solution to whatever challenges we may be having, and part of the fun is figuring it out. I am not super human. I am just enthusiastic about what I know we can achieve by working together. This week, listen in and support the callers who are working diligently to make their dreams come true. They are supporting YOU by sharing their journey for your listening benefit. Mona and I are looking forward to getting to know more of you this week, and of course, helping you accomplish your goals.
Friday 25th of June 2010
This is one of my favorite shows so far. Ironically Mona and I both had a terrible week, and so did my friend Shannon. We weren't sure we'd find the right energy to do the show, and of course it ended up being our most brilliant thanks to out terrific guest, Marla Tabaka. Shannon came on as a last minute volunteer to talk about her issues with money. Marla worked her magic, and we all grew a lot from this amazing process! What is it that is holding you back? Is there something that is preventing you from getting exactly where you want to be? If you have a long list of reasons why you are unable to accomplish your goals, you are no different than most. We all have obstacles! It can be frustrating, or it can make life interesting depending on the way you look at it. But if you are serious about breaking past your own limitations and achieving the kind of success you've only had in your wildest dreams, this is the show to listen to. I met Marla Tabaka when I was first invited into the HerInsight Radio group, but it wasn't until I had the pleasure of working with her on Everyday Autism Miracles with Shannon Penrod, that I learned what a valuable commodity she is. In less than 5 minutes she taught me a technique that has completely changed my life and empowered me to overcome my own stubborn setbacks. I am so excited that Marla will be joining us this week to share some of her secrets to success, especially the tool that became so valuable to me: EFT Tapping aka The Emotional Freedom Technique. If you have concerns that you would like to resolve with this amazing and powerful technique, we invite you to join us and allow Marla to guide you in the experience first hand! Marla’s training and experience as a life and business coach bring powerful results to her EFT Tapping sessions.
Friday 18th of June 2010
Let's Hear it for the Boy! In the last 30 years our gender roles have changed significantly, but it is my personal feeling that the last 10 have been the closest we've come to getting it right. In this modern day society, more and more men have surrendered themselves to a greater purpose of family. Whatever that means to them, they are more willing to do what it takes to provide and nurture. Dad's everywhere are opening their minds to new possibilities and different lifestyles than what they had known in the past. Whether it be staying at home with the kids while their wife commutes into the corporate workforce, supporting the mom who has chosen to start a new business, or something else, Dads everywhere need to be given recognition for stepping up when the going got tough, and stepping back when it was someone else's turn to be supported. I am truly honored to be inviting these fantastic fathers to the show on Friday: Nathan Bright, a hilarious and heart-warming guest blogger for the OMM Daddy's Den. He is a stay-at-home dad of 2 little girls, and the author of a terrific children's book "Maddi Patti and her Stay-at-Home Daddy." Dave Ballard and Bill Wardell, partners in Cyberhood Watch, and stay-at-home Dads who are passionate about keeping the internet safe. You can hear them on Blog Talk Radio. In addition to these fine gentleman, we will be opening up the phone lines for any other Dad's who would like to call in to the show. We are looking forward to possibly getting a few surprise visits!
Friday 11th of June 2010
It doesn't matter what product or service you are offering to your community. Marketing is everything. This Friday we'll be learning how to market your business like a Rock Star!! You are not alone if you feel overwhelmed by the competition or what it takes to keep up on internet trends. Don't let these fears cloud your vision! Instead of becoming frustrated by what you do not know, concentrate your efforts to promoting what makes you... you. Because you are the only one there is. As the only true expert on you, you are beyond your competition! I am super excited to be introducing Craig Duswalt, my long time friend and personal business coach. Former personal manager to Axl Rose, award winning copywriter, Artistic Director for a Los Angeles Theatre, Creative Director for an advertising agency, professional speaker, author, and most impressively, a stay-at-home Dad, Craig is a true inspiration! Join us Friday for some Rock Star Expertise, and maybe if we're lucky, he'll share with us a few fun stories of what it was like to tour with Guns N' Roses. PS. As an added bonus Craig is giving 2 Free Passes to his 4 Day Boot Camp Seminar to 5 lucky TLPSH Listeners!
