Ever dreamt about doing that person at work and you wake up worried you're going to cheat or secretly wnat out of your relationship.   Not necessarily!!  It may be for  arange of other reasons.  Ever had a nocturnal orgasm?  One where you're asleep and it happens?  Kinsey's research found 40% of women have had them with women in their 40's being the largest number. Want to create erotc dreams?  Read erotica just before going to slepp and keep a VERY deatiled Dream journal.  Sometimes you'll be surprised where youur fantasies come from.