Lou covers her favorites of the week - Does an affair doom a relationship?  Not necessarily according to Esther Perel.   My previous guest Dr. Pepper Schwartz agrees with Perel that we now have changing ways of dealing with non-monogamy.  Why I am curious people are judging the 50 Shades film solely by the trailer and in many cases they really don't have the right to do so.  My new guilty pleasure married at First Sight a social experiment to see if science can help choose your ideal partner. Drawing from the very low arranged marriage divorce stats four experts pair three couples who meet at the altar.