Saturday 5th of June 2010
Maybe you were just dealt a terrible hand and you didn't get the luck that others get in this lifetime. Maybe you just don't have it in you to be a success. Maybe you are not smart enough, energetic enough, pretty enough, thin enough, or rich enough. Maybe you just don't work hard enough. Maybe your lazy. If these are thoughts that often go through your head... this week's show is for you. We are ALL guilty of these negative and unproductive thoughts, so don't think you are any different . One thing is certain, we need to stop beating ourselves up for it, because that just might be the most unproductive thing of all. The truth of the matter is that we are often clouded by our own fears and instead of taking time to conquer them, we end up getting in our own way. It's time to break past those limitations and get excited about taking the risks you were meant to take. This week we will be talking about adopting an attitude that will change how you view your day to day life, your business, your marriage and your relationships. Get ready to open your mind! Friday we will talk about learning to embrace everything about who you are, and how to capitalize on your individuality- which most definitely includes your imperfections. It's an open coaching day so we'll be opening up the phone lines for you to discuss whatever challenges you may be having.* Pour yourself a nice glass of wine, turn up the volume and laugh along with your friends, Mona and I. We'll be here to support you through yet another week, all the while reminding you that it's the journey that matters the most.
Friday 28th of May 2010
Give a man a fish, feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, feed him his entire life." -Confucius A couple of weeks ago, I made a bold declaration. What we are working on together, is to bring parents home. One million parents as a matter of fact, is what I stated to the world. And I’m not backing down. Nope, this goal means far too much for me and even more for YOU, the parent who is longing to be home with their child and doesn’t know if they can do it. Or the one who is already working at home and wants to grow their business. Or the one who’s business is already successful, and is looking to join our mission and connect with other work-at-home parents. This is our movement, folks, ARE YOU ON BOARD? If so, Let us know! Sign the Parent Collective Now! I am going to help bring 1 million parents home, but I can’t do it without those that are willing to help themselves. It may not ever be as easy as just handing out jobs like a placement agency. That is why the greatest gift I can give you is the resources and tools to be able to do it yourself. But what if you don’t want to be your own boss? Maybe you know that you are better at working for someone else. That is why I am thrilled to bring you this next topic on Friday. It’s one that I’ve been putting together for awhile. We’ve partnered with fellow Her Insight Networker Sharon Davis, host of “Your Way to Work at Home”. She is also the owner of the incredibly resourceful site 2Work-At-Home.com which features companies that actually hire telecommuters. Like so many of us, Sharon is a mom who has been through the frustrations and challenges of trying to find a telecommute job, and she's been working at home successfully since 1999. Sharon will be joining us to share her experience and tell us exactly what we need to do to make out dreams of working at home a reality. If you are looking for real answers about earning a legitimate income from home, this is a show you won’t want to miss!
Friday 21st of May 2010
If you need a good pick me up- this is a great show to listen to. Lots of laughs among girlfriends, talking about how we got through the toughest times, and then celebrating how far we've come! It's a show full of growth and productive discoveries! Yes, I may be overly enthusiastic, but I still believe that anyone can learn to become a work-at-home parent. Now more than ever, I am determined to help you see your full potential to obtain the way of life you and your family deserve. You've already heard me talk about sacrifice, staying sane, budgeting and teamwork. Yet, it still feels like we are just barely scratching the surface. Lets turn this up a notch. You each have something valuable to offer your community, whether you realize it or not. You already have what it takes to create positive and meaningful change. You are your own instrument, so its important to keep you fine tuned. This week we will be giving you more of the tools you need to become your best self, learn what sets you apart individually, and what you can contribute in cooperation to this new culture. I am pleased and honored to invite a true inspiration to join us on the air. Passionate about the OMM mission right from the beginning, I once gave her a staff position because I was determined to have her on my team! Laurel Crossley-Byers, founder of Opti-mom, has become one of the most sought after speakers on the topic of Life Balance for the Entrepreneur and Business Professional. As my very good friend, I can tell you that Laurel is engaging, informative and completely hilarious. Mona and I will be welcoming Laurel to discuss her philosophy for the simplicity of living, and how a balanced mind, body and spirit produce a balanced life - something so many of us are seeking. Two goals this week: Finding the simplicity in your life AND Fine tuning your instrument.
