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SecondWind was created as a resource for change. 

It is a source to shine light to your darkness by hearing other women talk about their Defining Moment to transform their lives... to hear about their fears, doubts, discouragements and joys.


 

Joyce Buford, a Life coach, Author, speaker, and Internet Podcast Host, is a woman who has experienced transition in her own life and shares her secret to facing the Fear of Change with Total Confidence.

Through her unique program and coaching style, Joyce supports clients during their transition to reclaim their true purpose and strengths. Her program focuses on helping clients who have experienced their own transitions of divorce and loss to thrive without limits.

She lives her life on purpose, using and enjoying her talents to get her message out...........living with effortless happiness.


 

Learn more about Joyce at www.JoyceBufordEmpowers.com

Vision Boards & New Goals

Vision Boards & New Goals

With a new year comes expectations and hopes for a better and happier version of yourself. Unfortunately, many of us find it difficult to follow through with our resolution throughout the year. Today on SecondWind With Joyce, I will be discussing how a vision board could be the solution to making your dream life become more tangible.

How Manifesting Your Dreams Can Help You Achieve Them

“One of the things that I like most about doing a vision board, for me, it opens up my creativity and how I expressmyself...It’s like I’m reclaiming the creative part of me through my creativity.”

What You’ll Learn from This Episode:

  • There are many areas of our lives that can be added to our vision board
  • It can be helpful to focus on a few different aspects of your life that need changing 
  • We need to be specific with the goals we want to achieve and incorporate photos on our boards
  • Why you should have an emotional connection to the images you use
  • How negative thoughts can make you become a person that never changes your life. 
  • How magazines can be used on your board
  • How Neita Fran Ward created and utilized her vision board

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Why You Should Separate Performance From Self Worth

Why You Should Separate Performance From Self Worth

The way we view and value ourselves is oftentimes tied to the work we do. In this episode, Cyrina Talbott dives deep into her own experiences with having her identity attached to her career, and how she eventually felt burned out. She speaks on the danger of determining your self worth through how much work you do, and feeling the need to prove yourself. Through self healing, we see how it is possible to take your life on a different path and grow from there.

A Discussion on Your Value, Healing, & Finding Your Path

Cyrina Talbott’s mission is to help business owners accomplish their goals, purpose and vision. She helps them overcome limiting beliefs and mindset blocks that stand in the way of that. Her defining moment was when she was 27 and started a homeless shelter. It triggered all of the unhealed areas in her life that she hadn't dealt with and brought them to the surface. She completely burned out from people pleasing and non stop work. She couldn't say no because she was trying desperately to prove her worth. When that business closed, she went home and cried, ate lots of chocolate, gained 20 lbs. and started to learn the most important lesson of her life- that her worth doesn't depend on her performance.

"My life changed from constantly needing to prove myself and show people my value from the outside, and trying to get that external validation to knowing that I’m valuable even when I’m home, even when I’m not performing, even when I’m not doing what you like, even when I say no.” Cyrina Talbott

What You’ll Learn from This Episode:

  • The way your past traumas can create your current struggles and affect your habits 
  • The importance in separating your value from your productivity
  • How to overcome work interfering with family time
  • How replacing negative thoughts and being kinder to yourself can change you
  • Understanding your purpose in life and your motivation for working towards that goal
  • A beneficial way to view failure
  • You always have the power to heal, grow, and change

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How to Identify Verbal Abuse In Your Relationship

How to Identify Verbal Abuse In Your Relationship

It can be difficult to identify the signs of verbal abuse, especially if you have been made to believe that you are overreacting, or that these types of interactions are normal. Today on SecondWind With Joyce, our guest Patricia Evans offers her insight on the cause, effect, and signs of verbal abuse in a relationship. She helps us take a look into the mindset of a verbal abuser in order to better understand their behavior, and reminds the audience why we can’t trust their negative views of us.

Understanding The Mindset of an Abuser

Internationally recognized, Interpersonal Communications Specialist, Patricia Evans, is the bestselling author of five books, including The Verbally Abusive Relationship, Verbal Abuse Survivors Speak Out, Controlling People, The Verbally Abusive Man: Can He Change? and Victory Over Verbal Abuse. She has single-handedly brought the subject of verbal abuse to the forefront of American consciousness. Newsweek commended her first powerful book on the subject as “A groundbreaking new book.”

