Charlie Glickman PhD & Aislinn Emirzian Co-Authors - The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure

We have tons of material, research and awareness about the Female G Spot and finally the Male G Spot is getting its spotlight.  The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure - finally a plain speaking, solid sex education book for Prostate Pleasure.  As two top Sex Educators, Charlie Glickman PhD and Aislinn Emirzian have put together an easy reading book on a subject that is equal parts prostate health and powerful sexual pleasure. Charlie, Aislinn and I will debunk myths, (You are not secretly gay if you like this type of pleasure!!!) and answer the most commonly asked 'wrong' questions and deliver for women and men the potential of Prostate Pleasure.   

Men are more aware of their need for a PSA test yet few are aware that Prostate health and pleasure are closely aligned.  The Bend Over Boyfriend video series opened a new awareness that straight men enjoy penetrative play with their female partners. I know the sales numbers of hetero strap-on products with just one company were astronomical!!!

Charlie can be found at http://www.charlieglickman.com and Aislinn , www.aislinnemirzian.com.

Charlie Glickman PhD has been a sexuality educator for over twenty years. He teaches workshops on a wide range of topics, including sex-positivity, sex & shame, gender & masculinity, sexual orientation, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual practices such as prostate play, anal sex, pegging, sex toys, BDSM, and polyamory. Charlie is certified as a sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists and he regularly presents at conferences and community events, offers trainings on sexuality for medical professionals, therapists, and clergy.

Charlie is available for speaking engagements, in-service trainings, and workshops. You can find more information about him on his website.

Aislinn Emirzian is a workshop instructor and sex coach based in San  Francisco. She first became a sex educator at Smith College, and later worked with sex positive adult toy stores like Oh My  Sensuality Shop in Massachusetts and Good Vibrations in California. Over the years, she has taught workshops on a wide range   of topics, but prostate  pleasure is her favorite! Find her at www.aislinnemirzian.com.

 

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Charlie Glickman & Aislinn Emirzian                        1.16.2013

Sextalkwithlou toginet.com

6-7 PM

 

1)   What was your impetus to write this book?

2)   As fellow sex educators I know only too well this is an area of men’s anatomy that is little studied and understood.    Are there any researchers  focusing on this?  Physiologically – pelvic hypogastric vs pudendal nerve stim?   What did Beverly Whipple have to add?

3)    I really like the conversational tone of your book,  whose idea was that and why?

4)   How did you pitch this to Cleis Press your publisher?  Was it Felice Newman? 

5)   You did two different surveys of men and their partners who enjoyed this type of play.  How did you find them?  

6)   This is a type of play that all sexual identities can enjoy should they venture to do so.    What % of people would you guess have explored this?   I use the women with male partners and anal sex as a starting point for this question.  Many women have done it once and once only as it was done badly.  Most people get very poor. Translation porn shove in one shove into the other visuals that are flat out wrong.   Glad to read the , Stop if he says stop. 

7)   Hence kudos to you as I think this will be the “go-to” handbook for couples and men who want to learn about this and their bodies.

8)   Page 14 the survey participants anecdotal descriptions sounds almost exactly like woman about G spot stim.    Great comparison list on page 45.

9)   I Can you outline a Beginner Program for someone, couples curious and totally new

10)                   Who do you feel the books demos will be? 

11)                   I was at ANME last week and specifically looked for male Prostate toys, new and convertible from female toys. 

12)                   I know sales of strap-ons has gone through the ceiling in the last year.  Part may be 50 Shades but I think the Bend Over Boyfriend videos were the first water over the dam so to speak.   Your thoughts?

13)                    I know some men discovered this masturbating and or with a vibe yet were leery to share with a female partner, I loved your  Chapter 1 FAQs

14)                    Any surprises while you were researching this book?

15)                    Your diagrams particularly about the various styles of finger stim were terrific.  The stroke not poke did make me laugh

16)                    Rachel Maines is such a gem as an historical sexologist, LOVED the analogous prostate massage to the vulvar massages of the 1920s can you explain more about this.

17)                    The health aspects are in my mind going to be huge.  Whether we look at the energetic release or the stagnation to men being more comfortable with their bodies this is a pivotal area of sexual knowledge.

18)                   Anything else at the moment….

 

 

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