Friday 14th of May 2010
I am on a mission to bring home 1 million parents. But I can't do it alone. I am here to inspire, to educate, and support you...but you must make a commitment to yourself. What are you willing to do to come home? What sacrifices are you willing to make? What is being home with your kids worth to you? We will continue these discussions this week as I introduce you to a valuable new element of This Little Parent Stayed Home: I am pleased to acquaint you with My new co-host and "side kick" Mona Colwell. Up until now, you may know her is the Direct Sales Expert on TLPSH, as well as on the Our Milk Money Blog, but she has also served as OMM's PR and Media Director. It's important that we surround ourselves with supportive associates and close companions, especially when we give ourselves enormous missions like "bringing home 1 million parents." Lofty goals like this could never be possible without the proper reinforcements in place, such as my dedicated staff, of which Mona has been a part of. I have no doubt that Mona will be an excellent contribution to the show because as my counterpoint, she has an exceptional knack for provoking me to give my best exposition. When it comes to having someone in your corner, Mona is as devoted and steadfast as they come. What makes her such an asset as my co-host on TLPSH is that even in the midst of her unwavering loyalty, she has no problem giving an alternate point of view, and balancing out my frenzic nature. Mona is just as passionate about our mission, but less outrageous. She's been my voice of reason, my rock, and my friend. Everyone should have a Mona in their lives- so I am please to announce that each Friday I will be sharing my Mona with you. Speaking of friends, I am also proud to be bringing my very good friend and colleague, Shara Lawrence-Weiss as this week's guest. Shara is an incredibly resourceful and visionary leader among the work-at-home parent community. With a passion for children, reading and education, Shara is the current owner of Mommy Perks, the founder of Personal Child Stories, Early Childhood News & Resources and Kids Perks. Shara will be joining us to discuss the importance of Play Time/Outdoor Time for Kids, and providing much needed advice for those of us looking to find a healthy and productive balance while working at home. I hope you are having a great week! We are looking forward to sharing another hour with you!
Friday 7th of May 2010
I mean it. No more messing around. I am telling it like it is. If I am going to bring home 1 million parents, I need to count on YOU to put on your boldest and bravest outfit. Are. You. With. Me? It's what you've been asking for. You just want someone to give it to you straight. You got it. You are sick of spending hours of research looking for the perfect work-at-home job that is going to replace your corporate salary. You are only finding rosy colored fabrications- none of which you are stupid enough to fall for. You can trust me. I'll be the first to tell you that those jobs don't exist. You just wish someone would tell you the truth about what to expect. No problem. You don't feel like any of this applies to you. Your situation is different than the ones talked about on the show. Okay, then. Bring. It. On. You think I am kidding? If you want to come home, there will be no more excuses. No more waiting for the perfect scenario. It doesn't exist. You can only prepare so much before you allow yourself to move forward. Let your fear drive you into a better reality, for your sake and your family's sake. Let the love you have for your beautiful children guide your convictions. Without anguish there would be no passion. Without vulnerability there would be no courage. Without your family, you would never desire the need to discover a new part of yourself... the part that is willing to risk everything you have ever known for a better way. Don't waste one more second waiting to make the most of your quick little life with the darling little people who make that life so worth living. Flex those muscles and give yourself the leverage you need to take back the control. Reclaim the power that will allow you to decide the best way to provide for your family and how often you are able to see them. I am on a mission to bring home 1 million parents. See you soon.
