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The First Step is Recognizing the Problem...

In this first episode of a four-part series, Sandra Beck discusses some of the telltale signs that you are dealing with a narcissist. Whether as a boss, spouse, friend, teacher or anyone else, these relationships are sneaky and insidious until you learn to spot the destructive traits.

Empowerment is a theme that runs through all of Sandra Beck's work. Whether she is coaching a company owner to a million-dollar commission goal, training a stay-at-home mom to perform SEO on websites or speaking to a corporate group about personal and professional growth, her message is about what is possible and how to create the circumstances of your choosing. Sandra teaches all of her clients how to maximize their lives by using the power of the internet coupled with solid business practices along with the drive of their passions to create the lifestyle of their dreams.

"You start to recognize when they're going to use something against you, so you write it down and know what the actual mistake was." @sandrabeck

What You'll Learn from This Episode:

What is a narcissist?
The kinds of relationships in which you might find yourself dealing with a narcissist
What traits can make you an easy target for a narcissist
Why narcissists don't apologize
Patterns of behavior that demonstrate narcissism
Why narcissists don't understand empathy or feelings for others
How a narcissist's behavior can drive you to self-doubt and insecurity
A brief look at some of the possible roots of narcissistic behavior
Why narcissists can be strong leaders
How narcissists find your weak spot and use it to hurt you
Why narcissists isolate you from your support system
Why you'll always be wrong and they'll always be right
How control factors into a narcissist's behavior
Why narcissists will turn on those closest to them if it serves them
What makes narcissists push people's buttons and why they enjoy watching the subsequent fireworks
Why narcissists resent you for loving them
How you can "lose your voice" when in relationships with narcissists
How children can be impacted when watching parents in a narcissist-dominated relationship