Lori Buckley, Ph.D., Is your sex life damaging your relationship or is your relationship hurting your sex life?

Chicken or the Egg??? Is your sex life damaging your relationship or is your relationship hurting your sex life?  Dr. Lori Buckley (www.drloribuckley.com) of the Center for Relationship, Marriage & Sex Therapy and I will look at the two main sources of sex and intimacy issues.  What we see are the best ways for an individual or a couple to untangle their issues and have the love life and sex life they want and deserve.  We both know that when people hear what others are dealing with it invariably validates, reduces their shame or stress about that issue and has them then see how others are put in the power position to create solutions that work for them as individuals. 

G Spot Found  - Ostrzenski
http://www.kxly.com/health/G-spot-found-Now-maybe-we-should-lose-it/-/101030/11811088/-/x7jknw/-/index.html
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2012.02668.x/abstract -
http://articles.latimes.com/2012/apr/25/health/la-he-g-spot-20120425
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-57420949-10391704/scientist-claims-discovery-of-g-spot-structure-other-experts-unconvinced/

Sex Diaries Project - what I like about this is it speaks to our Chicken and The Egg conundrum that we have with sex being a problem or the relationship is a problem.  Rather this addresses that there are soooo many other shades of gray ( not the book  :-}}) that are relationship and sexual realities.
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2012/01/27/the-sex-diaries-project-what-1-500-bedroom-diaries-can-teach-us-about-sex.html


We could also talk about Michael Metz and Barry McCarthy and their concept of 'Good Enough" sex.


Make-up sexlike cocaine - Huffington Post
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/emma-gray/make-up-sex-is-like-cocaine-addiction-clinical-psychologist-seth-meyers-psychology-today_b_1500331.html?ref=women&ir=Women

Lori Buckley

couples sex therapy

G Spot

Sex Diaries Project

Good enough sex

Lou Paget

Makeup sex

 

 

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