Friday 30th of April 2010
Show #11: Super Spousal Support: Becoming the Ultimate Mom/Dad Team when Bringing One of You Home. Things are changing rapidly all around us, and that might be a bit confusing for some, but do not mistake it as a bad thing. Vulnerability and uncertainty are only opportunities to confront our fears head on. You are not in this alone. Whether you know it or not, you are surrounded by others who are like-minded, just as passionate, and just as willing to step into new, never before seen territory for the chance at spending as much of this lifetime as possible with their families. Besides, you aren't alone. You have your family- the very thing that you are fighting for! There is some good stuff here. This new generation of parents encompasses the greatest amount of equality in history thus far, and I don't see anyone laying down and declaring a victory just yet. There is still more unity to achieve! More sacrifices to be made! More understandings to be shared! More awareness to be mastered! There are men that still feel the financial burden of providing for their families on their single income, as their fathers did before them. Unfortunately this is not possible for the majority, so its been an incredibly difficult adjustment for them. There are women who once fought to take control of their financial destiny by proving to the corporate world that they are just as significant and impactful, but very few expected the maternal instinct to kick in with such industrial fervor, transforming every priority they'd ever known in their lives the moment they held their new baby in their arms. Everything has changed. All of a sudden, these men have become dads, and the women have become moms. As caretakers, we have a little more understanding of one another, and have become a little less divided. In this new world, we have all had to redefine our gender roles as they relate to the family, and recreate a new set of rules geared towards our financial survival. This revolutionary time can be just as liberating for the men as it is for the women. Make no mistake, the most successful work-at-home moms are the ones that have the most supportive husbands rooting them on, fighting to be a part of your mission and adjusting to each new set of rules that gets thrown their way. I know this because I happen to have one of my own. I wouldn't have known where to begin any part of this journey without my husband, the most loyal friend I have ever known. Adjusting to this new way of life hasn't exactly been a walk in the park for him, and he'll tell you exactly that, I am sure. But each step of the way has allowed us to grow stronger as parents, as providers, and as partners. Joining us this Friday is none other than my amazing husband, life-partner, and soul mate. He is the one and only, Chris Loprete. This podcast has never been just for women, but ladies if there was ever a time to invite your husbands to listen in with you, it would be now. As the ultimate guy's guy and husband interpreter, he won't let you down - nor will he let us end the show without at least a giggle or two.
Friday 23rd of April 2010
Let's talk about money! (Wait, where are you going?) I am not going to deny that this subject may seem a little daunting but it doesn't have to be, and we can't avoid it forever. Now that so much of our hard earned money seems to have to vanished into thin air, families across the country are being forced to make new decisions regarding mere survival. We CANNOT let this fear control us and prevent us from moving forward. We are in this together. We must choose to fight past this uncertain time and use our power in numbers to work towards a new solution. Are you with me? It's time we had this discussion. A career in Corporate America no longer represents financial stability the way that becoming one's own boss does. We must stop expecting for things to go back to the way they were and embrace this as a necessary change in our society. This is the time I like to call "the storm before the rainbow." Storms aren't all bad if you know how to wait it out. Getting there is half the fun. When the rain finally stops, the air will be clear, the earth clean, and the sky filled with color. Count on it. It's time we set ourselves free from the fear that is causing our limitations. We must open up our hearts and our minds to see all the potential of a clean slate. Let's get creative! As parents, we are more resourceful than ever, and with enough commitment, we are capable of making gold out of garbage. This show is dedicated to help you re-examine your financial situation, realize the value you still have in yourself, your assets, and your future. Together we will release the power that money has on us, and capitalize on our ability to live a quality life on a shoestring budget. Let's put things in perspective and simplify our over extended lifestyles. Often we can provide for our families in even MORE substantial ways simply by getting creative. If you truly want to become a stay-at-home parent, this show is crucial for your survival: mentally and literally. This week, I am proud to welcome two incredible guests to aid us in this discussion. Beth Engelman and Jenna Riggs are co-hosts of the radio show Mommy on a Shoestring also part of the Her Insight Network. These two ladies are incredibly inspiring and successful work-at-home moms who have made careers out of "living rich" by staying creative and thrifty. Also, you asked for it!! Due to popular demand, Katie Dean of Oh! Katie Cookies will be returning to the show. We've received so many wonderful letters from listeners telling us how much they enjoy following her journey as a new entrepreneur. Thank you for cheering her on! It's going to be a great hour!! See you then :)
Friday 16th of April 2010
I am on a mission to bring home 1 million parents! Will you join me in this revolution? Parents are sick and tired of being enslaved by their corporate jobs, the unsteadiness of the economy and missing out on precious time with their children. As an alternative to daycare, families are working together to bring one parent home to stay with the kids in an old fashion way- but this time, the stay-at-home parent must learn to supplement the family income. Ally Loprete opens up the phone lines for listeners to call in and get expert advice on their personal situations. Whatever the challenge, bring it on! Together, we will figure out a way to bring you home.