"One has to really, truly understand that verbal abuse defines you in a negative way, and it's always a lie told to you. There is no one who can tell you what you think, what you want, what you are, what you need, what you know, that you’re built wrong, made wrong, or whatever.” - Patricia Evans

What You’ll Learn from This Episode:

  • What it means to be verbally abusive, and what the signs look like
  • Where confabulations come from, and how abusive behavior is formed 
  • What our 4 functions are and what can happen if we suppress them
  • Abusive people tend to view their partners as a missing part of themselves
  • Being compassionate comes from empathy which verbal abusers tend to lack.
  • The difference between a narcissist and verbal abuser
  • How Covid-19 has made women suffering from verbal abuse feel more isolated

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Cutting Out Bad Habits

Cutting Out Bad Habits

We all have coping mechanisms that can sometimes manifest itself as bad habits. Today, we have Zoilita Grant on to show us how we can combat these bad habits, and transform our lives. The key to this transformation is setting a different tone in the way we think. We walk away with a deeper understanding of our mindset, its connection to our lifestyle, and what our emotional triggers reveal to us.

The Tools You Need to Upgrade Your Mind

Zoilita has been involved in human development for over 40 years. She graduated from UC Berkeley in 1971 with a BA in psychology and got her MSW from UTEP in 1979. She had the privilege of managing two nonprofits, a YMCA in El Paso, TX and a Drug and Alcohol program in Bellefontaine, OH. Other than a short period of time as a Drug and Alcohol corporate trainer, her entire professional life has been private practice. She worked for over 25 years as a psychotherapist specializing in hypnosis and for the last 12 years she has been a hypnotic coach. Her desire to serve both her peers and the general public led her to help form the Colorado Associations of Psychotherapists. She served as the president for 6 years. She also served as vice-president of the American Council of Hypnotists for 21 years. Personal slogan: Change Your Mind and Change Your Life

"It’s always important to remember that your mind is made up of 2 parts. It’s 85% subconscious and 15% conscious and when those 2 parts disagree the subconscious always wins” - Zoilita Grant

What You’ll Learn from This Episode:

  • How hypnosis can be used to change your mindset
  • The special connection between grandmothers and grandchildren
  • The definition of mindset and how it applies to your lifestyle
  • How to tell if you have fully processed and cleared your emotional pain
  • Why Zoilita prefers coaching over psychotherapy
  • Where habits are found in our minds and why they are formed
  • What neuro-meditation is and how it is used to reinvent yourself

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Say "Yes" To Your Heart

Say "Yes" To Your Heart

It is fairly common to find yourself following a path that lacks the excitement and passion we all deserve to experience in our life. Today on SecondWind With Joyce, our guest Julie Wood shares how women can determine their desires, needs, and how to fulfill them by listening to their heart. What started as her own journey around the world to discover her own dreams and aspirations has turned into a mission to help other women reach the same level of enlightenment in their own lives.

Becoming Familiar With Your True Goals & Needs

Julie K. Wood is devoted to helping soulful women get clear on the dream in their hearts and have the confidence to go after it.

For most of her life, she was living her mother’s dream - pursuing success in a man’s world. She graduated from an Ivy League college and rose to be a managing director at a top advertising agency in New York City. She often felt unfulfilled and uninspired, but she was so busy being who she thought she was supposed to be that she had no idea who she really was or what else she wanted to do.

It was only after giving it all up to say yes to her heart - traveling through 69 countries with her now-husband on a 5-year Spirit Journey - that she deeply connected to her own truth, joy and power. She got clear on her own HeartPath: to support other women to connect to their heartfelt truth and have the courage to express it and live it.

She now believes that true success is feeling free to be authentic, embracing your fabulous-ness and expressing honestly from the heart. It’s living your dream. As a coach and teacher, she guides women to walk their own HeartPath - not the path they were raised to walk. She teaches them to embrace their worthiness, own their confidence and love themselves enough to step to their edges, express what’s uncomfortable and embrace a life of freedom and flow.

"It sounds so simplistic but the main takeaway is the world is beautiful, the world is safe, and there are amazing people wherever you go.” - Julie K. Wood

What You’ll Learn from This Episode:

  • The contrast between how some countries are seen and how the citizens really are
  • Women across the world have similar experiences
  • What it means to drop into your heart, and how we can use this to learn our true needs and desires
  • How Julie Wood uses her passion for helping women to assist them with public speaking
  • A different perspective on how to handle and view fear & resistance 
  • How to tap into a different inner voice, and free yourself from repetitive behavior
  • An overview of the connection between your heart and brain with decision making 

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