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Lou Paget is an AASECT* Certified Sex Educator, an international best selling author and entrepreneur of five books, translated into 28 languages, represented in over 60 countries with over 3 million copies sold. Paget is an in-demand international speaker, presenter and sought after multi-media expert with countless TV appearances, her work has also been the focus of shows like HBO's ‘Real Sex', C4's ‘Sex Tips for Girls' and WE's ‘Making Love Happen with Lou Paget'. * American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists

By blending her vast general knowledge of all things sexual with her hard sciences background she delivers with her trademark calm fearless intelligence a clearer, more demystified body of information used equally by the general population and her peers in the fields of sexuality. Her brand is known for delivering information about sexuality and relationship sans the sleaze factor while retaining all of the accuracy, fun and the "You're kidding!!" factor. Techniques and Tips are her specialty, she delivers bite-sized chunks of information you can use right away, that work!

Sexual Health is a major focus of her professional mission, she was one of 13 members of the National Advisory Council convened by the 16th US Surgeon General Dr. David Satcher, she is on The Leadership Council of the First Endowed Chair for Human Sexuality at the University of Minnesota Medical school and is a continuing expert to numerous blogs and a Redbook Love Network expert.

BA General Studies concentration hard Sciences.


Sept. 15, 2014 Married At First Sight, Fifty Shades, Necessary Endings

I laughingly start with a video of Older adults reacting to the 50 Shades of Grey  Trailer.  They had a great range of responses that reflects the general population in the HuffPost Gold for the Soul.  

Reading Necessary Endings by Henry Cloud and his wisdom also applies to our sex lives and relationships. We have all seen there are absolutely times when we should have ended a sexual relationship, business relationship and or a personal relationship.   Also Want to Be Kissed The Way You Want?  Lou talks about that.

My New Guilty Pleasure - Married at First Sight - this show is  a window on how couples enter relationships.  Anyone who is a therapist or wants to learn about love and relationships should glue their eyeballs to this show.  They may call it a 'Social Experiment" yet it is an experiment that is working. 

The Married At First Sight Expert team of Pepper Schwartz PhD, Logan Levkoff PhD, Joseph Cilona PhD and Greg Epstein did an amazing job of selecting the couples and supporting these three couples through this journey.

A HUGE validation that when you are in a relationship or choosing a partner use the experts you have around you.   

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Sept. 8, 2014 founder-Sharon Summers Enterpreneur Sharon Summer and I talk about what happens within an erotic phone call business.  What are the best things people get from erotic talk?  Masturbation with a friend.  How does one get started in this? How and Who trains you?  Sharon's world is a blend of part business, part sex, part eroticism.  Who are their customers? Unique characteristics of some customers.  Adult virgins are one group. Growing interest trends? How are you different from cam girls? 

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Sept. 22, 2014 Instantly Increase Your SEX APPEAL

Whether it is a woman or a man - I am constantly asked by people who are single "How do I make myself be more appealing?  How do I 'DRAW' in my soul mate, my partner?"  So HERE we GO!!!  HOW TO INSTANTLY INCREASE YOUR SEX APPEAL.  One of your most powerful and seductive behaviors is your ATTENTION.  How you pay ATTENTION, ATTENTION is a gift, it is a powerful energy that only one person can gve to another.  LISTENING is another powerful tool you have should you use it.  Gentle lIstening will give you a life and relationship unlike you ever expected.

I suggest you do a LIST of 5 Items - You want and 5 that make YOU attractive to your partner.

When you walk with the behaviors of: Confidence, Attention, Gentle Listening, Gentle Speaking you will create a completely new world for you and your heart. 


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08/18/14 Love and Sex in the Last Days of Summer

To start I describe what the Grapefruit Blowjob by Auntie Angel is and why it might have appeal for some.  Summer is sex and relationships so as we head into the last days of summer are you looking for what you want in your life?  If so activate the Law of Attraction.  Ask yourself WHAT you REALLY want.  What and Who do you really love?  Take my quick quiz and see where you're focused. Want to know if you have a purpose in being here?  Read Proof of Heaven.  Want the sex life you want - Are you doing personal work?  How are YOU taking care of your heart? Some Sex in the News stories. 

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Show #080414 Sexual Dreams and Fantasies - Lou Interprets

Ever dreamt about doing that person at work and you wake up worried you're going to cheat or secretly wnat out of your relationship.   Not necessarily!!  It may be for  arange of other reasons.  Ever had a nocturnal orgasm?  One where you're asleep and it happens?  Kinsey's research found 40% of women have had them with women in their 40's being the largest number. Want to create erotc dreams?  Read erotica just before going to slepp and keep a VERY deatiled Dream journal.  Sometimes you'll be surprised where youur fantasies come from.   

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Sept. 15, 2014 Lou Covers Sex In The News - Married at First Sight/Fifty Shades
Sept. 8, 2014 founder Sharon Summers.
August 18, 2014 Sex and Love in the Last Days of Summer
08-04-2014 Sexual Dreams and Fantasies - Lou Discusses Them
July 28, 2014 Sex in the news, Does an Affair Mean the End?, Married at First Sight, 50 Shades Trailer
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