Saturday 10th of April 2010
Whether you are looking to become a work-at-home parent, or you already are one, you’ll be amazed to learn that the rules from your old job may not apply to this community. The Parent Entrepreneur community has tripled in the last 2 years, and it continues to grow month after month. This is no longer a trend. It has become a way of doing business for so many parents. Top executives, take note! Parent Professionals have had to re-think the way they conduct business, the way the network, the way they pace themselves, and who they build relationships with. Finding a solid community of support is a necessity to the success of any home based business. Parents have joined together in a collaborative effort to create a community with a whole new set of rules. You’ve heard me talk about some of them: Don’t ever apologize for your kids when on a business call. Don’t work until the kids are in school or in bed. Kids come first and work comes second. Choose to work with other parents who “get it”. You are the boss, so work at a pace that makes sense for you and your family. This is most likely the most challenging time of your life. You never stop learning how to be parent, and now you are learning to run a small home based business. The parent business community is here to support you, and we want you to thrive! I expect this to be our most inspirational show yet. This topic truly excites me because the progress that we have made as parent entrepreneurs in the last 3 years is truly revolutionary. To help welcome you into the parent business community, I have invited *Laura Wintemute of BizEworks to join us. We will be discussing the importance of supporting your local community, successful networking and the benefits of “paying it forward.” We are looking forward to having you join us!
Friday 2nd of April 2010
Do we dare talk politics even at an attempt to stay neutral? Is it even possible right now? There are heated disputes and vicious bickerings all around us. Arrows are being flung back and forth between friends and family members on Facebook, Twitter has become a mass of short and sweet cheap shots, and it is all at the ironic expense of our nation’s health (pun intended). Most American’s have not even read the health care reform bill, and yet they have no problem delivering their arrogant and uninformed “expertise”. (I admit, I am one of them.) Given the acrimonious state of the people on BOTH sides, you may think its not possible to discuss government or policy in a neutral way…but I’d like to try. It’s important that we learn what the bill is about before scratching each other’s eyes out…and maybe, just maybe…we’ll lose the desire to grapple once we realize…we are not nearly as divided as we thought. *Julianne Wish may not be of the same political affiliation as myself, but we are friends and colleagues who have at least one shared goal: Becoming more united as parents and entrepreneurs, becoming less divided in the political arena, and striving to gain as much real information as we can to obtain a true understanding of our current situation and what it might mean for our future. (Er, make that 3 shared goals). We are both passionate advocates for parents and their children. So, if our goals are truly the same, its just a matter of finding the best way to get there. It is my hope that we’ll have such a productive discussion that we’ll be showing D.C. how it should be done. I have invited Julianne, who is one of the few people I know to have actually read the bill, to speak with us about the newly passed legislation, and help us to see how it will affect us personally, our families and our small businesses. There will be no battling or battering, and we will keep our personal opinions out. Instead, we will be working together to represent the facts without the slant, and explore the components without the criticisms. We know there is conflict. Our intention is not to add to it. Nor is it to convince you to choose one side over the other. The intent is to give you the tools you need to understand the health reform bill and how it affects YOU. Perhaps we’ll get really lucky and it will advance us one step further toward our own goal of becoming less divided.
Friday 26th of March 2010
As you know, I am on a mission to change the way we all shop, and to educate the public on the value of purchasing from a family owned and operated business. I believe that the broken economy is actually an opportunity for us to rebuild it in a way that works for us rather than against us, and as a result of so many lost jobs over the past 2 years, self-employment has risen more than 20%. So as part of my mission, I support these parent-run businesses by making as many purchases from them as I possibly can...and changing my purchasing behaviors.... so that I am not spending anymore money that I was in the past...And yes, I do purchase some of these products from parents who run a direct sales business out of their home, and I have no problem listing them on the OurMilkMoney.com business directory. Why would I have a problem with it? If its a good product, and similar in price to a product I've purchased from a megastore, I'll switch over. And in most cases I’ve been pretty satisfied with the level of customer service, the price and with the product itself. So, I don't care if it came from an MLM or a private source... if my money goes directly to the parent... then it is within my mission. However, I do have to draw the line somewhere, and in a lot of cases, I have not been happy with the products, some were over priced, for some it was set up in a way where you have to buy a certain amount each month and your credit card will automatically be charged and new product sent to you whether you are ready for it or not, membership fees...all issues that are debatable, and I know there are 2 sides to everything...but the biggest issue I have about businesses such as these is that it often has very little to do with the product itself. For some people, it’s obvious that the real goal is not to introduce you to the products, or to build a real client/consumer relationship… for some, it’s all about selling the opportunity… and you can smell it a mile away. It’s offensive, especially when someone asks me to buy into their opportunity and there is obviously no regard for the fact that I am already a business owner with a mission of my own. In these cases in becomes clear to me that they are not making very much money on selling me the products and the real incentive is for them to get as many people as they can to sell the products FOR them so that they can earn a residual income. the stigma is this...everyone wants to get money for free. I sure would. But it’s not really ethical. It feels like stealing. I am not saying that it is...but when something is described to me as this” I barely have to do anything! The money just comes pouring in…” that is when my red flag goes up.   Now the reason I wanted to talk about this today is because I sincerely want to help the situation. I see so many good honest people, and strong passionate parents buy into these opportunities and fail...and I’d like to see less of that happen. I want to see parents who have chosen to stay home succeed. But in many cases it seems like the businesses that they buy into are full of empty promises, or they weren’t upfront about the type of work that it would involve, or the incentives are set up to recruit people rather than sell products and services to people. It’s as if many of these businesses are preventing its own success by the way it is being approached. As you know, I am on a mission to change the way we all shop, and to educate the public on the value of purchasing from a family owned and operated business. I believe that the broken economy is actually an opportunity for us to rebuild it in a way that works for us rather than against us, and as a result of so many lost jobs over the past 2 years, self-employment has risen more than 20%. So as part of my mission, I support these parent-run businesses by making as many purchases from them as I possibly can...and changing my purchasing behaviors.... so that I am not spending anymore money that I was in the past...And yes, I do purchase some of these products from parents who run a direct sales business out of their home, and I have no problem listing them on the OurMilkMoney.com business directory. Why would I have a problem with it? If its a good product, and similar in price to a product I've purchased from a megastore, I'll switch over. And in most cases I’ve been pretty satisfied with the level of customer service, the price and with the product itself. So, I don't care if it came from an MLM or a private source... if my money goes directly to the parent... then it is within my mission. However, I do have to draw the line somewhere, and in a lot of cases, I have not been happy with the products, some were over priced, for some it was set up in a way where you have to buy a certain amount each month and your credit card will automatically be charged and new product sent to you whether you are ready for it or not, membership fees...all issues that are debatable, and I know there are 2 sides to everything...but the biggest issue I have about businesses such as these is that it often has very little to do with the product itself. For some people, it’s obvious that the real goal is not to introduce you to the products, or to build a real client/consumer relationship… for some, it’s all about selling the opportunity… and you can smell it a mile away. It’s offensive, especially when someone asks me to buy into their opportunity and there is obviously no regard for the fact that I am already a business owner with a mission of my own. In these cases in becomes clear to me that they are not making very much money on selling me the products and the real incentive is for them to get as many people as they can to sell the products FOR them so that they can earn a residual income. the stigma is this...everyone wants to get money for free. I sure would. But it’s not really ethical. It feels like stealing. I am not saying that it is...but when something is described to me as this” I barely have to do anything! The money just comes pouring in…” that is when my red flag goes up.   Now the reason I wanted to talk about this today is because I sincerely want to help the situation. I see so many good honest people, and strong passionate parents buy into these opportunities and fail...and I’d like to see less of that happen. I want to see parents who have chosen to stay home succeed. But in many cases it seems like the businesses that they buy into are full of empty promises, or they weren’t upfront about the type of work that it would involve, or the incentives are set up to recruit people rather than sell products and services to people. It’s as if many of these businesses are preventing its own success by the way it is being approached. My goal is to support all parent and their home based businesses, so I want to address this subject as a way of helping those that have chosen an MLM as their profession to find success, and not hurt their chances for success by compromising their own business integrity.
Saturday 20th of March 2010
Continuing the discussion of Ally's 3 day trip to "the nut house" this show finalizes a list of "musts" for the work-at-home parent. This is a list of rules that you need to follow to keep your mental health and sanity where it should be when you are trying to be "supermom". Also, Shannon Penrod joins us from "Everyday Autism Miracles" to discuss how ABA, (AKA Behavioral Therapy) can be used to discipline ALL children, not just ones with Autism. Secrets are revealed!
Friday 12th of March 2010
You have just started your own business, and there is 3 times the amount of work that you expected, you have 2 kids under the age of 3, a mortgage that isn’t getting any smaller, a household to run… and only 12 hours in a day…. How are you supposed to handle all of this without going insane? Please don’t call me “Supermom” I don’t have any super powers, and I certainly have a breaking point just like the rest of the world. There is a misconception among work-at-home parents that we have to do it all, and have it done YESTERDAY. The more moms and dads I speak to, the more I realize we are all very similar. Parents today are simply amazing- but then again we HAVE to be. Of the parents that I know that are working full time- or even part time- and raising a family and a household, none of them are doing it just because it’s fun for them, or because they were looking to do MORE in their lives. Most of us are doing it because it’s what is necessary for our families to survive in today’s world. Our families need us to try and bring in a supplemental income because one income is not enough. Not even those with college degrees and higher educations are able to provide for their families on one income. It’s not their fault, and we certainly don’t blame them. It’s just the way it is. Before you choose to let someone who seems to be able to do it all overawe you and minimize what you know you are capable of doing, LOOK CLOSER. If there are days that you feel you are barely staying afloat, take a moment and look at the others in your very same pool treading water. Perhaps they are looking at YOU and wondering how you got YOUR superpowers. Pat yourself on the back, because you have accomplished something today. This week, with guest *Lori Lite, owner of Stress Free Kids we will be discussing how easy it is to let yourself get overwhelmed, and how to manage your time between running a new business, caring for your children and running a household. It’s hard work, but for many parents, the hardest part is scheduling time to take care of your own health. This is such an important topic, and my hope is that you’ll come away from this show feeling less stress and more confidence in your abilities as a parents and as business owners.
Saturday 6th of March 2010
Celebrating Hollywood Baskets 1st Annual Academy Awards Swag Gift Bag. Given to nominees and presenters staying at The Four Seasons Hotel Los Angeles…and to one lucky winner on This Little Parent Stayed Home National Podcast! Well it’s about time we were treated like ROYALTY!! For many of us, the mega superstars that walk the red carpet on Oscar Sunday is the only royalty we will ever really know. Where my family lives, in SoCal, Oscar Sunday is practically a holiday. This time of year everyone around us has been scrambling for months to watch the nominated films in time to be able to have their true opinions for the big day. In our younger days, we always had at least 2 or 3 Oscar parties to choose from, and although some of them were black tie optional, the only clear option was the party with the least amount of “talkers”. Because as only the serious Hollywooders know, you don’t make a peep during a Royal Superstar’s speech. It’s just… not…cool. So when Lisa Gal, a new member of OurMilkMoney.com, superstar mom and owner of Hollywood Baskets, a custom gift basket delivery service, contacted me and told me she was in charge of handing out the Swag Party Favors for the red carpet walkers and presenters themselves… well, I knew that we needed to celebrate. Lisa will be a guest on the show next week, and in honor of Oscar week, she has VERY generously offered to give away one of her Swag Party Favors to a lucky listener of This Little Parent Stayed Home. For those not familiar with the term SWAG- it stands for “Stuff We All Get”. Love that watch you saw on Clooney? Want to get the same necklace as Charlise? Wonder what was in all those swag bags on the arms of your favorite stars? Small and unknown companies have gotten mega-exposure in years past at the Academy Awards by using a cutting-edge marketing strategy of gifting and pampering celebrities and VIP’s. The baskets themselves, complete with the goodies inside can be worth anywhere from $2000- $50,000. This one is valued at OVER $7,000!! I don’t know anyone more deserving of that kind of indulgence than the everyday parents of today’s society. The question is…who will the lucky winner be? Topics today also cover using your own resources to start your own business, the power we all have as consumers, parents working in corporate America who feel enslaved by their jobs, making that leap of faith into becoming a stay-at-home parent and so much more!
Saturday 27th of February 2010
Small businesses run by parents have exploded in the last 2 years, and there are a ton of books and websites popping up all over the place on the subject. But the thing that sets This Little Parent Stayed Home apart from the rest is that it speaks to ALL parents, and both genders. I don’t mean to criticize the motivational movements that are empowering women, but very often it seems as though it is done in a way that puts blame on the men. In fact, every where I look there are groups that aim to empower and inspire, but they end up counter actively segregating themselves with mass amounts of finger pointing and blaming some other group. There is division everywhere we look. It begs for us to examine more closely if we are really as divided as we think we are. This show will begin the discussion of all the things we try to avoid at parties. Politics, Religion, Marriage, Gender issues, and big business vs. small business. This show will not attempt to persuade you into joining into any group over another, but will encourage you to adopt the viewpoints that make sense for our productivity and our common goals as parents. We’ll begin with encouraging you to make a conscious decision that will open and expand your minds and your hearts, by letting go of assumptions, and societal misconceptions of what the ideal family situation should be. We’ll be celebrating the fathers who are staying at home while the mothers go earn the larger salary, and exploring all the ways that families can work together to bring one parent home. Stay at home father, *Chris Mancini will be joining us as a guest to talk about how his family achieves this result, and how he is still able to use his skills to earn a supplemental income for his family.
Saturday 20th of February 2010
I am constantly amazed at the parents that I meet on the OurMilkMoney.com business directory. When I think of all the things the Parents of the Our Milk Money Organization are accomplishing together, and the cooperative efforts that are occurring in thousands of families across the country, I can’t help getting a little teary eyed. For so many of these warm-hearted and attentive moms and dads, taking that leap of faith into becoming self-employed was one of the scariest things they’ve ever done. The Parents of the Our Milk Money Organization are some of the most heroic and spirited people I’ve had the pleasure of knowing, and they should be commended for their courageous efforts to provide for their families. When I had first founded the concept, I had set out to inspire parents to join together and fight for a better reality. So you can imagine my delightful revelation when I realized that it was me who was being inspired by them. It is my genuine pleasure to introduce you to these fantastic individuals on my first broadcast, and I know you will enjoy staying connected to them week after week. Many of these parents have donated fantastic products and services from their home based businesses. Please take a moment to register and tune in to win! Thank you for tuning in each week. Together we will change the world.